I have been friends with a female for the last 10 years. We met through work. I let her stay at my house for a month. turned into four months. The heiffer never paid me a cent and hiked up my phone bills.

Flash forward three years. The trick moves back from NYC cause shit didn't work for her there. She calls me and says hey I'm coming to visit. My dumb ass believed her. She ended up being in my a house a few weeks. SHe got her shit together to get a sweet gig taking care of a very wealthy woman's father in her big old empty house.

She started driving her car, smoking in the house, and then got thrown in jail for a dui in her employer's car.

So she had to move back in with me....I told her to leave after two months. She just dumps on folks. She uses people and freeloads.

Flash forward 7 years. She is divorced and has two kids. She moved to ATL because she still wants to be a model (she's fucking 38) or radio (well she fucked so many artists, managers, and promoters she basically ruined that job). She has lived with three different folks since moving here in '09.

She has kids now, but I guess that don't phase her.

She texted me to ask me if she and the kids could crash at my house on Sunday. I never texted back....

Haven't heard from her. I feel bad cause she has kids, but damn she is off the hook! Besides boyfriend says I don't have to be mean, he said no child but his own can be laying up in his house while he and I are at work.

Anyone have to turn into an asshole to prevent further damage?
[Edited 1/13/10 14:00pm]