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Reply #120 posted 03/31/10 4:10am

erik319

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zaza said:

Poiple said:




What part is going nowhere? Is she giving you the cold shoulder? Won't talk? What's up?

I slept only two-three hours..then when she WASN'T WAITING for me, I waited for her..she was trying to be arrogant, I told her why I sent that message to that man, she was angry, I cried, I told her my poem, I cried, ..., I cried, ..., I cried, I slipped on the floor, she laughed..then it was alright. She said she has to think about it, but maybe in week she will be with me again.. But my friend told me Jane told her (damn, this post is full of TOLD lol) she said that to me because she didn't want to hurt me that much in a short time..

This is my final statement for her: She would FORGIVE me and give me another chance or wave ..story continues tomorrow.. neutral

Again, I'm sorry this post is a little bit confusing.. smile



Urgh... some women can be a pain in the arse. My ex girlfriend did the whole 'we need to talk' conversation (over the phone, not face to face), where she listed all the things I did to irritate her. Now we'd dated before, years ago and when we decided to give it another go, I went into the relationship with the opinion of 'If it isn't important, let it go. Don't argue about pointless crap, let it slide'.

Unfortunately, it wasn't her opinion, and she just went on and on about all these horrible things I did (not run her a bath, leave my magazine on the coffee table, you know... Dare to go round to my mates house for a couple of cans when she went out with her mates for cocktail night... What a bastard eh?!)


And I loved her, so I said I was sorry and that I would change, and she should give me another chance, she said she needed time to consider it, blah blah... I was booing by the end of the call...

She phoned while I was at my parents. They really got on with her, but I thought I'd talk it through with them... Went through the conversation with them and they turned round and said 'So you're willing to be unhappy, subservient and at her beck an call are you?'

I thought about it. Picked up my phone, phoned her back and said 'Don't bother taking time to think about it, it's over. I don't want to be with you.'

It felt really good. I was sad for a while, but just over a year later, I'm in a wonderful relationship with someone who loves me for who I am, not who they want me to be, and I love them the same. Bliss wink

I'd have loved to see her face when I told her it was over though, backfire of the century that one smile

So anyway, what I'm trying to say Zaza, is that if she 'accepts' you back, it'll all be on her terms, she'll use it against you to get her way all the time, and you'll just have to take it like a kicked puppy. Fuck her off, get an upgrade. You can do better than someone who plays mindgames.

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Reply #121 posted 03/31/10 4:25am

zaza

erik319 said:

zaza said:


I slept only two-three hours..then when she WASN'T WAITING for me, I waited for her..she was trying to be arrogant, I told her why I sent that message to that man, she was angry, I cried, I told her my poem, I cried, ..., I cried, ..., I cried, I slipped on the floor, she laughed..then it was alright. She said she has to think about it, but maybe in week she will be with me again.. But my friend told me Jane told her (damn, this post is full of TOLD lol) she said that to me because she didn't want to hurt me that much in a short time..

This is my final statement for her: She would FORGIVE me and give me another chance or wave ..story continues tomorrow.. neutral

Again, I'm sorry this post is a little bit confusing.. smile



Urgh... some women can be a pain in the arse. My ex girlfriend did the whole 'we need to talk' conversation (over the phone, not face to face), where she listed all the things I did to irritate her. Now we'd dated before, years ago and when we decided to give it another go, I went into the relationship with the opinion of 'If it isn't important, let it go. Don't argue about pointless crap, let it slide'.

Unfortunately, it wasn't her opinion, and she just went on and on about all these horrible things I did (not run her a bath, leave my magazine on the coffee table, you know... Dare to go round to my mates house for a couple of cans when she went out with her mates for cocktail night... What a bastard eh?!)


And I loved her, so I said I was sorry and that I would change, and she should give me another chance, she said she needed time to consider it, blah blah... I was booing by the end of the call...

She phoned while I was at my parents. They really got on with her, but I thought I'd talk it through with them... Went through the conversation with them and they turned round and said 'So you're willing to be unhappy, subservient and at her beck an call are you?'

I thought about it. Picked up my phone, phoned her back and said 'Don't bother taking time to think about it, it's over. I don't want to be with you.'

