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Reply #150 posted 01/06/10 7:16pm

WaterInYourBat
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NMuzakNSoul said:

NDRU said:

I think virtually all of us could be more attractive, and yes I think it might just benefit us.


I know you're saying could, but I still disagree, I feel fine about me and yes there was a time when I didn't but now that I've learned I'd say I wouldn't change a thing. Any change would affect the quality of who I am in the first place, and then when you realize the outside is a reflection of the inside it all falls into place. If outer change is necessary to benefit in whatever field in life, i'd rather not live. Thus, I always believe in that I'm fine the way I was created.

If that makes sense.

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Reply #151 posted 01/06/10 7:21pm

Vendetta1

NMuzakNSoul said:

NDRU said:

I think virtually all of us could be more attractive, and yes I think it might just benefit us.


I know you're saying could, but I still disagree, I feel fine about me and yes there was a time when I didn't but now that I've learned I'd say I wouldn't change a thing. Any change would affect the quality of who I am in the first place, and then when you realize the outside is a reflection of the inside it all falls into place. If outer change is necessary to benefit in whatever field in life, i'd rather not live. Thus, I always believe in that I'm fine the way I was created.

If that makes sense.
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Reply #152 posted 01/06/10 7:32pm

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Reply #153 posted 01/06/10 7:39pm

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i can't see where it would be a benefit to me..
i'm okay as i am,and sometimes i have enough trouble in some areas now..
and i think if i were better looking it would increase those problems..
someone mentioned a jealousy thing of someone who may not be as attractive??
i can see it happening..one example (not from work) was a person who was a friend of mine..if we went out and the attention was on her she was a very happy person..
after a while when the attention started to shift in my direction.. she didn't like it..
and was very pissy about it..
like it was my fault.. shrug
so no.. i'm good..
sun 'why y'all trying to say goodbye? I didn't go anywhere, I'm right here, im all around you,always..' sun

in a line from my dream, I heard a voice and saw a silhouette in a chair..
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Reply #154 posted 01/06/10 7:40pm

Cinnie

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Reply #156 posted 01/06/10 7:44pm

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Vendetta1 said:

Arnotts said:

I'm the type of person that can be the plainest, most ignored, jane imaginable, yet also go to the opposite end of the spectrum when I do myself up, have the right hair etc, and it is without a DOUBT much better to be considered good looking. The difference in the way you're treated is crazy! People often wonder why good looking people would change themselves with surgery and its because once you get a taste of how you're treated and the attention you recieve you want to be even better then before. Beauty is as powerful as money, probably more so, and I haven't heard of many people who wouldnt want to be richer, so why not more beautiful?
I'm the flipside of that. When I "girl" it up, I do get more attention but I don' like it so I go back into Plain Jane mode.

Do I want to be more beautiful? No, not really. I rather be smarter than I am.


this i understand..people who've known me for a while nearly have a heart attack if i wear makeup!! and it's not like i even put that much on falloff
a co-worker once told me i should be wearing make-up confuse
and made a big deal about it..
i never wore it again while i worked there..
sun 'why y'all trying to say goodbye? I didn't go anywhere, I'm right here, im all around you,always..' sun

in a line from my dream, I heard a voice and saw a silhouette in a chair..
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Reply #157 posted 01/06/10 7:51pm

Vendetta1

peb319 said:

Vendetta1 said:

I'm the flipside of that. When I "girl" it up, I do get more attention but I don' like it so I go back into Plain Jane mode.

Do I want to be more beautiful? No, not really. I rather be smarter than I am.


this i understand..people who've known me for a while nearly have a heart attack if i wear makeup!! and it's not like i even put that much on falloff
a co-worker once told me i should be wearing make-up confuse
and made a big deal about it..
i never wore it again while i worked there..
My sister in particular loses her mind when she sees me in makeup. lol

Compliments are very nice but makeup is just not me. it doesn't help when people tell me I look great in it. I'm like: what the hell do I look like out of it? confuse
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Reply #158 posted 01/06/10 8:16pm

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Vendetta1 said:

peb319 said:



this i understand..people who've known me for a while nearly have a heart attack if i wear makeup!! and it's not like i even put that much on falloff
a co-worker once told me i should be wearing make-up confuse
and made a big deal about it..
i never wore it again while i worked there..
My sister in particular loses her mind when she sees me in makeup. lol

Compliments are very nice but makeup is just not me. it doesn't help when people tell me I look great in it. I'm like: what the hell do I look like out of it? confuse

yeah.. hug
with me it's ''OMG!! you're wearing make-up!!''
like the world will now end!! falloff
the coworker when she made her comment,i guess it was supposed to be a compliment
''it's good you're wearing make-up, you should be wearing it finally at your age'' i can't exactly remember the words..
but something to the effect that i should have already been using it religiously i guess.. falloff

this coming from someone who always seemed to have the lipstick build up in the corners of her mouth..you know..you just wanna tell to umm wipe or scratch..
or something.. like sleep in the eyes you know..

