Lammastide said:

Genesia said:

Well, it would be easy..BUT..she's my schoolmate at the uni..

zaza said:

So? The only thing hard about that is that you will still see her around.

Honey, she doesn't like you. I'm sorry to be so blunt, but no girl who likes you would do what she's done.

Ignore her from now on. It'll hurt for awhile, but as Lammastide said, you'll get over her and meet someone else.

Genesia said:

I'm doing one seminary work with her..that's not easy. She likes me, but her mother told me she's like this sometimes..that's why I need to talk with her.

Genesia said:

Couldn't agree more.

I think one of the things you have to ask yourself is, would you do ever this to someone you cared for, even as just a friend?

And if the answer to that is a resounding no, then don't put up with it yourself. Just move along my friend.

Oh Zaza... I'm sorry to hear that you're going through this.

In my personal opinion, angry or not, you should NEVER break up with someone over the computer or text. In person is always best, but at the VERY least have the decency to tell them over the phone if you're not ready to see them. I think that if she is going to break up with you over something as petty as that, then you could do better. All you did was message a guy that DESERVED to be told off -- you did what a good boyfriend SHOULD do! And if she can't see that, what does that say about her?

And not being able to SPEAK to her at her parent's house?! That's INSANITY!

You are intelligent, funny, and absolutely adorable! You deserve someone who is going to realize this and give you the same love and respect in return of what you give to them. It's a big ocean, Zaza, with tons of fish that would love to be with you!

Fenwick said:

Matt, my friend..she's like that, very moody.. I know when I'll have time to talk with her, she will understand. If not..then I'll have to take that loss.

paintedlady said:

If she had one iota of respect for you (or herself, honestly) she would have done it face-to-face. You deserve better than that, my friend.

zaza said:

"She's like this sometimes" is a classic evasion. Her mother is lying - she's making excuses for her daughter.

You do not "need" to talk to her. And you'll only make things worse if you try.

Acrylic said:

I love you, Sammy But she was just like me. She was never at club, she doesn't drink etc..not many girls at their 20's are like that.

You need to get your Morris on...

I want the bitch to come to me. I'm the only star in this town!

zaza said:

Love you too boo.
You're right, there aren't many girls nowadays that don't live a partying lifestyle at our age -- but there are SOME.
And sometimes, it's worth waiting and looking for one, than being disrespected by the one you already got.

Acrylic said:

I still hope it will be ok..I will see tomorrow. The first positive step would be she will TALK with me, not just dumb fb message.

zaza said:

Whatever happens, you'll be okay; and we're here for you.

Acrylic said:

And then you can send me some "pictures"

zaza said:

Haha, yes, I remember...
I told you -- one day I'm gonna and you're not gonna know what to say!

Acrylic said:

Still waiting for that day

Zaza, that sucks.

Looks like a lot of people have given you some great advice already. The only thing I could possibly add is that when I was your age, I wish I had spent less time chasing after guys and worrying about the ones who didn't really care about me.
I'm sorry you're hurting now and i'm sure it will continue for a while. Keep your chin up and move on.

florescent said:

Thanks Strange is that one fortune teller told her few months ago that one boy will be her love of her life..and from what I've heard it's me, because she was talking about "old woman who takes care of him" - that's my grandmother, plus some other things.

paintedlady said:

On the flipside, if my boyfriend sent a message to some dude like that, I would be pretty upset about it.

Friggin' facebook. Causes so many issues with couples.

JustErin said:

zaza said:

Forget the fortune teller. You will end up clutching at straws and wanting to believe it.
Get on with your life, have fun and enjoy yourself and if it's meant to be, fate will let it happen. That's what I think anyway.

Good Luck.

florescent said:

This gives hope to TheVoid that you're available, doesn't it....

BlackAdder7 said:

BlackAdder7 said:

I was sooooo gonna say that!

Genesia said:

I can't fall asleep..

"Jan, I don't want to talk about it with you, I need to think about it on my own, maybe I won't be angry in some time. I won't wait for you on the bus station tomorrow, I think you've already told me your reasons, but I won't accept them now. Good night."