whistle said:

Why worry? Why not say what you want (politely and tactfully if it's something difficult, I suppose) and let the chips fall where they may?

right. thought is great, but there comes a time with most ANY topic where the effort you are putting into understanding is counter-productive.

uPtoWnNY said:

I think that applies to men, too. I tend to hang out with more men than women and it amazes me how similar they are to women. They bitch at each other about things and....gossip!! *Gasp*!! The only thing I envy is that men don't hold grudges, they deal with shit and are able to get over it. Some women (*note I said SOME not ALL) tend to be a little more sensitive and hold onto it longer.

When it comes down to it we all have our quirks, male or female.

paintedlady said:

I have to disagree here.

I think a lot of women don't really wanna hear the truth because it's not what they wanna hear.

And, I also think that it's more a case of some women love to fuck. I can think of a lot of women who could go without and be just fine.

johnart said:

You and me both.

On the flip side, I don't get male competitiveness either. Who's got the biggest dick is the lamest game in the world.

paintedlady said:

I have to disagree here.

I think a lot of women don't really wanna hear the truth because it's not what they wanna hear.

And, I also think that it's more a case of some women love to fuck. I can think of a lot of women who could go without and be just fine.

CarrieMpls said:

women pay lip service to the virtues of honesty, but that's about all it is. talk.

At least who's got the biggest dick is a quick contest.

whistle said:

Can you give an example?

Female Drama and competitiveness confuses me to no end.

I've had more woman trouble than any dude who doesn't like pussy should ever have to deal with.

johnart said:

a perfect example of our "less descriptive" requirements. It's kind of cut and dry and over with us. lol

But women (at least in my experience) take it to another level. Plotting and scheming behind each other's backs, being fake to each other then putting the other down.

CarrieMpls said:

But women (at least in my experience) take it to another level. Plotting and scheming behind each other's backs, being fake to each other then putting the other down.
At least who's got the biggest dick is a quick contest. They can both show me and I pick a winner!

To understand the penis thing I'd refer you you any of our countless DICK threads.

CarrieMpls said:

'do i look fat in this?'

CarrieMpls said:

'do i look fat in this?'

johnart said:

whistle said:

Do women really ask that question?

whistle said:

To my earlier post: If men just told the damn truth, women would learn NOT to ask that question.

CarrieMpls said:

women pay lip service to the virtues of honesty, but that's about all it is. talk.

CarrieMpls said:

yes.

JustErin said:

I think people want to hear what they want to hear but still prefer honesty even if it's not pleasant.

whistle said:

Do women really ask that question?

johnart said:

I guess I see that kinda thing on tv, but I don't know women who plot or scheme or whatever. Which is why I don't understand it.
And people are fake and two-faced all over the place, men AND women.

I think both genders are competitive, it's just a different flavor.

CarrieMpls said:

Oh man, I disagree with that one! I think those that prefer the truth - no matter how shitty it is are absolutely the exception, not the rule.

men, why do you lie to get pussy? Don't you know that women love to fuck too?
Everybody digs fucking.... so if that's all you want, then just say so.

None of that...
"Baby, I'm single"
"Baby you are so beautiful"
"I love you"
"I'm gonna make you cum"
BS!

Women will not have any expectation of you if you just tell the truth. If you want to love us and commit to us that's great, but don't lie about it, PLEASE.


If a man just wants to fuck me, that's cool. Come over, have your A game ready (that means ready to pleasure ME first) get laid then leave.
If I am feeling up to it I may give you a glass of water after, but then you have to go... really, like go.

whistle said:

Well then, that's on THEM. I never ask a question I already know the answer to.

paintedlady said:

I agree with you 100%

JustErin said:

Really?

You think people would rather be told a lie then hear something unpleasant? They're OK with someone cheating on them as long as they don't know about it? They'd rather be told "I love you" so they feel good even if it's not true?

Yikes.