paintedlady said:

straight back at ya!

CarrieMpls said:

I think there are many people, men and women, that fall into both areas

paintedlady said:

Let me quote Ice T: "Let's get butt naked and fuck".
Are u telling me that a man could get away with that line?

CarrieMpls said:

Yes, by some friends of mine. And I'm a dude who calls it like he sees it, which gets me in hot water.

One time, I told a friend she was in the "danger zone", and she gave me the look of death. Shit, she asked me if she was getting fat, what am I supposed to do - lie? What kind of friend is that?

whistle said:

Sorry, what?

Graycap23 said:

Sure, with some women.

However, there needs to be some blame placed back on the dude as well.

Let's be honest here...

Dude says that to chick, chick likes it and goes for it...now dude thinks chick is a whore for being so straightforward and open to it...and now he has lost respect for her.

That's weird to me.
[Edited 11/19/09 8:20am]

whistle said:

That's simple to answer

NO because I would realize that nothing I can do would make a person who knows it's her responsibilty to make herself happy, happy

JustErin said:

sorry, that was poorly worded. what i'm basically wondering is if women think they are easy to please in relationships.

Graycap23 said:

Indeed that line would work with some women

I guess I learn more and more that I am not a “typical” woman. Nor do I know very many.

Mach said:

I don't know I would want 2 deal with those women.
Hummmm.....

whistle said:

I'm guessing that women think they are easy to please.

Graycap23 said:

HA!

Exactly what I said (after I edited).

I knew it.

JustErin said:

Humans.....we over complicate EVERYTHING.

CarrieMpls said:

No you're not ~ I am not either and I think like attracts like ... so the women that we have in our circles are like us and we maybe are less in touch with the "other kind" ( whatever that means ! )

johnart said:

There is absolutely no such thing as girl-power
They will cut a bitch for dick.

JustErin said:

Lol.....I need 2 ponder this.

Graycap23 said:

Okay I am not talking bout the ones that would fuck anything offered -

Graycap23 said:

Not THAT line, but yes. (short answer of course)

Mach said:

JustErin said:

do you think you are easy to please?

Imago said:

TOTALLY true.

Guys may have some competition, but generally move on to the next piece of ass.

Girls get all RISK over that shit.

Maybe this comes down 2 people are so use 2 playing games.....that they have forgot what is real?

CarrieMpls said:

This is a good thing.

Graycap23 said:

Imo -
Not just by walking up to her and having that as his opening line. He might be good-looking but he might also be an asshole.

Personally, I think it's better that people lay their cards on the table, be open and honest. Why lie??
A guy would be more likely to get more from me by being honest from the start. If he lies, it's gonna be found out sooner or later. Then i'll just think he's a dickhead and move on.

JustErin said:

I'd be afraid to ask that here in NYC, for fear of getting slapped or maced.

whistle said:

No.

I've been told many times that I am "tempermental".

JerseyKRS said:

Sooooo true!

uPtoWnNY said:

Or worse.....

Mach said:

and not anyman could get away with saying that line effectively.

George Clooney for example can walk up to me and say "let's fuck" and I'd be like "Yes sir!" but a regular ol' dude ...