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PrintableMoniGram said: JustErin said: I don't see the difference.  Trust me HUGE difference! Well, I was in a serious relationship for 10 years - that's longer than many marriages last. No difference. | |
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CalhounSq said: MoniGram said: One should NEVER schedule love making...then it gets boring, and you start feeling like it's a chore, like taking out the trash! Hell just do it!
Not true for those who don't live w/ their bf/gf  & even when you do live together, there's nothing wrong w/ making time. In fact, not making time is what seems to lead to problems/distance, imo...I guess this is just me...and my past relationship that ended because I didn't like the feeling it was giving me. "love making" in a serious relationship shouldnt' become a chore...and when you schedule it, like "Hey babe it's Sunday night again get naked!" It's just not my thing! But I do see where you are coming from...and how not making time would cause an issue...but the question was..do you have a schedule for it, not do you make time for it. In my eyes two different things...but once again that's just my thoughts. Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian  | |
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JustErin said: MoniGram said: Trust me HUGE difference! Well, I was in a serious relationship for 10 years - that's longer than many marriages last. No difference. Then I guess you are one of the lucky ones! Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian | |
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MoniGram said: CalhounSq said: Not true for those who don't live w/ their bf/gf & even when you do live together, there's nothing wrong w/ making time. In fact, not making time is what seems to lead to problems/distance, imo...I guess this is just me...and my past relationship that ended because I didn't like the feeling it was giving me. "love making" in a serious relationship shouldnt' become a chore...and when you schedule it, like "Hey babe it's Sunday night again get naked!" It's just not my thing! But I do see where you are coming from...and how not making time would cause an issue...but the question was..do you have a schedule for it, not do you make time for it. In my eyes two different things...but once again that's just my thoughts. I think we're talking about 2 different things. It's only a chore if you make it one. & if you don't live together, you have to schedule time to see each other.  Maybe I'm off topic but there's no schedule for "it" when I see him, it just usually happens within the first few hours of being in his presence...
At least it did before we broke up yet again    I never met you, but I LOVE you & I will forever!! Thank you for being YOU - my little Princey, the best to EVER do it | |
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The Wife and I don't have a schedule. We use a flow diagram to decide whether sexual relations will be forthcoming.
Do you have a headache? Yes -----> Go to sleep. No -----> Go to Question 2 That kind of thing.  | |
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Evvy said: Do you avoid work nights or mornings? do schedule "dates" with your partner? How does it fit into your busy life?
dont really have one.that just sounds like no fun....unless you got some secret undercover lover shit goin on. owwww | |
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CalhounSq said: MoniGram said: I guess this is just me...and my past relationship that ended because I didn't like the feeling it was giving me. "love making" in a serious relationship shouldnt' become a chore...and when you schedule it, like "Hey babe it's Sunday night again get naked!" It's just not my thing! But I do see where you are coming from...and how not making time would cause an issue...but the question was..do you have a schedule for it, not do you make time for it. In my eyes two different things...but once again that's just my thoughts. I think we're talking about 2 different things. It's only a chore if you make it one. & if you don't live together, you have to schedule time to see each other. Maybe I'm off topic but there's no schedule for "it" when I see him, it just usually happens within the first few hours of being in his presence...
At least it did before we broke up yet again Yes we probably are...I am talking about a live in relationship where you see a person day in and day out! I feel in my past I have been with men who become so focused on work and stress they forget how "love making" can help you escape and relieve that stress...so like I said a chore...not my thing. Probably why I am not with this person any longer! Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian | |
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JustErin said: MoniGram said: Trust me HUGE difference! Well, I was in a serious relationship for 10 years - that's longer than many marriages last. No difference. I was in a serious relationship for 17 years and there was no difference.With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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MoniGram said: CalhounSq said: I think we're talking about 2 different things. It's only a chore if you make it one. & if you don't live together, you have to schedule time to see each other. Maybe I'm off topic but there's no schedule for "it" when I see him, it just usually happens within the first few hours of being in his presence...
At least it did before we broke up yet again Yes we probably are...I am talking about a live in relationship where you see a person day in and day out! I feel in my past I have been with men who become so focused on work and stress they forget how "love making" can help you escape and relieve that stress...so like I said a chore...not my thing. Probably why I am not with this person any longer! I hear you I never met you, but I LOVE you & I will forever!! Thank you for being YOU - my little Princey, the best to EVER do it | |
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Serious said: JustErin said: Well, I was in a serious relationship for 10 years - that's longer than many marriages last. No difference. I was in a serious relationship for 17 years and there was no difference.Like Erin, you are one of the lucky ones!  Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian | |
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Evvy said: Do you avoid work nights or mornings? do schedule "dates" with your partner? How does it fit into your busy life?
Good greif your nosey.  | |
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MoniGram said: Serious said: I was in a serious relationship for 17 years and there was no difference.Like Erin, you are one of the lucky ones! Yeah I was lucky for a long time. With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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SirPsycho said: JustErin said: Is 'making love' mean all soft and slow and full of "I love you, baby"s? it doesnt have to be slow, i'd just say "less showy" like if i can be fair, i know when im out to "perform/impress" and when im just "feeling" YES! I SAID IT!
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CalhounSq said: MoniGram said: Yes we probably are...I am talking about a live in relationship where you see a person day in and day out! I feel in my past I have been with men who become so focused on work and stress they forget how "love making" can help you escape and relieve that stress...so like I said a chore...not my thing. Probably why I am not with this person any longer! I hear you so what did you do to draw them back in and use sex as a stress reliever LOVE HARD. | |
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I love myself whenever I get a chance | |
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JustErin said: sextonseven said: At first I'd say yes, but after a few years into the relationship, no. By then men still want it all the time, but from different women.
Wait...  gotta love honesty  If you will, so will I | |
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Everytime the moon is full, on an even day in a month that ends in a vowel...or something like that.
 By St. Boogar and all the saints at the backside door of Purgatory! | |
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No schedule really, but mornings more than other times. | |
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...hubby started kissing me at 4 am this morning while I was still asleep, worked for me.  | |
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endymion said: sextonseven said: At first I'd say yes, but after a few years into the relationship, no. By then men still want it all the time, but from different women.  Y'all SUCK | |
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CarrieMpls said: Never.
That’s my schedule.  | |
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Scotsman1999 said: Whenever the pain in my wrist fades sufficiently.
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WTF? :cofuse: Sex has no schedule you just do it. | |
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NastradumasKid said: WTF? :cofuse: Sex has no schedule you just do it.
Watch it or else your org-daddy ThreadBare is gonna chase you out of this thread | |
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angel345 said: NastradumasKid said: WTF? :cofuse: Sex has no schedule you just do it.
Watch it or else your org-daddy ThreadBare is gonna chase you out of this thread org Daddy????  ThreadBare? | |
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NastradumasKid said: angel345 said: Watch it or else your org-daddy ThreadBare is gonna chase you out of this thread org Daddy???? ThreadBare? He sounds like he's a great father or would be | |
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angel345 said: NastradumasKid said: org Daddy???? ThreadBare? He sounds like he's a great father or would be He's 36, he'll find someone have 18 kids and counting.....  | |
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NastradumasKid said: angel345 said: He sounds like he's a great father or would be He's 36, he'll find someone have 18 kids and counting..... Hey, you never know. Good luck to him  | |
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I never do, but my neighbor has been gettin it on every night and I think she tries to be loud and bang the bed against the wall that we share, it is starting to bother me | |
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