NMuzakNSoul said: NDRU said: I think virtually all of us could be more attractive, and yes I think it might just benefit us.
I know you're saying could, but I still disagree, I feel fine about me and yes there was a time when I didn't but now that I've learned I'd say I wouldn't change a thing. Any change would affect the quality of who I am in the first place, and then when you realize the outside is a reflection of the inside it all falls into place. If outer change is necessary to benefit in whatever field in life, i'd rather not live. Thus, I always believe in that I'm fine the way I was created. If that makes sense. "You put water into a cup, it becomes the cup...Now water can flow or it can crash. Be water, my friend." - Bruce Lee
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NMuzakNSoul said: NDRU said: I think virtually all of us could be more attractive, and yes I think it might just benefit us.
I know you're saying could, but I still disagree, I feel fine about me and yes there was a time when I didn't but now that I've learned I'd say I wouldn't change a thing. Any change would affect the quality of who I am in the first place, and then when you realize the outside is a reflection of the inside it all falls into place. If outer change is necessary to benefit in whatever field in life, i'd rather not live. Thus, I always believe in that I'm fine the way I was created. If that makes sense. | |
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i can't see where it would be a benefit to me..
i'm okay as i am,and sometimes i have enough trouble in some areas now.. and i think if i were better looking it would increase those problems.. someone mentioned a jealousy thing of someone who may not be as attractive?? i can see it happening..one example (not from work) was a person who was a friend of mine..if we went out and the attention was on her she was a very happy person.. after a while when the attention started to shift in my direction.. she didn't like it.. and was very pissy about it.. like it was my fault.. so no.. i'm good.. 'why y'all trying to say goodbye? I didn't go anywhere, I'm right here, im all around you,always..'
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Vendetta1 said: Arnotts said: I'm the type of person that can be the plainest, most ignored, jane imaginable, yet also go to the opposite end of the spectrum when I do myself up, have the right hair etc, and it is without a DOUBT much better to be considered good looking. The difference in the way you're treated is crazy! People often wonder why good looking people would change themselves with surgery and its because once you get a taste of how you're treated and the attention you recieve you want to be even better then before. Beauty is as powerful as money, probably more so, and I haven't heard of many people who wouldnt want to be richer, so why not more beautiful? I'm the flipside of that. When I "girl" it up, I do get more attention but I don' like it so I go back into Plain Jane mode.
Do I want to be more beautiful? No, not really. I rather be smarter than I am. this i understand..people who've known me for a while nearly have a heart attack if i wear makeup!! and it's not like i even put that much on a co-worker once told me i should be wearing make-up and made a big deal about it.. i never wore it again while i worked there.. 'why y'all trying to say goodbye? I didn't go anywhere, I'm right here, im all around you,always..'
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peb319 said: Vendetta1 said: I'm the flipside of that. When I "girl" it up, I do get more attention but I don' like it so I go back into Plain Jane mode.
Do I want to be more beautiful? No, not really. I rather be smarter than I am. this i understand..people who've known me for a while nearly have a heart attack if i wear makeup!! and it's not like i even put that much on a co-worker once told me i should be wearing make-up and made a big deal about it.. i never wore it again while i worked there.. Compliments are very nice but makeup is just not me. it doesn't help when people tell me I look great in it. I'm like: what the hell do I look like out of it? | |
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Vendetta1 said: peb319 said: this i understand..people who've known me for a while nearly have a heart attack if i wear makeup!! and it's not like i even put that much on a co-worker once told me i should be wearing make-up and made a big deal about it.. i never wore it again while i worked there.. Compliments are very nice but makeup is just not me. it doesn't help when people tell me I look great in it. I'm like: what the hell do I look like out of it? yeah.. with me it's ''OMG!! you're wearing make-up!!'' like the world will now end!! the coworker when she made her comment,i guess it was supposed to be a compliment ''it's good you're wearing make-up, you should be wearing it finally at your age'' i can't exactly remember the words.. but something to the effect that i should have already been using it religiously i guess.. this coming from someone who always seemed to have the lipstick build up in the corners of her mouth..you know..you just wanna tell to umm wipe or scratch.. or something.. like sleep in the eyes you know.. tryin to be nice now.. 'why y'all trying to say goodbye? I didn't go anywhere, I'm right here, im all around you,always..'
