myfavorite said:

Yes! The hand job is the real test a woman must pass in order to determine whether she is a keeper or not. Women always laugh about how some men understand nothing about the female genitalia - where the clitoris is etc. - but the truth is most women have no proper concept of male physiology either. It does not go all the way down. Jesus.

I'm still single.
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novabrkr said:

it is admittedly the hardest thing to get just right. plus, you all like it a certain way so you start at square one with each partner.

evenstar3 said:

It's funny watching someone jerk a dick like they stabbin their worst enemy.

Genesia said:

Tell that to the guy who sang "U so sensual"....

Cuddles said:

That's hilarious!

ya gotta have a great attitude.

johnart said:

omg, can't say I've ever had the privilege of watching someone else do it

when a person doesn't try to hard
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I think it's more of an attitude/essence than anything a person does. Sammi's description, really



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[Edited 5/16/09 23:17pm]

Confidence.
A certain fuckability.

sensual
adjective
1 sensual pleasure physical, carnal, bodily, fleshly, animal; hedonistic, epicurean, sybaritic, voluptuary. See note at sensuous . antonym spiritual.
2 a beautiful, sensual woman sexually attractive, sexy, voluptuous, sultry, seductive, passionate; sexually arousing, erotic, sexual. antonym passionless.

sensuous
adjective
1 they lived amid sensuous surroundings aesthetically pleasing, gratifying, rich, sumptuous, luxurious; sensory, sensorial.
2 sensuous lips sexually attractive, sexy, seductive, voluptuous, luscious, lush.

THE RIGHT WORD
Sensuous and sensual are often confused. Sensuous implies gratification of the senses for the sake of aesthetic pleasure, or delight in the color, sound, or form of something (: a dress made from a soft, sensuous fabric), while sensual implies indulgence of the appetites or gratification of the senses as an end in itself (: he leads a life of sensual excess). Luxurious implies indulgence in sensuous or sensual pleasures, especially those that induce a feeling of physical comfort or satisfaction (: a luxurious satin coverlet), while epicurean refers to taking delight in the pleasures of eating and drinking (: the epicurean life of a king and his courtiers). To be voluptuous is to give oneself up to the pleasures of the senses (: the symphony is voluptuous in its scoring), but it carries a suggestion of sensual rather than sensuous enjoyment and can refer to a curvaceous and sexually attractive woman (: he was seen with a voluptuous blonde). Sybaritic implies an overrefined luxuriousness, also suggesting indulgence in good food and drink and the presence of things designed to soothe and charm the senses (: he lived alone, in sybaritic splendor).

ZombieKitten said:

Good to know

I find a speaking and singing voice that is in the lower registers (not a husky man voice though) to be very sensual in a woman.

CalhounSq said:

and even after finding this out I still don't really know the answer

For Me it's Eyes, Legs, the way she dresses & how she carries herself!

Amaxx said:

Maybe those are the things that make you notice a woman, but how do these things make her "sensual"?

me

ZombieKitten said:

That's absolutely true! But it's sensuality that attracts Me!

If she has a hot gay brother.

myfavorite said:

Confidence - insecurity is not sexy.

Sincerity - whatever she says to me, I want to be able to believe.

A willingness to be vulnerable with me - walls, defense mechanisms and games don't translate into anything sensual for me. If you feel you have to keep yourself "safe" around me, then what's the point?

That, along with a sexy voice and beautiful eyes.

Graycap23 said:

What? Only behind closed doors

evenstar3 said:

No, I'll take it any way you've been doing it.