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Sex, Sex, Sex........ What does sex really mean to you? I just read somewhere in a magazine that said when people have sex with each other 99.9% of the time, they're not really having sex for the pleasure of it. In reality when people do have sex with each other, it's usually for other reason then just having sex. For instance ... they're trying 2 avoid something in their lives, they have sex 2 be accepted by another or even they have sex hoping that'll gain love  . All I know is... in a man's prespective, sex is just about sex, it's a completely physical thing, but as for a woman, sex is more of a emotional thing, where she ties in all of her feelings with the love making. Sex seems more like a physological thing more then anything, the only reason why anybody would get addicted to it is because they think they need it... The mind is a very powerful thing. When a woman or a man has a orgasm... the sensational feeling they believe they feel is all in the mind, the only thing that's is really physical is the blush afterwards... and well maybe the ejeculation, but that's another subject. I think this was a interesting article 2 share with u all... anyway's what do u all think about this?
[This message was edited Sun Jan 12 20:29:19 PST 2003 by DigitalLisa] [This message was edited Sun Jan 12 20:34:50 PST 2003 by DigitalLisa] | |
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DigitalLisa said: All I know is... in a man's prespective, sex is just about sex, it's a completely physical thing, but as for a woman, sex is more of a emotional thing, where she ties in all of her feelings with the love making.
Well that's not offensive at all! I mean, like, where is the sun? | |
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DigitalLisa said: when people have sex with each other 9.9% of the time, they're not really having sex for the pleasure of it.
9.9% or 99.9%? | |
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AnotherLover2 said: DigitalLisa said: when people have sex with each other 9.9% of the time, they're not really having sex for the pleasure of it.
9.9% or 99.9%? Depends on who you're fucking.  ==========================
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AnotherLover2 said: DigitalLisa said: when people have sex with each other 9.9% of the time, they're not really having sex for the pleasure of it.
9.9% or 99.9%? 99.9% of the time, damn those edits  . | |
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Boob said: AnotherLover2 said: DigitalLisa said: when people have sex with each other 9.9% of the time, they're not really having sex for the pleasure of it.
9.9% or 99.9%? Depends on who you're fucking. Fucking is such a harsh word, I prefer to say making love it just sounds more passionate. | |
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DigitalLisa said: .. The mind is a very powerful thing. When a woman or a man has a orgasm... the sensational feeling they believe they feel is all in the mind, the only thing that's is really physical is the blush afterwards... and well maybe the ejeculation, but that's another subject... In the mind eh? Now this is definately skagazine material... "Choochie, choocie, choo", Mommy said to the little baby. | |
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Just like a penis feels like a bone... | |
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Nope,the feeling is definitely Physical and I wouldn't have sex if I didn't derive any Pleasure from the act. It would be Cold and Unfeeling so I would rather Not. You gotta feel Great or else Don't Bother is what I say and It's Gotta be Fun or else why Waste Your Time? | |
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i must be that0.1 persent I dont service ANYONE if I dont feel like it but they can sure service if they want or feel the need what ever the case may be | |
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I think that probably most people don't realize they're having sex for all of those other reasons. They probably just view the quality of the sex as either "good" or "bad" sex. | |
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I'm selfish...99.9% of the time..it's all about me me me! | |
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Natsume said: DigitalLisa said: All I know is... in a man's prespective, sex is just about sex, it's a completely physical thing, but as for a woman, sex is more of a emotional thing, where she ties in all of her feelings with the love making.
Well that's not offensive at all! damn... you mean i've been wrong all this time... i can't believe it... all along here, i thought i was making sweet love to the lady because i loved her or something... little did i know that sex can only be emotional if you're a woman... so, either, 1) there are some things about myself that i haven't yet discovered (  ),
2) i have been mistaking emotional feelings for physical sensation, or 3) DigitalLisa is just plain full of shit and is making assumptions and generalizations that she is not qualified to make... 
this is a tough one... 
i'm going with number 3... 
there are times when i'm getting my freak on and it's just a physical thing, but then again the same thing holds true for women... however, most of the time, when me and the lady are getting into it, it's emotional...  Mr. Ellis Dee-licious, the Official NPGigolo 
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DigitalLisa said: What does sex really mean to you? I just read somewhere in a magazine that said when people have sex with each other 99.9% of the time, they're not really having sex for the pleasure of it. In reality when people do have sex with each other, it's usually for other reason then just having sex. For instance ... they're trying 2 avoid something in their lives, they have sex 2 be accepted by another or even they have sex hoping that'll gain love
. All I know is... in a man's prespective, sex is just about sex, it's a completely physical thing, but as for a woman, sex is more of a emotional thing, where she ties in all of her feelings with the love making. Sex seems more like a physological thing more then anything, the only reason why anybody would get addicted to it is because they think they need it... The mind is a very powerful thing. When a woman or a man has a orgasm... the sensational feeling they believe they feel is all in the mind, the only thing that's is really physical is the blush afterwards... and well maybe the ejeculation, but that's another subject. I think this was a interesting article 2 share with u all... anyway's what do u all think about this?
