First, I'm shocked and dismayed that this would happent to anyone. My prayers are definitely with Kandi and his children.

But, on the real, IMO this seems too random to be random. Since he owned the joint and the dude arrested was an employee this is not like a stranger walked up to him and killed him. They obviously knew each other. Plus, AJ was a former drug dealer so there could very well be more to this story that we may never know and no motive has been found yet so ain't no telling what really went down.

And I ain't trynna be ugly but even I know that a former dealer owning a skrip club is right up there with owning a car wash, rim shop, auto detailing joint. It's Wash that Drug Money 101.
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Graycap23 said:

You know, I read the comments section of one of the sites, and someone had a good point. There is page after page about the death of some guy who is dating some woman who is starring in a mind-numbing "reality show" about housewives who want nothing more than to be in the spotlight. That's it.

It's kind of depressing that this is news when there are people dying every minute. Is the vapid pursuit of fame the end-all, be-all of life in America?

I guess my feeling is, damn, too bad, but, who gives a shit given everything else that is happening in the world? Just a thought. I was flipping through and saw a few minutes of some new reality show and it really got to me that this form of "entertainment" is so popular that they pump them out like burps.
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utopia7 said:

This one says ex-fiance'.....did they break up?

shortnsweet said:

well since the show was filmed further back maybe the break-up was recent it must still hurt either way

BoOTyLiCioUs said:

Just how ignorant people are. Thats why I stopped going to clubs, can't have a good time just dancing anymore. Idiots get drunk and get stupid.

BlackandRising said:

I get ur point, but you have to remember that she is on a top rated show. RHWOA has been hitting number one in its timeslot since the beginning. So, people find it entertaining.

I do agree that each of them are seeking some type of fame and exposure, but the fact remains the same, someone got killed and left 6 kids behind.

Just how ignorant people are. Thats why I stopped going to clubs, can't have a good time just dancing anymore. Idiots get drunk and get stupid.

First, I'm shocked and dismayed that this would happent to anyone. My prayers are definitely with Kandi and his children.

But, on the real, IMO this seems too random to be random. Since he owned the joint and the dude arrested was an employee this is not like a stranger walked up to him and killed him. They obviously knew each other. Plus, AJ was a former drug dealer so there could very well be more to this story that we may never know and no motive has been found yet so ain't no telling what really went down.

And I ain't trynna be ugly but even I know that a former dealer owning a skrip club is right up there with owning a car wash, rim shop, auto detailing joint. It's Wash that Drug Money 101.
[Edited 10/3/09 13:20pm]

SCNDLS said:

You aint lyin'. Now we know about all them "bidnezzes" AJ had going on.

Poor Kandi, but on the real...I see her shelling out money for his funeral, his kids, his debts etc. She probably thinking if she'd married him then none of this would have happened. 5 dolla say she definitely aint showing up for season 3.

DesireeNevermind said:

I bet she does come back. She got all them mouths to feed now. Besides, they film next year so she'd have time to grieve. You know the show MUST go on.

SCNDLS said:

I wonder how her momma is feeling? She never liked ole dude...not one bit.

I gotta read up on what Wendy is saying bout this. You know she aint gonna be right or respectful.

SCNDLS said:

I wonder how her momma is feeling? She never liked ole dude...not one bit.

I gotta read up on what Wendy is saying bout this. You know she aint gonna be right or respectful.

missfee said:

Shit is crazy all over, not just in clubs. Last week two fools bumped into each other not far from where I work(midtown Manhattan). They square off, talk smack, one dude winds up getting stabbed and killed.

uPtoWnNY said:

Yes I agree it doesn't just happen in clubs, but most of the time it does.

missfee said:

Yeah most of the times it is clubs, the incident here in NYC, was more of a guy that was already pretty far gone, i think he would have stabbed someone else at some point, whether they bumped him or not.

So AJ has the gun and he gets killed by somebody with a knife? Dayum, Sean Connery had it wrong when he said "never bring a knife to a gun fight."

DesireeNevermind said:

Did dude even have a knife? It doesn't sound like AJ was stabbed. If dude is saying that he just punched him and AJ walked away it could be like what happened to Natasha Richardson where she had a brain injury and didn't know it. Like I said, "It's more to this right herrre."

SCNDLS said:

It's confusing as hell that's fo sho. CNN said he got stabbed but then other reports say it was just a fist fight or sumthin. I think he got ambushed and pummeled. Poor AJ...he was shady as hell but certainly not that shady. Kandi need to steer clear of all this hot ghetto tragedy/mess. I admire her for taking care of his twins but at the same time, it seems she may be drawn into something that's too big for her to handle and she has to think about her daughter. Dont' them twins have grandparents, aunts or something?


Oh, and wth, Kandi said on the last episode all her platinum/gold framed records got stolen when she let a friend have a party at her crib.

DesireeNevermind said:

Yeah, the twins were apparently living with his mama and she couldn't handle them anymore. Plus Kandi said their mother was going through some "thangs." So it sounds like she's stuck with them for now.

I think that she's now finding out just how shady he is because the description of him laying up somewhere with a gun, saying "I got something for you" is just crazy. He prolly put on a front so she really has not idea who she was really dealing with. She admitted herself that he didn't tell her he had 6 kids until AFTER they got engaged. Now, she's prolly finding out more stuff she didn't know.

SCNDLS said:

and there's nothing worse than finding out somebody you thought you knew is a whole different person but you can't confront them on it because they are dead.