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Printablemcmeekle said: mcmeekle said: For women: Learn to drive!
 Just kidding!  Oh hell no, you're not.  | |
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Vendetta1 said: Oh yeah! stop dealing with women who withhold sex as some type of punishment.
The more I think about it, I think some men enjoy the drama women put them through. Maybe that goes along with Byron's category of women not putting up with men's "shit". | |
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mcmeekle said: For women: Learn to drive!
Oh, please, women know how to drive  ...
It's the parallel parking they need help with.  | |
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heartbeatocean said: Byron said: All of those work, yes lol (well, except the begging part, that's just wanting humiliation lol).
Basically, though, it's knowing how to draw a line and letting the guy know what's acceptable in a relationship and what is not. This isn't in an effort to change him, mind you... I don't know.  It's a tricky line. I think the best and most difficult answer is to hook up with someone who treats you well in the first place, has that natural inclination, who listens to your complaints, and easily apologizes and makes up for mistakes. Otherwise, it's a battle.But it's not until you ARE "hooked up" that you know if someone will treat you well in the first place, will listen to your complaints and apologizes easily and makes up for mistakes. So for those times when you find out that the guy really isn't any of these things, STOP LETTING HIM GET AWAY WITH SHIT, LADIES!! lol  | |
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heartbeatocean said: Byron said: It's rarer, definitely...but it's not impossible. I think that having two who are sincerely trying to do it right is all that's needed ...any stumbles can be overcome in that scenario.Not necessarily. In my last relationship, we sincerely tried to work out our differences, went to couples therapy, were open-minded etc. We just weren't the right match. At least from my point of view. That's why I said any stumbles can be overcome, and not that it will be. ...Everything requires effort, no matter how sincere the desire. | |
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guys, have you ever had a lasting relationship with a total freak??? THE B EST BE YOURSELF AS LONG AS YOUR SELF ISNT A DYCK[/r]
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Byron said: heartbeatocean said: I don't know. It's a tricky line. I think the best and most difficult answer is to hook up with someone who treats you well in the first place, has that natural inclination, who listens to your complaints, and easily apologizes and makes up for mistakes. Otherwise, it's a battle.But it's not until you ARE "hooked up" that you know if someone will treat you well in the first place, will listen to your complaints and apologizes easily and makes up for mistakes. So for those times when you find out that the guy really isn't any of these things, STOP LETTING HIM GET AWAY WITH SHIT, LADIES!! lol or just stop seeing him | |
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heartbeatocean said: Byron said: But it's not until you ARE "hooked up" that you know if someone will treat you well in the first place, will listen to your complaints and apologizes easily and makes up for mistakes. So for those times when you find out that the guy really isn't any of these things, STOP LETTING HIM GET AWAY WITH SHIT, LADIES!! lol or just stop seeing him Well, like I said, that's definitely one way you let a guy know you're not gonna let him get away with shit lol ..Hopefully, though, the "shit" you're not letting him get away with is something more important than leaving the toilet lid up.  | |
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To men:
Honestly is the best policy Impressing 'them' shouldn't mean dissing 'her' Not all women are alike Compliments are nice If you will, so will I | |
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myfavorite said: guys, have you ever had a lasting relationship with a total freak???
I've never had any relationship with a total freak lol... | |
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My advice to women: Don't date me!
I'm so superficial when it comes to looks while being butt-ugly myself that if I DO find you attractive you probably won't notice me anyway. | |
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purplehippieonthe1 said: My advice to women: Don't date me!
I'm so superficial when it comes to looks while being butt-ugly myself that if I DO find you attractive you probably won't notice me anyway.  | |
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LADIES, dont ever pay a man's way ever. If he is a man he will take responsibility of 100% of his financial matters. If he doesnt, you should keep it moving.
Let a man be a man. | |
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dreamfactory313 said: LADIES, dont ever pay a man's way ever. If he is a man he will take responsibility of 100% of his financial matters. If he doesnt, you should keep it moving.
