I can understand what you are saying, and at the end it’s your decision, but I support breeding very much, it’s a wonderful feeling to have a big family, beautiful children who will take care of you when you get old, where you can count on them if you were ill and lonely, I come from a big family, I have 7 sisters and 2 brothers ,and I appreciate the family values very much, If I was in trouble or ill or lonely , I will find someone who will take care of me and cry on their shoulders , friends are not always there . Period, they have their lives, their problems, they are not always there, people marry to have children and build a family, I love my family very much.

If you really want to experience to have kids then do it, being an artist doesn’t prevent you from having kids, there are a lot of people who are artists but still have kids, that’s not an excuse
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I’m sorry because of what happened to your sister , I feel your pain , but Just because that happened to your sister doesn’t mean that It will happen to you , please don’t think that way, you have to be optimistic about the future if you want to have kids.

Hon, I’m not trying to convince you in anyway, at the end, I’m ignorant about your whole situation, this is all your personal decision, having children is a big thing, a big responsibility but still a beautiful and important thing especially for the married couple.

seeingvoices12 said:

I like what you're saying and you're probably right about the same thing happening to me that happened to my sister but I know I would definitely worry about it. I hope I can over come my fears or live with my decision if I decide not to. I'm giving myself a couple of years.....