JustErin said: Long hair and skinny jeans disrupts learning?
If the skinny jeans are also sagging (on boys), or if the girls wearing them have camel toe and other atrocities, yes. Trust me- you should see how these kids come to school... We're also dealing with MAJOR cleavage, boys with their asses hanging out, and girls who don't know the difference between leggings and regular tights (and wearing them with short shirts ) We try to teach the kids that what you wear to the mall or a party is not necessarily appropriate for school. No one is trying to take away their individuality, but there are limits. "Love Hurts. Your lies, they cut me. Now your words don't mean a thing. I don't give a damn if you ever loved me..." -Cher, "Woman's World" | |
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chocolate1 said: JustErin said: Long hair and skinny jeans disrupts learning?
If the skinny jeans are also sagging (on boys), or if the girls wearing them have camel toe and other atrocities, yes. Trust me- you should see how these kids come to school... We're also dealing with MAJOR cleavage, boys with their asses hanging out, and girls who don't know the difference between leggings and regular tights (and wearing them with short shirts ) We try to teach the kids that what you wear to the mall or a party is not necessarily appropriate for school. No one is trying to take away their individuality, but there are limits. We're talking about some redneck town in Texas where it is probably still legal to burn witches at ths stake. 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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cborgman said: Genesia said: A school district not only has the right to set reasonable standards aimed at fostering an atmosphere conducive to learning, it has a responsibility to do so. For parents to teach their child that they are above rules that apply to everyone is wrong. reasonable standards, absofreakinglutely. i really hope that all schools are cracking down on the jeans hanging sub-ass level, because that's reasonable. hair length i find no reasonability in, particularly when it is based solely in gender. they would never tell a girl she had to cut her hair. or that her hair was too short. "Keep on shilling for Big Pharm!" | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: chocolate1 said: If the skinny jeans are also sagging (on boys), or if the girls wearing them have camel toe and other atrocities, yes. Trust me- you should see how these kids come to school... We're also dealing with MAJOR cleavage, boys with their asses hanging out, and girls who don't know the difference between leggings and regular tights (and wearing them with short shirts ) We try to teach the kids that what you wear to the mall or a party is not necessarily appropriate for school. No one is trying to take away their individuality, but there are limits. We're talking about some redneck town in Texas where it is probably still legal to burn witches at ths stake. very redneck town. there are worse in texas, but... very very redneck. it was kind fo sad when i went there, because it made me realize how much my twon, which is bush's hometown, was actually not the worst in the state, and in fact, nowhere near the worst. Power tends to corrupt; absolute power corrupts absolutely. - Lord Acton | |
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ok, I hate to say this about a child...but he looks like a fucking idiot with his hair like that...and to other 4 year olds it probably is distracting... | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: chocolate1 said: If the skinny jeans are also sagging (on boys), or if the girls wearing them have camel toe and other atrocities, yes. Trust me- you should see how these kids come to school... We're also dealing with MAJOR cleavage, boys with their asses hanging out, and girls who don't know the difference between leggings and regular tights (and wearing them with short shirts ) We try to teach the kids that what you wear to the mall or a party is not necessarily appropriate for school. No one is trying to take away their individuality, but there are limits. We're talking about some redneck town in Texas where it is probably still legal to burn witches at ths stake. Like I said- I saw this on TV last week. I thought that they were making too big of a deal out of hair length. The only part I had an issue with was when the parents were saying that "he refuses to cut his hair". I thought, "He's F**kin' FOUR! Refuse?! " But really... all the adults involved need to worry about more important things... "Love Hurts. Your lies, they cut me. Now your words don't mean a thing. I don't give a damn if you ever loved me..." -Cher, "Woman's World" | |
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OnlyNDaUsa said: cborgman said: reasonable standards, absofreakinglutely. i really hope that all schools are cracking down on the jeans hanging sub-ass level, because that's reasonable. hair length i find no reasonability in, particularly when it is based solely in gender. they would never tell a girl she had to cut her hair. or that her hair was too short. exactly. this is just a rule for boys based in crap stereotypes of the freaking 60s. there is nothing reasonable about this. the kid is not freaking distracting from education occuring other than the dirstaction from teaching 50 year outdated gender rules. particularly when they are using tax dollars to do so. [Edited 1/12/10 19:11pm] Power tends to corrupt; absolute power corrupts absolutely. - Lord Acton | |
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thejason said: ok, I hate to say this about a child...but he looks like a fucking idiot with his hair like that...and to other 4 year olds it probably is distracting... well yeah, the parents definitely need to be slapped for that! 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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cborgman said: very redneck town. there are worse in texas, but... very very redneck. it was kind fo sad when i went there, because it made me realize how much my twon, which is bush's hometown, was actually not the worst in the state, and in fact, nowhere near the worst. it is not that red neck it is a suburb of Dallas. "Keep on shilling for Big Pharm!" | |