It felt really good. I was sad for a while, but just over a year later, I'm in a wonderful relationship with someone who loves me for who I am, not who they want me to be, and I love them the same. Bliss wink

I'd have loved to see her face when I told her it was over though, backfire of the century that one smile

So anyway, what I'm trying to say Zaza, is that if she 'accepts' you back, it'll all be on her terms, she'll use it against you to get her way all the time, and you'll just have to take it like a kicked puppy. Fuck her off, get an upgrade. You can do better than someone who plays mindgames.

wink

Great story! I thought about that..but I will wait until Tuesday to hear "true" reason behind our break up, because she said it's not because of that message but it has to do something with her family (which is quite strange, because her mother is great, only her father was very nervous because I was the first Jane's boy who saw them). I count the days..
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Reply #122 posted 03/31/10 9:54am

dag

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zaza said:

JustErin said:

So not only does she not love you, she doesn't want to be with you at all.

Time to find another girl.

That will be hard..I want girl who doesn't smoke, drink etc. lol


wave Here i am. lol
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Reply #123 posted 03/31/10 9:56am

zaza

dag said:

zaza said:


That will be hard..I want girl who doesn't smoke, drink etc. lol


wave Here i am. lol

And you're good looking too batting eyes lol
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Reply #124 posted 03/31/10 9:56am

dag

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erik319 said:

zaza said:


I slept only two-three hours..then when she WASN'T WAITING for me, I waited for her..she was trying to be arrogant, I told her why I sent that message to that man, she was angry, I cried, I told her my poem, I cried, ..., I cried, ..., I cried, I slipped on the floor, she laughed..then it was alright. She said she has to think about it, but maybe in week she will be with me again.. But my friend told me Jane told her (damn, this post is full of TOLD lol) she said that to me because she didn't want to hurt me that much in a short time..

This is my final statement for her: She would FORGIVE me and give me another chance or wave ..story continues tomorrow.. neutral

Again, I'm sorry this post is a little bit confusing.. smile



Urgh... some women can be a pain in the arse. My ex girlfriend did the whole 'we need to talk' conversation (over the phone, not face to face), where she listed all the things I did to irritate her. Now we'd dated before, years ago and when we decided to give it another go, I went into the relationship with the opinion of 'If it isn't important, let it go. Don't argue about pointless crap, let it slide'.

Unfortunately, it wasn't her opinion, and she just went on and on about all these horrible things I did (not run her a bath, leave my magazine on the coffee table, you know... Dare to go round to my mates house for a couple of cans when she went out with her mates for cocktail night... What a bastard eh?!)


And I loved her, so I said I was sorry and that I would change, and she should give me another chance, she said she needed time to consider it, blah blah... I was booing by the end of the call...

She phoned while I was at my parents. They really got on with her, but I thought I'd talk it through with them... Went through the conversation with them and they turned round and said 'So you're willing to be unhappy, subservient and at her beck an call are you?'

I thought about it. Picked up my phone, phoned her back and said 'Don't bother taking time to think about it, it's over. I don't want to be with you.'

It felt really good. I was sad for a while, but just over a year later, I'm in a wonderful relationship with someone who loves me for who I am, not who they want me to be, and I love them the same. Bliss wink

I'd have loved to see her face when I told her it was over though, backfire of the century that one smile

So anyway, what I'm trying to say Zaza, is that if she 'accepts' you back, it'll all be on her terms, she'll use it against you to get her way all the time, and you'll just have to take it like a kicked puppy. Fuck her off, get an upgrade. You can do better than someone who plays mindgames.

wink

Lucky you.
"When Michael Jackson is just singing and dancing, you just think this is an astonishing talent. And he has had this astounding talent all his life, but we want him to be floored as well. We really don´t like the idea that he could have it all."
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Reply #125 posted 03/31/10 10:02am

zaza

zaza said:

dag said:



wave Here i am. lol

And you're good looking too batting eyes lol

We can meet up sometimes in Prague.
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Reply #126 posted 03/31/10 10:18am

dag

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zaza said:

zaza said:


And you're good looking too batting eyes lol

We can meet up sometimes in Prague.

Thanks. Well, hopefully one day, soon.
"When Michael Jackson is just singing and dancing, you just think this is an astonishing talent. And he has had this astounding talent all his life, but we want him to be floored as well. We really don´t like the idea that he could have it all."
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Reply #127 posted 03/31/10 10:21am

zaza

dag said:

zaza said:


We can meet up sometimes in Prague.

