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Printableroodboi said: ZombieKitten said: jesus  I'm not religious or spiritual at all but I know you shouldn't discuss Jesus' cock...  RIP, mom. I will forever miss and love you. | |
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 Sorry to hear that you're going thru this shit, Dani.RIP, mom. I will forever miss and love you. | |
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JerseyKRS said: roodboi said: I fully understand that to some folks a sea of huge cocks in a wonderous thing... I find the image a bit disturbing...  your toe socks disagree. you know, some people here tend to think we're alot alike... I bet you'd like toes socks, too!! | |
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So here is how today is going so far.
My phone is getting shut off tomorrow cuz I can't pay 4 it. So I won't.be online for a bit. Anyway I gave all my contacts including my atty Jesus with the heavy equiptments phone number to get a hold of me at. My atty who I'm deathly afraid of left a cocky voicemail on jesuses phone so he took it upon himself to call her back and attempt to tell her off and she hung up on him. Now I'm scared to even return her call. In the meantime I get a letter from dometics that my husband is taking me back to court, for the second time, the day before Christmas eve, to try to lower his support.....that he isn't even paying. I've reached in darkness and come out with treasure
I layed down with love and I woke up with lies Whats it all worth only the heart can measure It's not whats in the mirror but what's left inside | |
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I don't know anything about e-harmony, but can someone answer this one? Does e-harmony hook people up, even though they're married. Does e-harmony do a background check on a persons marital status? I'm scratching my head over this  | |
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why the hell would you be afraid of YOUR atty??? | |
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JerseyKRS said: why the hell would you be afraid of YOUR atty???
probably because the attorney hasn't been paid in awhile or two... | |
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JustErin said: minneapolisgenius said: That makes up for a lot. I agree. A LOT. "I saw a woman with major Hammer pants on the subway a few weeks ago and totally thought of you." - sextonseven | |
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JerseyKRS said: why the hell would you be afraid of YOUR atty???
She fricken scolds me like I'm a child. I'm scared to even breath wrong around her but she is awesme in court. .....and she's been paid a retainer upfront. My bill has exceeded wat I paid getting dragged in n out of curt for nonsense but I make payments I've reached in darkness and come out with treasure
I layed down with love and I woke up with lies Whats it all worth only the heart can measure It's not whats in the mirror but what's left inside | |
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We'll be here sending out good vibes for you, Girl. Do the right thing, be truthful, be your best for your children, yourself and others...and I'm certain that no weapons formed against you shall prosper. 
...the thing that gets me about divorce is not the idea that person one doesn't want to be with the other...but damn, can't they just engage in what is necessary for the split for the best of everyone involved? And not that he is not entitled to find new love, but little Miss E-Harmony should not be all up in the crawl of your stuff before he resolves his issues with you and your children and your jointly owned property. I empathize with your sense of betrayal and disappointment at that. It is unsettling. 
I'm mad about your phone now [Edited 12/3/09 2:40am] | |
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TotalANXiousNESS said: So here is how today is going so far.
My phone is getting shut off tomorrow cuz I can't pay 4 it. So I won't.be online for a bit. Anyway I gave all my contacts including my atty Jesus with the heavy equiptments phone number to get a hold of me at. My atty who I'm deathly afraid of left a cocky voicemail on jesuses phone so he took it upon himself to call her back and attempt to tell her off and she hung up on him. Now I'm scared to even return her call. In the meantime I get a letter from dometics that my husband is taking me back to court, for the second time, the day before Christmas eve, to try to lower his support.....that he isn't even paying.  aw hell nah!!!!! he needs an ass whupin' seriously. why can't he pay child support? cuz he too busy takin care of new lady's kids? what a royal ass whipe. I hope you tell the judge everything from dude's lack of support to his movin' this chick and her brats into YOUR home! | |
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ZombieKitten said: "A study last year from the US called The Paradoxical Consequences of Revenge examined our beliefs about the satisfaction vengeance will bring. The psychologists behind the study created a situation where someone was co-opted to take financial advantage of a group of people. Participants were then given an opportunity to punish the offender, and were asked how exacting revenge would make them feel.
The subjects all expected to reap hedonic, cathartic rewards and believed it would help them feel better. But in fact they ended up feeling worse. Those who went for punishment continued to ruminate about the offender, whereas those who did not punish moved on. Rather than providing closure, taking revenge did the exact opposite: it kept the wounds open and fresh, the study found. In matters of the heart, the ultimate revenge is indifference." http://www.theaustralian....5766726507 I totally believe that. I also believe that living well is the best revenge.  In the end, you'll be without that sorry MF in your life (though still connected because of your kids) and from the sound of it, you are so much better off without that douche.