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thejason said: ok, I hate to say this about a child...but he looks like a fucking idiot with his hair like that...and to other 4 year olds it probably is distracting... the reason he looks stupid there (well, as stupid as anyone with a pebbles flintstone tail does, anyway) is because the school board forced him to either wear the stupid pebbles tail or be segregated. and i sincerely doubt he is the only child in his class working that dumb pebbles look. Power tends to corrupt; absolute power corrupts absolutely. - Lord Acton | |
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thejason said: ok, I hate to say this about a child...but he looks like a fucking idiot with his hair like that...and to other 4 year olds it probably is distracting... he looks like one of those Smurf rip off snorkels or a fraggle or something "Keep on shilling for Big Pharm!" | |
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cborgman said: OnlyNDaUsa said: or that her hair was too short. exactly. this is just a rule for boys based in crap stereotypes of the freaking 60s. there is nothing reasonable about this. the kid is not freaking distracting from education occuring other than the dirstaction from teaching 50 year outdated gender rules. particularly when they are suing tax dollars to do so. | |
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anyway I side with the KID. let him keep his hair and go to class. Let the adults work it out like adults and leave the kid out of it. "Keep on shilling for Big Pharm!" | |
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cborgman said: thejason said: ok, I hate to say this about a child...but he looks like a fucking idiot with his hair like that...and to other 4 year olds it probably is distracting... the reason he looks stupid there (well, as stupid as anyone with a pebbles flintstone tail does, anyway) is because the school board forced him to either wear the stupid pebbles tail or be segregated. and i sincerely doubt he is the only child in his class working that dumb pebbles look. the school said his hair had to be braided close to his head, not put up in a geyser like ponytail... and I would bet most of my penis and both my balls that he's the only 4 year old boy in that class rocking that shit...and the majority of 4 year olds are gonna find that at the very least funny and distracting... | |
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OnlyNDaUsa said: cborgman said: very redneck town. there are worse in texas, but... very very redneck. it was kind fo sad when i went there, because it made me realize how much my twon, which is bush's hometown, was actually not the worst in the state, and in fact, nowhere near the worst. it is not that red neck it is a suburb of Dallas. trust me, i'm a former texan. austin is the only really liberal city in texas. houston and dallas are so much more conservative than you would think they are. and the suburbs tend to be ultra-conservative. as liberal as austin is, i lived in one of it's burbs for a brief period, and even it was insanely conservative till you crossed the austin line. Power tends to corrupt; absolute power corrupts absolutely. - Lord Acton | |
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Vendetta1 said: cborgman said: exactly. this is just a rule for boys based in crap stereotypes of the freaking 60s. there is nothing reasonable about this. the kid is not freaking distracting from education occuring other than the dirstaction from teaching 50 year outdated gender rules. particularly when they are suing tax dollars to do so. do they regulate your daughter's hair length and style? Power tends to corrupt; absolute power corrupts absolutely. - Lord Acton | |
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thejason said: cborgman said: the reason he looks stupid there (well, as stupid as anyone with a pebbles flintstone tail does, anyway) is because the school board forced him to either wear the stupid pebbles tail or be segregated. and i sincerely doubt he is the only child in his class working that dumb pebbles look. the school said his hair had to be braided close to his head, not put up in a geyser like ponytail... and I would bet most of my penis and both my balls that he's the only 4 year old boy in that class rocking that shit...and the majority of 4 year olds are gonna find that at the very least funny and distracting... | |
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thejason said: cborgman said: the reason he looks stupid there (well, as stupid as anyone with a pebbles flintstone tail does, anyway) is because the school board forced him to either wear the stupid pebbles tail or be segregated. and i sincerely doubt he is the only child in his class working that dumb pebbles look. the school said his hair had to be braided close to his head, not put up in a geyser like ponytail... and I would bet most of my penis and both my balls that he's the only 4 year old boy in that class rocking that shit...and the majority of 4 year olds are gonna find that at the very least funny and distracting... i've seen pre-k and k classes. there are always pebbles and cindy brady pigtails, and they look dumb. even worse was those stupid 80's side tails. but none of those are distracting from the learning, unless the teacher is insanely inept. Power tends to corrupt; absolute power corrupts absolutely. - Lord Acton | |
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OnlyNDaUsa said: anyway I side with the KID. let him keep his hair and go to class. Let the adults work it out like adults and leave the kid out of it.
