violator said:

And I'm sure Steve's wife already knew about this chick.

Damn, Steve. Damn.

Adisa said:

Don't be so sure of that. You'd be surprised at how well these athletes/celebs hide their shit with the money at their disposal to do so.

MuthaFunka said:

From the looks of it Steve wasn't trying to hide anything. He's a local hero, with a girlfriend in downtown Nashville where errbody hangs out?

Adisa said:

Yeah, but remember, he also shared that condo with a buddy of his, so he caoul've always just said "I was hanging out with Mike" and could've easily said it was HIS chick and not McNair's.

MuthaFunka said:

Umm, did you not see the pics of him and the crazy chick on vacay?? He wasn't hiding anything. Wifey probably did know about it, but that doesn't make it right. Too late to correct it now, though


Smooches;)
[Edited 7/5/09 20:32pm]

MsMisha319 said:

So you think those pics were PUBLIC VIEWING? TMZ got those flicks, so no tellin' who gave them up. And please, many a cheater has taken pics with his sidepiece but the wifey never saw them, so you REALLY can't use that as proof. Hell, I took pics with my sidepieces while I had a mainpiece...and none of the mainpieces ever saw them (I think? )

MuthaFunka said:

Exactly....shit is totally fucked-up.

But for the life of me, I'll never understand why these wealthy athletes/celebs bother getting married in the first place.

uPtoWnNY said:

But a lot of men get married that shouldn't get married. Dudes feel like "It's time to settle down" - No, the REAL thing is, are YOU ready to settle down? It's not about "time" because at THAT TIME he may be ready but what if that "time" comes and goes?...THEN what? Monogamy is tough for a species that wasn't meant to be monogamous. It ain't natural.

MuthaFunka said:

That's what I'm saying. Hey, once a playa, ALWAYS a playa.

But RIP to Air, one of my favorites. Good QB, great competitor and tough.

uPtoWnNY said:

Yep, dude was a warrior.

MuthaFunka said:

But you end it at 1-something in the morning? I dunno. The whole thing's sad.

ThreadBare said:

Hey, he may have gotten the pussy one last time and was gonna end it after that. Been there, done that .

MuthaFunka said:

I'm sayin', you're cruisin' for (at least) a bruisin' going that route...

Thats all kinds of fucked up.

I feel for his wife. If she didnt know dude was messin around..and found out all this shit at one time..man

ThreadBare said:

Yep!

DanceWme said:

Very fucked up if that's the case.

MuthaFunka said:

I agree with Adisa. It couldn't have been a secret or news to his wife.

ThreadBare said:

Bruh, you'd be surprised at how hidden these cats can keep their dirt.

MuthaFunka said:

I believe you.
It's just that Nashville isn't big at all for a big city.
"Black Nashville" is way smaller.
And "Famous and Black Nashville" stays on blast (especially if something bad happens), especially if you're a Titans star.
Folks knew.





Accursed your/you're edit.
[Edited 7/6/09 12:08pm]

ThreadBare said:

I can dig that then.

MuthaFunka said:

Good theory. As soon as I heard the girl had one gunshot to the head I thought, she killed him, then herself.

I am curious as to why she only got busted for DUI and not for drinking underage also.

jone70 said:

She probably did but the DUI is a bigger issue, so they probably just reported that.

MuthaFunka said:

Believe me, women KNOW when shit ain't right.

According to a WFAN report, Kazemi bought the gun last week.

uPtoWnNY said:

Tru dat. Women don't WANNA know sometimes.

MuthaFunka said:

Dude, you've got it backwards. Men kill women for this very reason every single day. It's men that think that way.

JustErin said:

True, it does work both ways.

Steve McNair married Mechelle Cartwright in 1997.
http://www.nydailynews.co...KWUJGNmC&D
Wife Unaware of Affair Until McNair's Death
07/06/09

The wife of slain quarterback Steve McNair may have only learned about the gridiron star's affair with a gorgeous young woman after the clandestine couple's grisly deaths, sources close to the football player said Sunday.

"She's blindsided by this," one source said of Mechelle McNair, who was holed up in her family's home just 6 miles from the condo her husband used to bed his mistress. "She's crushed. Her whole world is shattered."

Nashville cops confirmed that Steve McNair, 36, was killed by four bullets fired at close range, two of which hit him in the head, and ruled his death a homicide.


[Photo of McNair's lover Sahel Kazemi]


His lover, Sahel Kazemi, 20, died of a single gunshot from the same semiautomatic found on the floor under her body, police also said.

They stopped short of calling the slayings a murder-suicide carried out by Kazemi, but said they are not looking for any suspects.

Cops ruled McNair's death a homicide and have not ruled on Kazemi's death, citing the need for more tests.

Kazemi and McNair, a dad of four boys, were dating for several months, friends told cops; McNair apparently kept the affair a secret from his wife.

Photos obtained by TMZ.com show a smiling McNair parasailing on a recent tropical vacation with the curvy Kazemi, whom he met as she waitressed at a Dave & Buster's sports bar.

"He started to talk to her a little," Kazemi's aunt Sepideh Salmani told The Tennessean newspaper. "They exchanged phone numbers, and started dating from there."

Salmani said her beautiful, raven-haired niece believed that McNair was in the process of getting a divorce.

Kazemi's sister told The Florida Times-Union of Jacksonville that Kazemi had expected to wed McNair.

"She said they were planning to get married," Soheyla Kazemi told the paper."

County records do not indicate that a divorce is pending, but the McNair family home is up for sale for $3 million.

Investigators said McNair had been drinking at a pair of Nashville bars - Blue Moon Lagoon Bar and Loser's Bar - into the early-morning hours of Saturday and then returned to the downtown condo he shared with a pal.

Although neighbors have not reported hearing gunshots, cops believe McNair and Kazemi died about 2 a.m., nearly 12 hours before their bodies were found.

There was no sign of forced entry at the condo, and investigators are checking whether the couple had been having a "lovers' quarrel," cops said.

It was not immediately known whom the pistol belonged to, although McNair did have a permit to carry a gun, police said.

Kazemi, who was raised by an aunt in Florida after her parents were killed in Iran, moved to Nashville with her ex-boyfriend, Keith Norfleet.

Norfleet, whom investigators want to interview, had a "volatile" relationship with Kazemi but was trying to win her back from McNair, Norfleet's stepmother said.

"They had a lot of jealousy in their relationship and they'd fight and break up a lot," said Trudie Norfleet. "He loved her. ... He's awful torn up about it."

The quarterback, renowned in Nashville for his extensive work in the community, rented the condo overlooking the Titans stadium with sporting goods dealer Wayne Neeley, who called McNair's best friend after seeing the bodies sprawled on a couch.

"It's a picture I'll never get out of my head," a weeping Robert Gaddy told the Daily News. "It's the most terrible sight I've ever seen."

"This was a great man, a man who'd do anything for you," said Gaddy, who had been friends with the Heisman finalist since meeting him at Alcorn State University.

Told y'all. These athletes have intricate ways of hing their sidepieces, especially when their sidepieces elect to be quiet on the DL with them.

MuthaFunka said:

then again...it's probbaly in her best interest to say she didn't know. i mean it's nashville--it's tiny. if all the trick's neighbors knew steve was banging her like a porch door, then she had to know. that's like brett favre having an affair in hattiesburg miss.--who wouldn't know.

Fury said:

Right. Steve, Eddie George, Chris Sanders... we be knowing where they at.