It's impossible to be more attractive than I am.

peacenlovealways said:

I am not saying either of you are unattractive, but I believe being more self confident, less shy & less paranoid usually makes a person more attractive, whether they are physically beautiful or not.

NDRU said:

Oh yeah with those examples I see what you mean and I definitely agree with that!

Dave1992 said:

Dave1992 said:

I might've gotten a prettier wife. There's that.

NDRU said:

Not even all the self-confidence in the world would make a troll like Alej look attractive.

Dave1992 said:

you make a good point...

Dave1992 said:

I know, and that is why I used you as an example

Never wish for too much attractiveness, it's more a burden than a benefit

MarySharon said:

Like wishing ever did anything

I'm the type of person that can be the plainest, most ignored, jane imaginable, yet also go to the opposite end of the spectrum when I do myself up, have the right hair etc, and it is without a DOUBT much better to be considered good looking. The difference in the way you're treated is crazy! People often wonder why good looking people would change themselves with surgery and its because once you get a taste of how you're treated and the attention you recieve you want to be even better then before. Beauty is as powerful as money, probably more so, and I haven't heard of many people who wouldnt want to be richer, so why not more beautiful?

Arnotts said:

Because it can turn your life into a nightmare.

Remember young Brigitte Bardot and photographers valiant, even foolishly dangerous, attempts to get a photograph of her. Of course it's stardom pressure and it can apply to any famous people. But in the case of Bardot, being less attractive would have made her less noticeable.

can abnormally large genitals make up for a mediocre face?

Dave1992 said:

That's what I think

whistle said:

Nope. Never.

JustErin said:

co-sign.

hot bod doesn't either

rushing07 said:

Exactly. I'm all about face.

JustErin said:

if a man had a beautiful face and a below average body, I don't think that would work for me

I would accept an average face if the body was awesome and he ticked all the other boxes like style, intellect, good human etc. An average face that had an infectious smile and twinkling eyes can still be super sexy in my book.

ZombieKitten said:

I need a perfect face, body, & personality.

And I'm worth it!

ZombieKitten said:

With me after face kicks in the attitude and sense of humor.
Body is important too of course but comes later.
[Edited 1/6/10 18:08pm]

NDRU said:

rushing07 said:

I'm totally open to most faces if the rest is all happening

ZombieKitten said:

whoa nelly!

ZombieKitten said:

Not me, I'm not picky about the body as long as it's not extremes.

rushing07 said:

OK I draw the line at diseased or faces no longer resembling a human

ZombieKitten said:

we all have our boundaries

Arnotts said:

I'm the flipside of that. When I "girl" it up, I do get more attention but I don' like it so I go back into Plain Jane mode.

Do I want to be more beautiful? No, not really. I rather be smarter than I am.

It would make a big impact especially where I live. Attractiveness is highly beneficial even if you dig ditches for a living.

rushing07 said:

I once saw on TV a range of photos of people graded on a scale from beautiful (in probably about 30 different pictures) to no longer resembling a human. To be considered truly UGLY was very very low in the scale for me. Probably only the last 4 pictures that were repulsive or unacceptable to me.