I'd agree if he was a teenager... trying to establish an identity and all that. I just think at 4, you don't get those kinds of choices. "Love Hurts. Your lies, they cut me. Now your words don't mean a thing. I don't give a damn if you ever loved me..." -Cher, "Woman's World" | |
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cborgman said: Vendetta1 said: My daughter wears uniforms. She can only wear white shoes. She can't wear different color ponytail holders. On the flipside of what you say, if following the rules does not interfere with the child's education, why not follow them? All the other parents follow the rules so why not this kid's?
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Vendetta1 said: ]My daughter wears uniforms. She can only wear white shoes. She can't wear different color ponytail holders. On the flipside of what you say, if following the rules does not interfere with the child's education, why not follow them? All the other parents follow the rules so why not this kid's?
Is there a opt out policy for uniforms? Check many public schools that do have a uniform also have a little advertised means to opt out. "Keep on shilling for Big Pharm!" | |
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chocolate1 said: OnlyNDaUsa said: anyway I side with the KID. let him keep his hair and go to class. Let the adults work it out like adults and leave the kid out of it.
I'd agree if he was a teenager... trying to establish an identity and all that. I just think at 4, you don't get those kinds of choices. that is a parenting issue, they do not want to be parents that should not be used to prevent him going to school. "Keep on shilling for Big Pharm!" | |
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Vendetta1 said: thejason said: the school said his hair had to be braided close to his head, not put up in a geyser like ponytail... and I would bet most of my penis and both my balls that he's the only 4 year old boy in that class rocking that shit...and the majority of 4 year olds are gonna find that at the very least funny and distracting... he looks like any other 4 year girl or boy with long hair. i just don't get how this is really that big of a deal that it needs a policy only for boys. Power tends to corrupt; absolute power corrupts absolutely. - Lord Acton | |
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OnlyNDaUsa said: Vendetta1 said: ]My daughter wears uniforms. She can only wear white shoes. She can't wear different color ponytail holders. On the flipside of what you say, if following the rules does not interfere with the child's education, why not follow them? All the other parents follow the rules so why not this kid's?
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OnlyNDaUsa said: chocolate1 said: I'd agree if he was a teenager... trying to establish an identity and all that. I just think at 4, you don't get those kinds of choices. that is a parenting issue, they do not want to be parents that should not be used to prevent him going to school. Oh, I agree. I should have clarified that I meant at 4 you don't get those kinds of choices- especially if it going to keep you out of school. I thought the parents saiunded stupid on the news talking about what HE wanted... I didn't read SCNDLS' whole article, but in the interview, they said he wants to look like his Dad, who has long hair. "Love Hurts. Your lies, they cut me. Now your words don't mean a thing. I don't give a damn if you ever loved me..." -Cher, "Woman's World" | |
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Vendetta1 said: cborgman said: do they regulate your daughter's hair length and style? so what's the difference here, other than his having a penis? the kid isn't coming in with blue hair or anything ridiculous. he has shoulder length hair. the school says his hair has to be short or braided to give the illusion of being short. meanwhile anyone with a vagina can have it any length and any normal style. Power tends to corrupt; absolute power corrupts absolutely. - Lord Acton | |
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cborgman said: Vendetta1 said: Not length but definitely style.
so what's the difference here, other than his having a penis? the kid isn't coming in with blue hair or anything ridiculous. he has shoulder length hair. the school says his hair has to be short or braided to give the illusion of being short. meanwhile anyone with a vagina can have it any length and any normal style. | |
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cborgman said: Vendetta1 said: i thought it was a picture of a little girl.
he looks like any other 4 year girl or boy with long hair. i just don't get how this is really that big of a deal that it needs a policy only for boys. borgman, I love you dude, but he doesnt look like any other 4 year old boy with long hair...he's got a goddam rooster tail on his head... I mean, the shit is distracting me... | |
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I'm going to bed, but I will be back on this one in the morning...
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thejason said: cborgman said: he looks like any other 4 year girl or boy with long hair. i just don't get how this is really that big of a deal that it needs a policy only for boys. borgman, I love you dude, but he doesnt look like any other 4 year old boy with long hair...he's got a goddam rooster tail on his head... I mean, the shit is distracting me... | |
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