Thanks. Well, hopefully one day, soon.

smile

Now I'm waiting for vivid or TheVoid to post tonk emoticon lol
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Reply #128 posted 03/31/10 11:50am

florescent

Is anyone else getting 'the ballad of Dorothy Parker' in their head everytime they read this thread title?
I can't stop singing it now. rolleyes
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Reply #129 posted 03/31/10 11:52am

zaza

florescent said:

Is anyone else getting 'the ballad of Dorothy Parker' in their head everytime they read this thread title?
I can't stop singing it now. rolleyes

I can't stop singing 17 Days now.. cry But yes, now I'm singing Dorothy smile
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Reply #130 posted 03/31/10 11:57am

florescent

zaza said:

florescent said:

Is anyone else getting 'the ballad of Dorothy Parker' in their head everytime they read this thread title?
I can't stop singing it now. rolleyes

I can't stop singing 17 Days now.. cry But yes, now I'm singing Dorothy smile

hug Awwww. Bless your heart Zaza! You'll be fine darl.
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Reply #131 posted 03/31/10 12:08pm

zaza

florescent said:

zaza said:


I can't stop singing 17 Days now.. cry But yes, now I'm singing Dorothy smile

hug Awwww. Bless your heart Zaza! You'll be fine darl.

Thanks..I'm outside right now and it's raining.. So let the rain come down, let the rain come down..
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Reply #132 posted 03/31/10 12:32pm

Number23

If someone dumped me on facebook, I'd feed them their pets. You should be glad you're free from this emotional retard.
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Reply #133 posted 03/31/10 12:38pm

zaza

Number23 said:

If someone dumped me on facebook, I'd feed them their pets. You should be glad you're free from this emotional retard.

I know, but it's not that easy..and if it's because of her parents, it must be difficult for her too..
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Reply #134 posted 03/31/10 1:12pm

Acrylic

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Number23 said:

If someone dumped me on facebook, I'd feed them their pets. You should be glad you're free from this emotional retard.


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batting eyes ACRYLIC batting eyes
I do nothing professionally.
I only do things for fun.

johnart: Acrylic's old bras is where tits of all sizes go to frolic after they die. Tit Heaven.
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Reply #135 posted 03/31/10 3:33pm

zaza

IT'S OVER! She finished it via short messages and it was the biggest bullshit I've ever read!

"I want to have some fun and don't want to take care about somebody."

"I was today outside with one boy and he's nice."

"I want to be your friend and be your gf again on September."

...I MEAN REALLY?! mad wacky
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Reply #136 posted 03/31/10 3:37pm

Serious

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zaza said:

IT'S OVER! She finished it via short messages and it was the biggest bullshit I've ever read!

"I want to have some fun and don't want to take care about somebody."

"I was today outside with one boy and he's nice."

"I want to be your friend and be your gf again on September."

...I MEAN REALLY?! mad wacky

I am sorry pat. She's totally not ready for a relationship, there's nothing you can do about that.
With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A....
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Reply #137 posted 03/31/10 3:39pm

Aelis

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zaza said:

IT'S OVER! She finished it via short messages and it was the biggest bullshit I've ever read!

"I want to have some fun and don't want to take care about somebody."

"I was today outside with one boy and he's nice."

"I want to be your friend and be your gf again on September."

...I MEAN REALLY?! mad wacky


Whaaat? This is tragicomical!

hug
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Reply #138 posted 03/31/10 3:40pm

zaza

Aelis said:

zaza said:

IT'S OVER! She finished it via short messages and it was the biggest bullshit I've ever read!

"I want to have some fun and don't want to take care about somebody."

"I was today outside with one boy and he's nice."

"I want to be your friend and be your gf again on September."

...I MEAN REALLY?! mad wacky


Whaaat? This is tragicomical!

hug

mad
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Reply #139 posted 03/31/10 3:47pm

zaza

I wish you all spoke Czech, because I'd like to tell you everything! mad But my English is so limited I can't even tell you every single thing she WROTE me mad This situation is stupid, meaningless, I'm just a big idiot who believes everybody mad
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Reply #140 posted 03/31/10 3:49pm

Aelis

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zaza said:

Aelis said:



Whaaat? This is tragicomical!

hug

mad


Her point of view doesn't exist in my world. I could never think about those things the way she does. Not even close. Especially those friend - girlfriend definitions and all... It's in no way funny that she caused you pain, but what she wrote is both sad and funny to me, and quite immature.