I'm so sorry you're having to go through this Dani, it really sucks huge amounts of ass. Hang in there and keep your head up! All kinds of love and positive energy coming your way!  I'm firmly planted in denial |
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My ex has send a disposition to my job for custody of my daughter, and he hasn't paid child support since the day she was born. My former co-workers told me to be careful because that's a setup for child support from me. Just when folks think they have a plan, the man upstairs has one, too. I lost my job shortly after, so the plan didn't work. Everything in life happens for a reason no matter how hard it hurts. | |
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Nothinbutjoy said: ZombieKitten said: "A study last year from the US called The Paradoxical Consequences of Revenge examined our beliefs about the satisfaction vengeance will bring. The psychologists behind the study created a situation where someone was co-opted to take financial advantage of a group of people. Participants were then given an opportunity to punish the offender, and were asked how exacting revenge would make them feel.
The subjects all expected to reap hedonic, cathartic rewards and believed it would help them feel better. But in fact they ended up feeling worse. Those who went for punishment continued to ruminate about the offender, whereas those who did not punish moved on. Rather than providing closure, taking revenge did the exact opposite: it kept the wounds open and fresh, the study found. In matters of the heart, the ultimate revenge is indifference." http://www.theaustralian....5766726507 I totally believe that. I also believe that living well is the best revenge. In the end, you'll be without that sorry MF in your life (though still connected because of your kids) and from the sound of it, you are so much better off without that douche.
I'm so sorry you're having to go through this Dani, it really sucks huge amounts of ass. Hang in there and keep your head up! All kinds of love and positive energy coming your way! I still think sewing prawns into curtain hems is worth it though! | |
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Thanks nothingbutjoy!!
U guys don't realize how much your well wishes mean to me! 
Plus my phones not off yet. Maybe AT&T is giving me an early Christmas present. Nothinbutjoy said: ZombieKitten said: "A study last year from the US called The Paradoxical Consequences of Revenge examined our beliefs about the satisfaction vengeance will bring. The psychologists behind the study created a situation where someone was co-opted to take financial advantage of a group of people. Participants were then given an opportunity to punish the offender, and were asked how exacting revenge would make them feel.
The subjects all expected to reap hedonic, cathartic rewards and believed it would help them feel better. But in fact they ended up feeling worse. Those who went for punishment continued to ruminate about the offender, whereas those who did not punish moved on. Rather than providing closure, taking revenge did the exact opposite: it kept the wounds open and fresh, the study found. In matters of the heart, the ultimate revenge is indifference." http://www.theaustralian....5766726507 I totally believe that. I also believe that living well is the best revenge. In the end, you'll be without that sorry MF in your life (though still connected because of your kids) and from the sound of it, you are so much better off without that douche.
I'm so sorry you're having to go through this Dani, it really sucks huge amounts of ass. Hang in there and keep your head up! All kinds of love and positive energy coming your way! I've reached in darkness and come out with treasure
I layed down with love and I woke up with lies Whats it all worth only the heart can measure It's not whats in the mirror but what's left inside | |
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TotalANXiousNESS said: Thanks nothingbutjoy!!
U guys don't realize how much your well wishes mean to me!
Plus my phones not off yet. Maybe AT&T is giving me an early Christmas present. Nothinbutjoy said: I totally believe that. I also believe that living well is the best revenge. In the end, you'll be without that sorry MF in your life (though still connected because of your kids) and from the sound of it, you are so much better off without that douche.
I'm so sorry you're having to go through this Dani, it really sucks huge amounts of ass. Hang in there and keep your head up! All kinds of love and positive energy coming your way! Think positive. Be positive. It ain't over til the fat lady sings, Sugar! | |
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karma will get him in the end. Take care of yourself & the kids. | |
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ZombieKitten said: Nothinbutjoy said: I totally believe that. I also believe that living well is the best revenge. In the end, you'll be without that sorry MF in your life (though still connected because of your kids) and from the sound of it, you are so much better off without that douche.
I'm so sorry you're having to go through this Dani, it really sucks huge amounts of ass. Hang in there and keep your head up! All kinds of love and positive energy coming your way! I still think sewing prawns into curtain hems is worth it though! I'm firmly planted in denial |
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