[This message was edited Sun Jan 12 20:29:19 PST 2003 by DigitalLisa] [This message was edited Sun Jan 12 20:34:50 PST 2003 by DigitalLisa] DigitalLisa...do you have somegthing against us (men}? | |
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don't take this personal ... it was just a article . | |
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EllisDee said: Natsume said: DigitalLisa said: All I know is... in a man's prespective, sex is just about sex, it's a completely physical thing, but as for a woman, sex is more of a emotional thing, where she ties in all of her feelings with the love making.
Well that's not offensive at all! damn... you mean i've been wrong all this time... i can't believe it... all along here, i thought i was making sweet love to the lady because i loved her or something... little did i know that sex can only be emotional if you're a woman... so, either, 1) there are some things about myself that i haven't yet discovered ( ),
2) i have been mistaking emotional feelings for physical sensation, or 3) DigitalLisa is just plain full of shit and is making assumptions and generalizations that she is not qualified to make...
this is a tough one...
i'm going with number 3...
there are times when i'm getting my freak on and it's just a physical thing, but then again the same thing holds true for women... however, most of the time, when me and the lady are getting into it, it's emotional... If it's not true then don't worry about ... there's no need 4 name callin' I think someone is feelin guily . | |
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DigitalLisa said: I think someone is feelin guily .no, i'm not feeling guily (  ), just feeling a little defensive... i'm that way when i first wake up... Mr. Ellis Dee-licious, the Official NPGigolo
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DigitalLisa said: don't take this personal ... it was just a article
.I'm not... believe me. It' just that I'm noticing a pattern in your posts as it relates to males, mens...men folks | |
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Men do make love 2, its not only just sex for all the men, just like some woman just want sex when they dont love the person they have sex with.
There is not that much diffirence between man and woman when it comes 2 sex. Woman are just more private about the re sex life, some men brag how good they are and they talk about sex all the time. Woman are sneakier:) They like 2 present them selves as prim and proper. But once you really get 2 know them ...lol. Did u ever hear woman talk about guys and sex when there are no guys around? Believe me, they talk the same way about sex then men do when we not around. LOL. free ur mind | |
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I think of sex all the time, but I rarely act upon it. My true experience would prove that.
I think like a man, but I play it out like a woman. | |
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I always thought I was very sexual.. Until I started dating the man I am...He is the most sexual man I have ever been with.. ^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^
Being happy doesn't mean that everything is perfect, it means you've decided to look beyond the imperfections... unknown | |
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"Sex is natural, sex is good
Not everybody does it, but everybody should Sex is natural, sex is fun Sex is best when it's one on one!" -IWantUrSex*GeorgeMichael'87 2 my mind, there is sex 4 the pleasure of sex, and sex 4 the pleasure of experiencing that pleasure with someone u love. (Are u still with me? *lol*) I do not think sex is the 'be all end all', but it is a very natural and pleasurable thing. Even more so when it is done with someone u deeply care about. I get the same intimate satisfaction from sitting close 2 my lover,holding her close or just kissing her as I would from sex. Sex is nothing without the thought of it being something special. The day sex becomes mere necessity 4 the sake of releasing that energy, then I'd rather go without it. I'm merely stating my opinion on the matter as it regards me - I am not saying what it means 2 u is wrong should it differ from my views... I just think sex is natural (and indeed it is). I'm glad we are allowed that experience - but I'd rather do it with someone I care about. That's all. BE SAFE*USE A CONDOM* | |
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sex...is just as natural as breathing or your heartbeat...(no doesnt mean you gotta sleep with everyone you meet but...) | |
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LaVisHh said: I think of sex all the time, but I rarely act upon it. My true experience would prove that.
I think like a man, but I play it out like a woman. there u go, thats my point. LOL free ur mind | |
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Would you rather have sex or love? | |
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careydevi said: Would you rather have sex or love?
LOVE. | |
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