innocent tryin to be nice now.. innocent
sun 'why y'all trying to say goodbye? I didn't go anywhere, I'm right here, im all around you,always..' sun

in a line from my dream, I heard a voice and saw a silhouette in a chair..
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Reply #159 posted 01/06/10 8:25pm

Vendetta1

peb319 said:

Vendetta1 said:

My sister in particular loses her mind when she sees me in makeup. lol

Compliments are very nice but makeup is just not me. it doesn't help when people tell me I look great in it. I'm like: what the hell do I look like out of it? confuse

yeah.. hug
with me it's ''OMG!! you're wearing make-up!!''
like the world will now end!! falloff
the coworker when she made her comment,i guess it was supposed to be a compliment
''it's good you're wearing make-up, you should be wearing it finally at your age'' i can't exactly remember the words..
but something to the effect that i should have already been using it religiously i guess.. falloff

this coming from someone who always seemed to have the lipstick build up in the corners of her mouth..you know..you just wanna tell to umm wipe or scratch..
or something.. like sleep in the eyes you know..

innocent tryin to be nice now.. innocent
falloff
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Reply #160 posted 01/06/10 9:09pm

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Cinnie said:


falloff falloff falloff
...the little artist that could...
[...i think i can, i think i can, i think i can...]
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Reply #161 posted 01/06/10 9:58pm

Dave1992

ZombieKitten said:

Dave1992 said:

It's impossible to be more attractive than I am.

hug I know, and that is why I used you as an example


Just saw it! hug


I don't think I would be uncomfortable with knowing someone wants me just because of my looks, because:


When I realise they do, I have already done a big deal and I can adjust the way I behave towards them to make them see I'm actually a nice guy too. It is not changing myself for someone, it is simply being responsive to someone I find interesting.

Secondly, I think that looks are somehow also just a part of someone's personality. There's not much one can do about personal preferences, so one may think I'm the hottest being in the history of the universe, while the other might think I am the result of insect having mated with an aardvark. But what I certainly can do - and that's what most women who like me actually find attractive about me - is to look after myself (usually it's the scent and don't tell me not anyone can simply can look well-kept and find a perfume that fits them!). And you don't have to be super-vain to do all that; it's a matter of self-respect.



Then again, I am so super-hot, it doesn't even matter what I just wrote. All of you ladies (and some particular boys, too) will agree anyway!



...I certainly think it has a huge impact on what I post! hmmm lol
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Reply #162 posted 01/06/10 9:59pm

Dave1992

JustErin said:

rushing07 said:



co-sign.

hot bod doesn't either


Exactly. I'm all about face.


batting eyes


I know you're trying to communicate with me through others.
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Reply #163 posted 01/06/10 10:02pm

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Dave1992 said:

JustErin said:



Exactly. I'm all about face.


batting eyes


I know you're trying to communicate with me through others.


Oh. Ok.
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Reply #164 posted 01/06/10 10:02pm

Dave1992

Alej said:

Dave1992 said:



Not even all the self-confidence in the world would make a troll like Alej look attractive. hmph!

lol



That's what I think lol


Nah.

Look, I am someone you would call a "closet-straight". Although I often seem to be very allusive, there is no way on earth my genital would ever enter a man's ass.

Still, I am quite sure you certainly do not look like a troll. You are one handsome young man! nod
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Reply #165 posted 01/06/10 10:03pm

Dave1992

JustErin said:

Dave1992 said:



batting eyes


I know you're trying to communicate with me through others.


Oh. Ok.


Don't try to fight it, it's fated!
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Reply #166 posted 01/06/10 10:05pm

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Dave1992 said:

JustErin said:



Oh. Ok.


Don't try to fight it, it's fated!


How old are you again?
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Reply #167 posted 01/06/10 10:10pm

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JustErin said:

Dave1992 said:



batting eyes


I know you're trying to communicate with me through others.


Oh. Ok.

lol
"You put water into a cup, it becomes the cup...Now water can flow or it can crash. Be water, my friend." - Bruce Lee
"Water can nourish me, but water can also carry me. Water has magic laws." - JCVD
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Reply #168 posted 01/06/10 10:18pm

Dave1992

JustErin said:

Dave1992 said:



Don't try to fight it, it's fated!


How old are you again?


I am the age-less soul called "love".


Come bathe with me.
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Reply #169 posted 01/06/10 10:21pm

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Dave1992 said:

JustErin said:



How old are you again?


I am the age-less soul called "love".


Come bathe with me.


Ok, barf.

You should know by now that I hate love and love to be choked and called a "filthy whore"

Wait, how old are you again??
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Reply #170 posted 01/06/10 10:50pm

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JustErin said:

Dave1992 said:



I am the age-less soul called "love".


Come bathe with me.


Ok, barf.

You should know by now that I hate love and love to be choked and called a "filthy whore"

Wait, how old are you again??

