What would you tell them?

Women...what piece of advice would you give men concerning women that you feel they should know?

Men, same thing...what pearls of wisdom would you give women concerning things they should remember when it comes to men?

If you're gay...well, I'm not exactly sure how to do this lol ...so add in your own advice for whichever gender you want to give it to
[Edited 5/29/09 5:52am]

Great thread Byron.

Vendetta1 said:

no advice given!

I have no idea what to tell men. It never seems to matter

break up with us properly!
don't just not call
we have tougher egos than men, we can handle it - we might cry or whatever, but don't use avoidance as a method for letting a woman know you don't want to see her any more!!!!

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

i think a lot of the women on the org don't want to see the advice I'd give to men about them.

You get the rap of being a woman hater. I really do hate them.

j/k

Vendetta1 said:

I wear a scarlet WH in every forum

Men, be yourself.... even if you're just a cheap whiny cheating slob. This way, a woman knows what she's getting herself into. Honesty is always best.

Men, never tell her what you think she wants to hear, especially if you think she wants to hear "I love you" when you don't mean it.

Never buy a woman anything if you expect something in return, you'll always be disappointed.

And remember, you won't have to keep buying bigger shoes if you trim your toenails every now and then.

If we are lovers who are no longer, don't ask to be a friend, especially when we never connected as friends to begin with.

Mara said:

Men. Burn our anniversary or dates I express as important into your brain. Tatoo it on your eyeballs if you must. It's one simple thing and it will make me want to love you.

Don't take the easy "women are too emotional" way out when ya'll are debating,,,,,it doesn't work

This is for GROWN men: STOP using pickup lines please please pleeeeeaaaase OMG, I cringe whenever somebody uses a lame corny pathetic pitiful sad overdundant aimless way to get women's attention,,,,this ain't 1989, motherfucker

And the "women don't know what they want" expression? Don't believe it. ESP in my case

put yourself in your woman's shoes before acting or talking.

don't act like Kate on Jon and Kate plus 8 treat your man with respect and realize you can't change him.

Mara said:

Is this to a man or woman?

Just because we've sucked a cock recently does not mean that some of us won't tear that pussy up. Take a chance and approach us!

don't cheat
don't lie

I am not a teacher, if i have to school you

paintedlady said:

...That's not advice men should know about women, though lol ...

CarrieMpls said:

This is more like advice you're giving men about men lol ...

Byron said:

So would it be better if I said women don't like to be cheated on or lied to?

Imago said:

CarrieMpls said:

Remember, Orgers...all responses must be in the form of advice about your gender...

Imago said:

Do you know what bisexual folk are Dan? O P P O R T U N I S T S !

PS Get a real phone!

dannyd5050 said:

Genderless

Genderless, genderqueer and intergender are catchall terms for gender identities other than man and woman. People who identify as genderqueer may think of themselves as being both male and female, as being neither male nor female, or as falling completely outside the gender binary. Some wish to have certain features of the opposite sex and not all characteristics; others want it all.

Some genderqueer people see their identity as one of many possible genders other than male or female, while others see "genderqueer" as an umbrella term that encompasses all of those possible genders. Still others see "genderqueer" as a third gender to complement the traditional two, while others identify as genderless or agender. Genderless people are united by their rejection of the notion that there are only two genders. The term "genderqueer" can also be used as an adjective to refer to any people who transgress gender, regardless of their self-defined gender identity (see Alternate Meanings, below).

How genderqueer people view gender as a whole and its relationship to themselves varies. Some genderless people view gender as a continuum between man and woman, with the two traditional genders at the two poles and their own genderless place as somewhere within the continuum. Others believe there are as many genders as there are people. Still others believe that binary gender is a social construct, and choose not to adhere to that construct. Some genderless people do fit into the stereotypical gender roles expected of their sex, but still identify outside of that and reject a two-pole gendered system. Some genderqueers experience their gender as fluid, varying from day to day or year to year. Some genderqueer people reject any gender system as a valid method of classifying individuals.
Some genderqueers prefer to go by the conventional binary pronouns "he" or "she," while others prefer gender-neutral pronouns such as "ze" and "hir" or singular "they" instead of her/his. Some genderqueer people prefer to have people alternate between he and she (and/or gender neutral pronouns) in reference to themselves, and some prefer to use only their name and not use pronouns at all.

And before someone makes it into an "org joke," please be sensitive about this. Thanks.

source: http://en.wikipedia.org/w...enderqueer

Tell us why you don't want to date us. If you don't tell us then we're just going to make up our own reasons why you don't want to. And then when you roll up to the party with some fat, ugly bitch then we have to come up with a new reason on why you didn't want to date us.

JuliePurplehead said:

JuliePurplehead said:

Please move to Chicago.

Byron said:

A little joke but men should take better care of their feet in general, I hate a man that takes great care in trimming his beard, going to the gym, selecting a wonderful men's perfume just to take off his shoes and stink up a room. cough.

My advice to women when it comes to men:

- Don't let men keep getting away with shit. In reality, we like feeling as if we've earned your love, that there's something about us that sets us apart in your mind and heart and is the reason you want us to have your affection, time and emotions. Once we start realizing that it doesn't matter WHAT we do, that we'll have your heart and body no matter what stupid things we keep doing, that all goes out the window.

- Don't belittle us. You will get absolutely nowhere doing that.

- Don't compare us to past boyfriends or your male friends lol. You're not going to convince us we're wrong by telling us that "my last boyfriend never got upset if..."...Nobody cares about your last boyfriend. And your male friends will always be better behaved than the guy you're involved with lol...they're waiting in the wings and don't want to lose their place in line.

- Flatter us. ...Not obsessively, but every so often. Keeps us all ...However, any man who wants constant flattery, run the hell away from, pronto lol

paintedlady said:

But yeah I agree. A man should be honest. There should be open communication and no hiding secrets. Should be able to discuss or disclose anything without judging the person.

luv4u said:

That last part is where it gets sticky lol ...I don't know too many people, male OR female, who won't feel vulnerable to judgement in that scenario. But yeah, just being yourself from the get-go is ALWAYS the way to go.