forget the Drake song for a minute...

do you ask your partner if you're the best they ever had?

if they say no, does it make you determined to do whatever it takes to be #1 on their list?

nope.


long as i get mine fuck what he thinkin'

No. I don't want to know...

Yes and yes.

I've never asked....I tried on facebook recently and got no reply.

Sure, I'd try to be the best...I'm competitive like that.

I've never asked, but if I wasn't at one point, I damn well gave it my best shot.

But I'm sure if I'm anything to sing about they'd tell me...

I don't want to know!!!

there must be something about me good enough to make him want me for his life-partner, but I'm sure I don't tick ALL the boxes

there are few men that I even bothered to bring out my best for....and even then it was good enough!

No, I've never asked. Not sure I'd try any harder if I got an unfavorable answer. If they offered up the info freely without me asking, I'd probably politely invite them to go fuck who ever they rank above me.

I did

Now I want to ask every single dude I've been with.

I don't have to ask. We both know we're each other's best.

I dont ask...but I gather information and compile it to determine if Im the best






In recent studies I've concluded that I am. (His ex was a stinky prude)

tell, dont ask!...

ThreadCula said:

You tickle me.

Different times are best with different peeps under different circumstances... one is best in one way or one time for that...

i'm normally either the best or close to the best people have ever had so i'm not too worried about my performance ability.

I just wait until they tell me.



Do you find that one person does one thing really REALLY well, but not everything? Then another will do something else better, but not the other thing? And why can't they all be combined into one person? Only met one or two guys who did it all and did it all well. But then one was an alcoholic and the other was a complete asshole narcissist.

Again, everyone is the best.

I wonder if partners are actually telling the truth or are just trying to flatter them.

JustErin said:

yeah, i wanted to start a thread on that, too.

i've told someone that they were better than they really are.

whistle said:

I bet a LOT of people do.

I’m not the competitive type (at ALL), so I wouldn’t ask. And I don’t really care if I’m the best.
I would want to discuss our relationship openly and like to think I am open to suggestion, practice, whatever. I would expect the same in return.

Vendetta1 said:

whistle said:

i actually don't prefer discussing past partners with my partners. but i always make sure we're both getting what we want. and hope i'd be doing good!

JustErin said:

even if i wanted to lie to someone, i'd never be able to pull it off as it truly shows when i'm displeased

maybe that's a good thing as it spares me the talking, which isn't exactly my forte.

No and no. But I used to date this guy who thought he was the best. He would brag about how good he was...po puppy. He was average at best. When he would ask me if he was the best, I'd just look at him and not say a damn thing.

I don't think I ever asked whether I am/was better than the one(s) before me.
I guess if someone really wants to stay with me I'm clearly doing something right.

And with regards to the ones before me; I only ask if they have a nice cock