He could babysit your kid.
...the little artist that could...
[...i think i can, i think i can, i think i can...]
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Reply #171 posted 01/06/10 11:46pm

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I wish my face was more symmetrical. i'm very self concious about my physical appearence. so I tend to go overboard with my style. I love hats with larg brims where i can cover half my face.... or thick black sun glasses.

I beleive it would help me out to be more attractive. only in the lonly department...lol


other than that its what ever...
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Reply #172 posted 01/07/10 2:00am

NMuzakNSoul

WaterInYourBath said:

NMuzakNSoul said:



I know you're saying could, but I still disagree, I feel fine about me and yes there was a time when I didn't but now that I've learned I'd say I wouldn't change a thing. Any change would affect the quality of who I am in the first place, and then when you realize the outside is a reflection of the inside it all falls into place. If outer change is necessary to benefit in whatever field in life, i'd rather not live. Thus, I always believe in that I'm fine the way I was created.

If that makes sense.

smile


smile glad you liked it.
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Reply #173 posted 01/07/10 2:00am

NMuzakNSoul

Vendetta1 said:

NMuzakNSoul said:



I know you're saying could, but I still disagree, I feel fine about me and yes there was a time when I didn't but now that I've learned I'd say I wouldn't change a thing. Any change would affect the quality of who I am in the first place, and then when you realize the outside is a reflection of the inside it all falls into place. If outer change is necessary to benefit in whatever field in life, i'd rather not live. Thus, I always believe in that I'm fine the way I was created.

If that makes sense.
hug


hug huggie!
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Reply #174 posted 01/07/10 2:42am

novabrkr

Nah, don't really care anymore to be honest.

Having quite an asymmetrical face myself I can understand why many people feel uncomfortable about it all through their lives even if they would be nowhere nearly as self-conscious about their appearance as during their teenage years. i.e. If you're in a profession where you are constantly being photographed, it can be something of a real disadvantage (applies to people who give presentations or do promotional work as well). Some photographs just end up looking really hilariously bad due to it, because facial asymmetry is just something that you hardly ever see in close-ups in the media. People usually don't even notice it in real life, but it seems to make people feel awkward when seen in photographs. Some say it's also an evolutionary thing - symmetry tends to be regarded as a sign of health.
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Reply #175 posted 01/07/10 4:30am

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nyse said:

I wish my face was more symmetrical. i'm very self concious about my physical appearence. so I tend to go overboard with my style. I love hats with larg brims where i can cover half my face.... or thick black sun glasses.

I beleive it would help me out to be more attractive. only in the lonly department...lol


other than that its what ever...

Excuse me mr "I wish my face was more symmetrical"...u're delusional.
How much more attractive do u want to be???
Are u tryin to be selfish by takin all the prettyness in the whole damn world?!
Hell! I wish I was as pretty as u dammit!!! mad lol
Relax...pretty muthafucka hrmph


My only benefit to being more attractive than I am...is being harrassed - more than I already am - and who wants that?!
It's annoying!
As for me...I've never thought or wished I was more attractive than I already am.
At this age, one has to accept that they have a big nose, or watever they wanna term "unattractive" on themselves.

I love myself! :selfhug: biggrin
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I swear the words "HATER" is wayyy over-rated...smh
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Reply #176 posted 01/07/10 5:57am

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CarrieMpls said:

IstenSzek said:



yeah, same here. although at the same time, i wouldn't want to change
anything about myself either. whatever you look like, there will always
be people who go "ewww, what the hell is that?" and at the same time
there will be people who go "hmmm, i'll have some of that". it's all so
relative.


Sure, but that's easy to say when you're as good looking a fellow as you. When the proportion of folks swings one way or the other there’s a marked difference in everything from whether or not someone holds a door open for you to whether or not you get a job.



well, let's be honest here, in levels of attractiveness, man or woman, you
score a much higher grade than me. that's what i meant with what i said,
since i cannot imagine anyone ever thinking of you as anything but very,
very beautiful.
and true love lives on lollipops and crisps
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Reply #177 posted 01/07/10 5:59am

Dave1992

JustErin said:

Dave1992 said:



I am the age-less soul called "love".


Come bathe with me.


Ok, barf.

You should know by now that I hate love and love to be choked and called a "filthy whore"

Wait, how old are you again??


I can choke you in that bathtub!



lurking
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Reply #178 posted 01/07/10 6:07am

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Dave1992 said:

JustErin said:



Ok, barf.

You should know by now that I hate love and love to be choked and called a "filthy whore"

Wait, how old are you again??


I can choke you in that bathtub!



lurking



listening to prince's "extra loveable" right now music

"are you going to get in the tub
or am i gonna have to drag u?"


lol
and true love lives on lollipops and crisps
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Reply #179 posted 01/07/10 6:37am

Dave1992

IstenSzek said:

Dave1992 said:



I can choke you in that bathtub!



lurking



listening to prince's "extra loveable" right now music

"are you going to get in the tub
or am i gonna have to drag u?"


lol



"I'm on the verge of a rape..."


disbelief lol
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