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Reply #30 posted 03/09/10 5:54pm

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NDRU said:



I think when you present yourself as a hateful person who says horrible things all the time about everyone, you tend to get a pass (once you're accepted by the mainstream) more than the "nice" people who slip up & say something bad once or twice.

But actually I love Howard. I truly believe he's a decent person under the persona. Comments like these are brutally honest, but he is being truthful about Hollywood. It's true, she has some serious hurdles to overcome to have a career. And he's suggesting that she's being lied to when people say otherwise, which I also agree with.

Not that I could ever talk like him. I could not stand to say such mean things.
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There is being honest and there is being a complete and total asshole.

Is it really impossible, are people really that fucking shallow that they would not let her talent speak for itself?

Gabby is happy with Gabby so what other people think about her is of no consequence.


I agree, he's a total asshole, I have only learned to understand his language, so I don't hear it quite the same as the first time I heard him.

It's not impossible, no, she's already had a high profile role. But Hollywood IS very shallow! Look at who has won Best Actress awards recently. Some are decent actresses but they're basically all skinny & beautiful (not that Gabby is not beautiful, but I'm just saying that does seem to be a prerequisite).

I think his point, though it is very mean the way it's said, is not too different than any exec saying "you have a nice voice but I hate that shirt & your hairstyle" It's a personal comment about image as it related to marketability. It's mean, but it's all about $.

The real question is not if Howard is right but why is he right and why doesn't Hollywood represent all types equally?
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Reply #31 posted 03/09/10 5:55pm

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PricelessHo said:

Vendetta1 said:

She is really the only person on the red carpet the other day that had some life to her. She said:

[i]If fashion is porn, this dress is the money shot[/i]. lol


i saw that falloff

and then she twirled mushy
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Reply #32 posted 03/09/10 5:55pm

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Sorry but I'm not PC and have always found very Howard funny!! giggle lol


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He says everything in a very eloquent manner. confused But there's truth to what he's saying. I honestly can't see Gabby in any other roles besides the one in Precious. Howard is an ass though.
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Reply #33 posted 03/09/10 6:03pm

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Paul always seems to have a good time when he's in Howards studio...confuse
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Reply #34 posted 03/09/10 6:09pm

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Paul always seems to have a good time when he's in Howards studio...confuse
I didn't even listen to what Paul said on this but I am guessing a lot of people would not say to someone's face what they do behind their backs. Howard included.
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Reply #35 posted 03/09/10 6:10pm

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My problem with what Howard is that, even though it may be true that Hollywood is too shallow to let Gabby have a real career, he said it in a tone that said he believed that she didn't deserve to have a decent career b/c of her weight. And that's a fucked up way to think. Plus he seemed to have a true disgust for the way she looked.

Asshole.
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Reply #36 posted 03/09/10 6:11pm

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Vendetta1 said:

thejason said:

Paul always seems to have a good time when he's in Howards studio...confuse
I didn't even listen to what Paul said on this but I am guessing a lot of people would not say to someone's face what they do behind their backs. Howard included.



I think thats an old clip from Paul..because last I heard, he said he wouldnt use the n-word anymore...and he's been on howards show several times...I think entertainers as a whole only believe about 5% of the bullshit they say...shrug
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Reply #37 posted 03/09/10 6:13pm

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For those who said they can't see Gabby in other roles. Guess what?

http://www.shadowandact.com/?p=18892

A new indie film on the way with Lenny Kravitz daughter razz
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Reply #38 posted 03/09/10 6:13pm

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My problem with what Howard is that, even though it may be true that Hollywood is too shallow to let Gabby have a real career, he said it in a tone that said he believed that she didn't deserve to have a decent career b/c of her weight. And that's a fucked up way to think. Plus he seemed to have a true disgust for the way she looked.

Asshole.
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Reply #39 posted 03/09/10 6:14pm

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thejason said:

Vendetta1 said:

I didn't even listen to what Paul said on this but I am guessing a lot of people would not say to someone's face what they do behind their backs. Howard included.