Let a man be a man. I would definitely agree with this...although you then run into the situation where you're with a woman who absolutely feels she has to pay her own way AND treat you (since you've been treating her up until that point). I never want to say "ok, be my guest and pay for me, thank you" lol ...Ever. Never ever. Feels...weird. If a woman insists on paying her own way it feels like we're just friends, I guess. The exception is if she has planned something especially for me and is taking me somewhere lol  ... | |
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CalhounSq said: MEN: realize that all women are not the same, get to know the lady you're seeing for who she IS vs. who you expect her to be...
& PLEASE don't discuss cars/money/bullshit as a way to hook a woman unless you want to end up w/ a golddiggin' skank. Down the line you'll be complaining about how she used you when yo ass let her in by introducing material things in the first place. Then you get bitter & end up thinking all/most women are like that. Then you come @ the rest of us w/ a serious attitude!  That approach is TACKY, desperate & lets everyone know that you base your worth on strictly external things, & that's a complete turn-off for those of us who could give a shit about what you have - some of us wanna know who you are  VERY well said I graduated bitches!!! 12-19-09   | |
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heartbeatocean said: Byron said: But it's not until you ARE "hooked up" that you know if someone will treat you well in the first place, will listen to your complaints and apologizes easily and makes up for mistakes. So for those times when you find out that the guy really isn't any of these things, STOP LETTING HIM GET AWAY WITH SHIT, LADIES!! lol or just stop seeing him I assumed that's what he meant by not letting them get away with it. |
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Byron said: What would you tell them?
Women...what piece of advice would you give men concerning women that you feel they should know? Men, same thing...what pearls of wisdom would you give women concerning things they should remember when it comes to men? If you're gay...well, I'm not exactly sure how to do this lol  ...so add in your own advice for whichever gender you want to give it to 
[Edited 5/29/09 5:52am] My advice would be to simply leave the drama with your girlfriends....if you're single (or have been for a minute), whatever you do, don't utilize the advice of the girlfriend who's been single LONGER THAN YOU....or has been in so many failed relationships that she ends up on the kind of board that retailers used to identify bad check writers!! Trust your instincts....stick to your guns about what you want from him, but be flexible enough to accept a quirk or blemish...and be honest....if there is something about him that pisses you off or aggravates you, say so....don't play the "oh, it's cool" role until you get so mad that you go off and start calling his grandma names....if we know up front about the things that cause your eyelids to twitch, chances are that we'll stop if we like you enough.... ....oh....and if you're a freak in the sheets, you might want to dole that out in increments instead of all at once...  He was like a cock who thought the sun had risen to hear him crow.
(George Eliot) the video for the above... 
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reneGade20 said: Byron said: What would you tell them?
Women...what piece of advice would you give men concerning women that you feel they should know? Men, same thing...what pearls of wisdom would you give women concerning things they should remember when it comes to men? If you're gay...well, I'm not exactly sure how to do this lol ...so add in your own advice for whichever gender you want to give it to
[Edited 5/29/09 5:52am] My advice would be to simply leave the drama with your girlfriends....if you're single (or have been for a minute), whatever you do, don't utilize the advice of the girlfriend who's been single LONGER THAN YOU....or has been in so many failed relationships that she ends up on the kind of board that retailers used to identify bad check writers!! Trust your instincts....stick to your guns about what you want from him, but be flexible enough to accept a quirk or blemish...and be honest....if there is something about him that pisses you off or aggravates you, say so....don't play the "oh, it's cool" role until you get so mad that you go off and start calling his grandma names....if we know up front about the things that cause your eyelids to twitch, chances are that we'll stop if we like you enough.... ....oh....and if you're a freak in the sheets, you might want to dole that out in increments instead of all at once... all of that  | |
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Some of yall are just typing shit for applause , ya lyin' ass dogs. | |
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Imago said: Some of yall are just typing shit for applause , ya lyin' ass dogs.
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Imago said: Some of yall are just typing shit for applause , ya lyin' ass dogs.
Shut up, you!! 
As much as I've revealed about myself on this damned site, you KNOW I'm real.... ...just like J-Lo said!! He was like a cock who thought the sun had risen to hear him crow.
(George Eliot) the video for the above...
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when i say no, it doesen't mean come back in 5 minutes. i'm not interested. | |
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