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peb319 said: Vendetta1 said: My sister in particular loses her mind when she sees me in makeup.
Compliments are very nice but makeup is just not me. it doesn't help when people tell me I look great in it. I'm like: what the hell do I look like out of it? yeah.. with me it's ''OMG!! you're wearing make-up!!'' like the world will now end!! the coworker when she made her comment,i guess it was supposed to be a compliment ''it's good you're wearing make-up, you should be wearing it finally at your age'' i can't exactly remember the words.. but something to the effect that i should have already been using it religiously i guess.. this coming from someone who always seemed to have the lipstick build up in the corners of her mouth..you know..you just wanna tell to umm wipe or scratch.. or something.. like sleep in the eyes you know.. tryin to be nice now.. | |
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ZombieKitten said: Dave1992 said: It's impossible to be more attractive than I am.
I know, and that is why I used you as an example Just saw it! I don't think I would be uncomfortable with knowing someone wants me just because of my looks, because: When I realise they do, I have already done a big deal and I can adjust the way I behave towards them to make them see I'm actually a nice guy too. It is not changing myself for someone, it is simply being responsive to someone I find interesting. Secondly, I think that looks are somehow also just a part of someone's personality. There's not much one can do about personal preferences, so one may think I'm the hottest being in the history of the universe, while the other might think I am the result of insect having mated with an aardvark. But what I certainly can do - and that's what most women who like me actually find attractive about me - is to look after myself (usually it's the scent and don't tell me not anyone can simply can look well-kept and find a perfume that fits them!). And you don't have to be super-vain to do all that; it's a matter of self-respect. Then again, I am so super-hot, it doesn't even matter what I just wrote. All of you ladies (and some particular boys, too) will agree anyway! ...I certainly think it has a huge impact on what I post! | |
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JustErin said: rushing07 said: co-sign. hot bod doesn't either Exactly. I'm all about face. I know you're trying to communicate with me through others. | |
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Dave1992 said: JustErin said: Exactly. I'm all about face. I know you're trying to communicate with me through others. Oh. Ok. | |
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Alej said: Dave1992 said: Not even all the self-confidence in the world would make a troll like Alej look attractive. That's what I think Nah. Look, I am someone you would call a "closet-straight". Although I often seem to be very allusive, there is no way on earth my genital would ever enter a man's ass. Still, I am quite sure you certainly do not look like a troll. You are one handsome young man! | |
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JustErin said: Dave1992 said: I know you're trying to communicate with me through others. Oh. Ok. Don't try to fight it, it's fated! | |
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Dave1992 said: JustErin said: Oh. Ok. Don't try to fight it, it's fated! How old are you again? | |
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JustErin said: Dave1992 said: I know you're trying to communicate with me through others. Oh. Ok. "You put water into a cup, it becomes the cup...Now water can flow or it can crash. Be water, my friend." - Bruce Lee
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JustErin said: Dave1992 said: Don't try to fight it, it's fated! How old are you again? I am the age-less soul called "love". Come bathe with me. | |
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Dave1992 said: JustErin said: How old are you again? I am the age-less soul called "love". Come bathe with me. Ok, barf. You should know by now that I hate love and love to be choked and called a "filthy whore" Wait, how old are you again?? | |
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JustErin said: Dave1992 said: I am the age-less soul called "love". Come bathe with me. Ok, barf. You should know by now that I hate love and love to be choked and called a "filthy whore" Wait, how old are you again?? He could babysit your kid. [...i think i can, i think i can, i think i can...] | |
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I wish my face was more symmetrical. i'm very self concious about my physical appearence. so I tend to go overboard with my style. I love hats with larg brims where i can cover half my face.... or thick black sun glasses.