I would never make fun of your feelings rose
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Reply #141 posted 03/31/10 3:51pm

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Aelis said:

zaza said:


mad


Her point of view doesn't exist in my world. I could never think about those things the way she does. Not even close. Especially those friend - girlfriend definitions and all... It's in no way funny that she caused you pain, but what she wrote is both sad and funny to me, and quite immature.

I would never make fun of your feelings rose

nod
With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A....
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Reply #142 posted 03/31/10 3:59pm

zaza

Aelis said:

zaza said:


mad


Her point of view doesn't exist in my world. I could never think about those things the way she does. Not even close. Especially those friend - girlfriend definitions and all... It's in no way funny that she caused you pain, but what she wrote is both sad and funny to me, and quite immature.

I would never make fun of your feelings rose

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Reply #143 posted 03/31/10 4:07pm

Aelis

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zaza said:

Aelis said:



Her point of view doesn't exist in my world. I could never think about those things the way she does. Not even close. Especially those friend - girlfriend definitions and all... It's in no way funny that she caused you pain, but what she wrote is both sad and funny to me, and quite immature.

I would never make fun of your feelings rose

cry


Heey, you have to try the bad things so you could find the good ones! "Cross the others off your list", you know?

Besides, I do not know the girl. I can't say she is immature, but what she wrote qualifies as such to me.

hug I know it's hard, trust me
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Reply #144 posted 03/31/10 4:11pm

mostbeautifulb
oy

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zaza said:

I wish you all spoke Czech, because I'd like to tell you everything!



So tell us in Czech and we can have fun with google translator biggrin
My name is Naz!!! and I have a windmill where my brain is supposed to be.....

ديفيد باوي إلى الأبد
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Reply #145 posted 03/31/10 4:14pm

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mostbeautifulboy said:

zaza said:

I wish you all spoke Czech, because I'd like to tell you everything!



So tell us in Czech and we can have fun with google translator biggrin


biggrin No!!
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Reply #146 posted 03/31/10 4:14pm

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zaza said:

IT'S OVER! She finished it via short messages and it was the biggest bullshit I've ever read!

"I want to have some fun and don't want to take care about somebody."

"I was today outside with one boy and he's nice."

"I want to be your friend and be your gf again on September."

...I MEAN REALLY?! mad wacky



WTF is that!!! I cant believe she even has the NERVE to think you will be at her beck and call!! I have half a mind to go on FB and post EXACTLY what I think of her and her immature stupid ass comments on her wall!! DAMN! mad
UNBELIEVEABLE!! Zaza, if you havent moved into the anger phase over that shit im gonna throw a brick at your head!!!

btw, 2nd time you got to use wacky wink
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Reply #147 posted 03/31/10 4:15pm

zaza

mostbeautifulboy said:

zaza said:

I wish you all spoke Czech, because I'd like to tell you everything!



So tell us in Czech and we can have fun with google translator biggrin

I don't want you to die lol


I can't sleep again mad Why does she have to send me those messages at night?! I want to sleep, not to be angry/confused/beaten instead of good sleep!
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Reply #148 posted 03/31/10 4:15pm

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mostbeautifulboy said:

zaza said:

I wish you all spoke Czech, because I'd like to tell you everything!



So tell us in Czech and we can have fun with google translator biggrin




OMG i used it to tell zaza something in czech and they all laughed at me! lol I just hope I didnt say anything offensive! lol
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Reply #149 posted 03/31/10 4:16pm

zaza

tinaz said:

zaza said:

IT'S OVER! She finished it via short messages and it was the biggest bullshit I've ever read!

"I want to have some fun and don't want to take care about somebody."

"I was today outside with one boy and he's nice."

"I want to be your friend and be your gf again on September."

...I MEAN REALLY?! mad wacky



WTF is that!!! I cant believe she even has the NERVE to think you will be at her beck and call!! I have half a mind to go on FB and post EXACTLY what I think of her and her immature stupid ass comments on her wall!! DAMN! mad
UNBELIEVEABLE!! Zaza, if you havent moved into the anger phase over that shit im gonna throw a brick at your head!!!

btw, 2nd time you got to use wacky wink

I'm angry and I told her I WON'T WAIT UNTIL FUCKING SEPTEMBER, WHEN SHE WILL BE SEEING OTHER GUYS.
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