A relative just came in and told me off cause I wrote something out wrong ( didn't realize) and had to give it to the bank.

The way he said it I didn't like, his tone. Didn't u freakin look at the damn thing when I gave it to you? Why is everything in this fuckin world always my fault.


I don't clean say the bathroom sometimes ( I end up doing it anyway) especially cause I clean almost every fuckin day cause of the adult male ( bro) is a lazy fuck, who only gives a shit about himself and can't even pick up after himself- LITERALLY- I do it all. He is fuckin in his 20's and he leaves a mess HE doesn't get YELLED at like I do, it is his shit. I get yalled at for not cleaning it. Who the fuck is the 22 yr old in this house, why the fuck can't he pick up after himself?

What does it have 2 come 2 for him 2 take responsibilty 4 HIS Shit, do i gotta hit his ass?


Blame is a 2 way street man, gosh i hate living in this house, I can't wait to distance myself from people. negativity constantly sucks.

I'm a sensitive chick not that I can't take shit but still man shit hurts, u can see that ur a fault too and u only blame me. wtf?
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[Edited 2/1/10 16:25pm]

sorry my friend!

kimrachell said:

thanks hun

damn, you're a girl.

Older siblings can be shits. Worst most when its 2 brothers - domestic violence is inescapable.

But, when it's older brother on younger sister? I am not a social worker. And why give it to the bank? Is that the bank social worker?

your thread is incoherent and is in no way a Euphemism for ground war.

Cx

mrsquirrel said:

yes I'm a girl. and it is only 1 sibling a younger brother and yes it is incoherent cause i was annoyed, i get like that. it was something he had to give 2 a bank
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who else lives with you, just you and him or others?

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

our father

missmad said:

mmmmm.

You know what is interesting, how many times men are allowed within a family to just get away with BS while the girls are assigned full responsibility and blame. This is across cultural lines too. I've see total fuck up sons get coddled loved and embraced and totally responsible daughters just degraded, besmirched, unappreciated and blamed.

I would encourage you to change your languaging and instead of asking why things are always your fault, unerstand the prism from which the blame is taking place.

Do you feel there is any issue of guilty parenting when it comes to this son? I feel that the basis for this kind of dynamic within families is a sense of guilt for the way the son is acting or has turned out and that the need still exists to assign blame but instead of confronting the issue head on with the person with the problem, that anger is transferred unfairly to the more responsible sibling.

I applaud the fact that you are a responsible person. Give yourself some loving for that amazing fact

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

That is sooooo sweet Huns thanks

missmad said:

poke him in the bottom while he's asleep. in no way use household cleaning products.

failing that, tiptoe very quietly into Where He Keeps His Gun.

having found the gun, tiptoe over to Where He Keeps The Ammunition.

assemble the gun and the ammunition.

tiptoe outside with the loaded gun having silently Opened The Door.

and i mean SILENTLY.

Cx

mrsquirrel said:

increase your pace from the building in a Newtonian Squared acceleration mindset following instructions from an internet forum. Failing that, land the projectile delivery device in the nearest Body Of Water.


Watch all hell break loose. Claim you were following instructions.

Stab them all in the neck.


Never fails

Cx

Stop doing things for family members since they don't appreciate it. In time they will learn. In some cultures respect isn't easily given to the girls. I know your frustration completely...

If they are already negative in dealing with you, then what's the point in stressing out in pleasing people that take you for granted?

Make a plan to get away for good and stop allowing those people you love so much to walk all over you. Its dysfunctional and its killing your self esteem in the long run, yes...even as an adult. In time they will grow to appreciate what they had and your relationships will actually be better.

I understood what you wrote BTW.. its what I sound like when I'm pissed.

Sorry you're feeling so hurt.

mrsquirrel said:

Ah, i appear to have not told you what to do after the burying the weapon in the water and the all hell breaking loose.


Considering the entire manoeuvre i just described involves moving silently, i doubt you will have achieved Objective 1.

If you have succeeded in Objective 3 - WELL DONE.

you now have to re-enter the building having disabled key weapons. This will be far easier for you, physically and emotionally.

Missmad, MrsSquirrel probably needs a divorce. Proceed with caution

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

I am quite happy to describe a Flame War as getting a Blue Lighter (which has no flint) to ignite a Red Lighter (which has no gas), to ignite in perfect syncronicity by order of the Thumb And Forefinger (which has no mind).

Cx

paintedlady said:

thanks hun, believe me I am trying soooo hard to make my own money- now it is the odd jobs here and there, opened a business so well c how that goes.

I am glad you understood what I wrote
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PunkMistress said:

thanks sweets

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

LOL

missmad said:

psyche.

i was using a green lighter.

Cx

I totally understand what you are going through!

No one deserves to be treated like that - and you are such a nice person!

Some men are fucked up like that - worst thing is they can never change.

chocolatehandles said:

hey gorgeous, nice that u get it. I agree and Awwwww, so sweet, I wish they felt/feel and others feel that way.

i hate my house too, probley why im never home lol


my family just makes fucking noise all night long i can't even get sleep here sometimes. and i hate it.

that shit is ignorant when you don't do things perfect it's almost like

okayyy.....


if you lived at my house you would think it's the lamest place to be
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booty said:

awwwww. can you live with other folks for a while? a friend?

no last time i tried living with someone that didn't work out cuz all that happened was i got bitched out....
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missmad said:

Can you?!

who is Mrs Squirrel?

ufoclub said:

An escapee