I beleive it would help me out to be more attractive. only in the lonly department...lol other than that its what ever... | |
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WaterInYourBath said: NMuzakNSoul said: I know you're saying could, but I still disagree, I feel fine about me and yes there was a time when I didn't but now that I've learned I'd say I wouldn't change a thing. Any change would affect the quality of who I am in the first place, and then when you realize the outside is a reflection of the inside it all falls into place. If outer change is necessary to benefit in whatever field in life, i'd rather not live. Thus, I always believe in that I'm fine the way I was created. If that makes sense. glad you liked it. | |
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Vendetta1 said: NMuzakNSoul said: I know you're saying could, but I still disagree, I feel fine about me and yes there was a time when I didn't but now that I've learned I'd say I wouldn't change a thing. Any change would affect the quality of who I am in the first place, and then when you realize the outside is a reflection of the inside it all falls into place. If outer change is necessary to benefit in whatever field in life, i'd rather not live. Thus, I always believe in that I'm fine the way I was created. If that makes sense. huggie! | |
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Nah, don't really care anymore to be honest.
Having quite an asymmetrical face myself I can understand why many people feel uncomfortable about it all through their lives even if they would be nowhere nearly as self-conscious about their appearance as during their teenage years. i.e. If you're in a profession where you are constantly being photographed, it can be something of a real disadvantage (applies to people who give presentations or do promotional work as well). Some photographs just end up looking really hilariously bad due to it, because facial asymmetry is just something that you hardly ever see in close-ups in the media. People usually don't even notice it in real life, but it seems to make people feel awkward when seen in photographs. Some say it's also an evolutionary thing - symmetry tends to be regarded as a sign of health. | |
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nyse said: I wish my face was more symmetrical. i'm very self concious about my physical appearence. so I tend to go overboard with my style. I love hats with larg brims where i can cover half my face.... or thick black sun glasses.
I beleive it would help me out to be more attractive. only in the lonly department...lol other than that its what ever... Excuse me mr "I wish my face was more symmetrical"...u're delusional. How much more attractive do u want to be??? Are u tryin to be selfish by takin all the prettyness in the whole damn world?! Hell! I wish I was as pretty as u dammit!!! Relax...pretty muthafucka My only benefit to being more attractive than I am...is being harrassed - more than I already am - and who wants that?! It's annoying! As for me...I've never thought or wished I was more attractive than I already am. At this age, one has to accept that they have a big nose, or watever they wanna term "unattractive" on themselves. I love myself! :selfhug: [Edited 1/7/10 4:33am] [Edited 1/7/10 4:36am] I swear the words "HATER" is wayyy over-rated...smh | |
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CarrieMpls said: IstenSzek said: yeah, same here. although at the same time, i wouldn't want to change anything about myself either. whatever you look like, there will always be people who go "ewww, what the hell is that?" and at the same time there will be people who go "hmmm, i'll have some of that". it's all so relative. Sure, but that's easy to say when you're as good looking a fellow as you. When the proportion of folks swings one way or the other there’s a marked difference in everything from whether or not someone holds a door open for you to whether or not you get a job. well, let's be honest here, in levels of attractiveness, man or woman, you score a much higher grade than me. that's what i meant with what i said, since i cannot imagine anyone ever thinking of you as anything but very, very beautiful. and true love lives on lollipops and crisps | |
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JustErin said: Dave1992 said: I am the age-less soul called "love". Come bathe with me. Ok, barf. You should know by now that I hate love and love to be choked and called a "filthy whore" Wait, how old are you again?? I can choke you in that bathtub! | |
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Dave1992 said: JustErin said: Ok, barf. You should know by now that I hate love and love to be choked and called a "filthy whore" Wait, how old are you again?? I can choke you in that bathtub! listening to prince's "extra loveable" right now "are you going to get in the tub or am i gonna have to drag u?" and true love lives on lollipops and crisps | |
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IstenSzek said: Dave1992 said: I can choke you in that bathtub! listening to prince's "extra loveable" right now "are you going to get in the tub or am i gonna have to drag u?" "I'm on the verge of a rape..." | |
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