HamsterHuey said:

HamsterHuey said:

oh.

TheVoid said:

Is that you in your avatar?

Good.

My latest crush was driving me crazy. I feel much calmer now that I somehow stopped thinking about him so much

But as he is a musician I might lose my mind all over again next time I see him play as it was music that got me into him in the first place...

thekidsgirl said:

That sounds nice

I will never, ever, ever crush again. Ever.

If by CRUSH you mean your balls getting stuck under a caterpillar and being rolled over, I think it definitely is quite bad.

But only if by BAD you mean the feeling of running into a wall with a boner. Because that is also quite bad.

florescent said:

Just wait...

Crushing is fun for me.
I never put my heart in it so I dont get hurt.
I usually have a 'whatever' attitude so it works.

DanceWme said:

Yeah, I would say that's what it's like mostly for me too. Crushes tend not to hurt me too much 'cause I think of them as light-hearted and just for fun.

DanceWme said:

You know, it sounds like a healthy attitude but deep down inside blablabla

AndGodCreatedMe said:

DanceWme said:

GuRRRLL, U betta watch out. Christopher will turn your heart to up from the flo up.

TheVoid said:

Thats my boo.

I hate having crushes. Your stomach does that weird butterfly motion thing and your always guaranteed to do something foolish, like walk into a display in the supermarket for example

Dave1992 said:

Fauxie said:

3 guys, 6 years wasted

I have a kind of friend crush and it's making me really down at the moment because for the foreseeable future I can't see her. I just really want the drama to end and to be normal friends. I want her to be my best friend, but right now I'd settle for normality and just being able to get together sometimes like normal friends do.

Fauxie said:

You're married.

Stop that shit.
like normal, married men do.

TheVoid said:

I love her and I want us to be friends for life. I'm so glad we met her, but lawd if it ain't difficult. You should've seen Mon and I yesterday afternoon, we were crestfallen. Voldemort sent an e-mail saying they'd had a heart to heart, listing all the reasons why we're supposedly bad people and a bad influence on them, saying she had opened up to him and was now seeing things his way. He said they'd both agreed that they weren't going to have any contact with us anymore. Something didn't seem right, but still we felt like he may have persuaded her to think that way. We'd agreed with her that we wouldn't see her or call for a while, to try to make things less complicated, but Mon couldn't help but call her to see what was happening. I thought we'd lost her as a friend. Turns out he'd just told her he was going to send an e-mail saying all that and she'd said 'go ahead, do what you like' and it didn't reflect her views. This made me happy, but then really quite sad and disturbed that he would make all of that up. He must be extremely desperate. Anyway, we've now agreed with her to just lay low and not get involved so as to give him less reasons to blow things up. He probably will still find a way though. Life would be far simpler to do as he wishes and forget both of them, but I want to be friends with her.

Fauxie said:

You're a married man.
Cut that shit out.

TheVoid said:

Why should I?

The three of us should be able to be friends if that's what we want.

I can see it ending badly though. To be honest I can't see how it won't.

Fauxie said:

He used to be married to your wife.
he's now married to a woman you have a crush on.

You couldn't write a Thai soap opera more tragic.

cut that shit out.

TheVoid said:

Not that kind of crush though. I don't see why I should cut it out. Haven't you had friends you were extremely close to and would feel sad to lose from your life? I don't see my being married as an issue, nor him being married to Mon before. If she wants to leave him it's up to her. Me, Mon and her being friends is separate, it's just that he's looking for people to blame for his failed marriage and he's lashing out. He may believe I've been a bad friend but everybody else knows and has seen how much I put into it, up until I simply had nothing more to give in the face of his increasingly hard to understand actions. He doesn't want to hear from me anymore so I've largely kept quiet and never once responded negatively despite being baited. I can't know if he really believes the bad things he says about me or not, so it has come to an end for our friendship, though I still only want the best for him and always will. Why should my friendship ending with him mean we can't be friends with her? He just needs to accept that as things are his wife doesn't want him back. I don't feel in any way responsible, just sad that things turned out the way they did. What I've had to come to terms with is that no matter how much I want it, no matter how hard I try to make things better, and no matter how good I know my intentions are, sometimes I can't make things right and someone can be capable of hating me.

Fauxie said:

lawd, I'm talking about the crush that makes you watch some stranger grip a ladle with his beautiful hands and pour soup you're not even in the mood to sip, fool.

TheVoid said:

Yeah, I just tried to work with the word crush so I could vent my feelings.

Aren't nearly all of the folks ladling soup into a bowl at those little restaurants old women? Are you going to a specific restaurant purely over a guy?

Oh, and go take a pic of this unobtainable Chinese ass so that this thread means something.

Otherwise, cut that shit out.

Fauxie said:

I'm going to the restaurant specifically to watch him do his thing!
I couldn't give fuckall for the food!

I'm about to go down there now for some soup... lawd, I hope he wears my favorite pair of jeans today.

Fauxie said:

I'm thinking of purchases the new Ipod Nano, just so I can video tape him covert like.