I think thats an old clip from Paul..because last I heard, he said he wouldnt use the n-word anymore...and he's been on howards show several times...I think entertainers as a whole only believe about 5% of the bullshit they say...shrug
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I agree. Unfortunately, they have a bunch of people taking them at their word.
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Reply #40 posted 03/09/10 6:20pm

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Vendetta1 said:

they have a bunch of people taking them at their word.

and thats the problem...people concern themselves with other peoples thoughts too much...I take all that shit from entertainment land with a grain of salt...if I agree with what I hear, cool...if I don't, guess what, still cool...I wish people would find better give a fuck meters...shrug
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Reply #41 posted 03/09/10 6:21pm

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Harlepolis said:

For those who said they can't see Gabby in other roles. Guess what?

http://www.shadowandact.com/?p=18892

A new indie film on the way with Lenny Kravitz daughter razz



I was gonna say she already completed that film and has others lined up, coupled with the fact that she's started a weight loss program..
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Reply #42 posted 03/09/10 6:22pm

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thejason said:

Vendetta1 said:

they have a bunch of people taking them at their word.

and thats the problem...people concern themselves with other peoples thoughts too much...I take all that shit from entertainment land with a grain of salt...if I agree with what I hear, cool...if I don't, guess what, still cool...I wish people would find better give a fuck meters...shrug
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Reply #43 posted 03/09/10 6:22pm

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banks said:

Harlepolis said:

For those who said they can't see Gabby in other roles. Guess what?

http://www.shadowandact.com/?p=18892

A new indie film on the way with Lenny Kravitz daughter razz



I was gonna say she already completed that film and has others lined up, coupled with the fact that she's started a weight loss program..
Oh banks, please don't let facts ruin what Howard said. lol
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Reply #44 posted 03/09/10 6:32pm

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Vendetta1 said:

banks said:




I was gonna say she already completed that film and has others lined up, coupled with the fact that she's started a weight loss program..
Oh banks, please don't let facts ruin what Howard said. lol



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Reply #45 posted 03/09/10 6:36pm

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banks said:

Vendetta1 said:

Oh banks, please don't let facts ruin what Howard said. lol



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Reply #46 posted 03/09/10 7:08pm

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midiscover said:

joseph8 said:

Sorry but I'm not PC and have always found very Howard funny!! giggle lol


giggle

He says everything in a very eloquent manner. confused But there's truth to what he's saying. I honestly can't see Gabby in any other roles besides the one in Precious. Howard is an ass though.

I can, talents speaks for itself and she already has movies lined up. She was a college student so if she doesn't want to act full time, she doesn't have to. Gabby's a smart girl biggrin
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Reply #47 posted 03/09/10 7:11pm

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It was an assholish way to put things, but that's always been his gig. This shouldn't shock or outrage anyone any more than most any other thing he's done.

For the exception of Gabby deserving her nomination (I was hoping she'd be the upset actually pout), there is some truth in what he says. Only time will tell how far her acting career will go. I think she's got the goods, but I doubt the opportunities will be there to allow her to work competitively in Hollywood.
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Reply #48 posted 03/09/10 7:17pm

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While I don't agree with his tone, he is right. She is going to get typecasted. It's the same for almost all young, overweight girls in Hollywood. They get casted as the funny best friend. And while I loved her performance, I also wanted her to win the Oscar because I felt like it would be her last chance.

But I hope I end up being wrong.
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Reply #49 posted 03/09/10 7:31pm

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JuliePurplehead said:

While I don't agree with his tone, he is right. She is going to get typecasted. It's the same for almost all young, overweight girls in Hollywood. They get casted as the funny best friend. And while I loved her performance, I also wanted her to win the Oscar because I felt like it would be her last chance.

But I hope I end up being wrong.


Most actresses outside the Hollywood weight mold who hit it big with something end up shedding some of their weight. They try to play it down as "I did it for me" or whatever not to get called a sell out, but it's what they do.

America Ferrara comes to mind.



Also the Less than Perfect chick, whom I totally preferred with weight on her:
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Reply #50 posted 03/09/10 7:33pm

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johnart said:

JuliePurplehead said:

While I don't agree with his tone, he is right. She is going to get typecasted. It's the same for almost all young, overweight girls in Hollywood. They get casted as the funny best friend. And while I loved her performance, I also wanted her to win the Oscar because I felt like it would be her last chance.

But I hope I end up being wrong.


Most actresses outside the Hollywood weight mold who hit it big with something end up shedding some of their weight. They try to play it down as "I did it for me" or whatever not to get called a sell out, but it's what they do.

America Ferrara comes to mind.




