What would you do if you found out that your partner was cheating by email, text etc?

Well, since Grenada is a small island, I'm sure he would've met her/him/them also...
and I have no tolerance for cheating.
My trust never comes back from that, so he can free up and go to her/him/them.

Sit and have a long talk ...

We share all our passwords anyway

I can go look anytime I like

I can't imagine having zero tolerance if we both agreed to be in a committed relationship, but I never been there/ scratch that, I have... I have forgiven the person, but I don't think I could ever go out with them again.

I'd come post about it at prince.org

starkitty said:

Starkitty!

DiminutiveRocker said:

There is too much to life to be concerned abotu the action of another. You have to live your life and theirs as the way we are supposed to. People going to do what they going to do. Its up to the individual to learn / change for themselves.

I trust him 1000%
but if ever...

Mach said:

Is that a good thing? Do most couples share passwords? Just curious...

This has actually happened to me...and we had a very, very long talk. Sadly now trust is a huge issue with us.

dannyd5050 said:

I dont think so. it takes away the individual privacy. Why be with someone and you know EVERYTHING about them front to back left to right? The mystery is gone..I wouldnt want my partner to feel he has to dip out on me just to gain a private life...what fun of a relationship is that? Somebody controlling your every move? No.

Punch him right in the balls.

OVA

paisleypark4 said:

I agree. There is always one half of the relationship that asks "Why does he/she need to have a password? What are they trying to hide?" Those are ususally the insecure people in the relationship.

dannyd5050 said:

I don't know what most other couples do
I do know it's a good thing for us

Mach said:

Is that because if there were separate passwords there would be trust issues? If your partner all of a sudden changed his password would it bother you?

paisleypark4 said:

Yeah comming from your perspective on it I would say No as well

that's not where we come from though

starkitty said:

dannyd5050 said:

we have our seperate passwords - we just know each others

actually there is no trust issues- that's why we share them - we dont go using them sniffing round and stuff there is no need to and really no desire to either

THAT might be where other couples come from on it though


sux to be them



I can't say it would bother me

I can say I would bet 500$ he would tell me he was before he did though

CarrieLee said:

And if its the other way around?..where can I punch her?...lol..but seriously,this happend to me and I let her tie her own knoose around her neck and then bounced..Told her she dont have to sneak around anymore..you want him,go get him..

SavonOsco said:

The thread asked what *I* would do. So I answered it truthfully

CarrieLee said:

A knee might be more effective and take him off guard better.

Mach said:

That's cool. Thanks! Sounds like you have a great relationship!!

Mach said:

Indeed.

Lammastide said:

Best thing was to have long talks prior

and refresh with long talks

and share intentions and more talks

without that/those I could not see staying with a person for over 24 yrs

I learned that the hard ( mistrusting and assumption ) way before meeting Michael

Mach said:

Thats entirely too much talking.

CarrieLee said:

"Note to self, wear a cup around Carrie,just in case"

I'd ask my boyfriend to invite him to our place and have a threesome.

Alej said:

you took my answer!!!!!

babooshleeky said:

! I'm kind of serious, though