Wait a minute! That second picture looks photoshopped to high hell. She's not that small
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Reply #51 posted 03/09/10 7:34pm

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bboy87 said:

johnart said:



Most actresses outside the Hollywood weight mold who hit it big with something end up shedding some of their weight. They try to play it down as "I did it for me" or whatever not to get called a sell out, but it's what they do.

America Ferrara comes to mind.




Wait a minute! That second picture looks photoshopped to high hell. She's not that small

nod And STILL bad built lol
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Reply #52 posted 03/09/10 7:40pm

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bboy87 said:




Wait a minute! That second picture looks photoshopped to high hell. She's not that small



thats alot of head on them shoulders...
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Reply #53 posted 03/09/10 7:41pm

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thejason said:

bboy87 said:




Wait a minute! That second picture looks photoshopped to high hell. She's not that small



thats alot of head on them shoulders...

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Reply #54 posted 03/09/10 7:46pm

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bboy87 said:

johnart said:



Most actresses outside the Hollywood weight mold who hit it big with something end up shedding some of their weight. They try to play it down as "I did it for me" or whatever not to get called a sell out, but it's what they do.

America Ferrara comes to mind.




Wait a minute! That second picture looks photoshopped to high hell. She's not that small


This is surprising to you how?? lol
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Reply #55 posted 03/09/10 7:47pm

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Reply #56 posted 03/09/10 8:53pm

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I think it's fine that people agree with him. We're all entitled to have an opinion. Do I agree? No. No matter what size she is, I believe she will have a career beyond Precious. Anyone who runs their mouth like Howard wants attention. That's what he's known for. I haven't entertained his BS in ages. If she's in his mouth, in his head, baby girl must be doing something right. It's when they stop talking about you when it's a problem.

It's funny and really pathetic how hard some people try to bring others down. I wonder what's missing in their lives? I'm trying not to get worked up here 'cause I loved that woman in her role. (And yeah, I'm a big gal too.) Someone out there is watching. Someone we don't know of yet who isn't going to see Gabby and "typecast" her into the many labels bigger women get thrown into. But that's just how I feel. What is most important, honestly, is how she feels. I'm sure she shrugs off crap like Howard's drivel on the daily. But it isn't stopping her from being seen and smiling for the camera.

So let Howie boo boo run his ittle mouth. wink
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Reply #57 posted 03/09/10 9:57pm

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Vendetta1 said:

Fuck Howard Stern and fuck Robin whateverherlastnameis.


That pretty much sums it up. nod
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Reply #58 posted 03/09/10 10:01pm

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johnart said:


Also the Less than Perfect chick, whom I totally preferred with weight on her:




eek Is that what she looks like now!?

I saw her in a Weight loss commercial-jenny craig-weight watchers...one of those
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Reply #59 posted 03/09/10 10:41pm

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PurpleRighteous1 said:

My problem with what Howard is that, even though it may be true that Hollywood is too shallow to let Gabby have a real career, he said it in a tone that said he believed that she didn't deserve to have a decent career b/c of her weight. And that's a fucked up way to think. Plus he seemed to have a true disgust for the way she looked.

Asshole.



BINGO!!! That's the bottom line. Gabby doesn't fit society's mold of skinny, blonde, and beautiful. There are miserable people out there who actually fit that mold, so what does that say about society? Folks are SOOOOO surprised that she has a fabulous personality, loves herself, and does not resemble the character that she played. I've been lurking blogs and messages boards the last couple of days since the Academy Awards, and the comments have been outrageously and unnecessarily cruel. There is this belief that somebody like Gabby should not be happy, feel loved, or have success because she does not fit the mainstream ideals of what a successful and attractive person would look like. Some people thought that it's all a facade and basically she hates herself and is ashamed and all that stuff, bascially projecting how they see her and figures she feels that same way about herself. Plus there is this repulsion with the putdowns. If she has been wearing a mask this whole time, she really is a great actress. That is alot of pressure to carry yourself a certain way in order to be accepted by Hollywood. Even if she never has another hit movie or gets any more accolades, she has already made it and nothing else really to prove. So the haters will hate because they can't deal with themselves and it's easier to focus on celebrities and others outside of themselves to make themselves feel better.
I loved that she also said on the red carpet that she would "hit that" and "I'm not ashamed" to Gerard Butler. He played along and that was cute. lol Go Gabby!"
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