I thought prince was so unattractive for so many years though I've liked him since I was 3. In recent years though, I think he's probably the sexiest singer ever and looks better than ever at 50. I guess my tastes changed.

JustErin said:

I think that's why he's so fond of showing off his package in tight lil spandex pants. It's hard to argue he's a dude when his schlong enters the room before he does.

Prince couldn't handle me, or you either, I suspect. He's too used to, let's say, a certain type of woman. His chicks are all surprisingly vanilla, given his reputation.

androgyny has always been ridiculously hot to me and i'm sure i'll never really know why either.

baroque said:

Young David Sylvian

meow85 said:

When I was younger, I did find the whole girly look to an extent attractive as long as it was complimented with masculine traits, like the voice, how they stood, walked, showed aggressive behavior. Now, frailty is physically unappealing to me. Prince, for example, isn't sexually attractive to me anymore, though I do love the man dearly, just on looks alone it ain't working for me.

ZombieKitten said:

http://prince.org/profile/JerseyKRS

ZombieKitten said:

I wish! Everyone likes the same thing: boys who look like girls.

gyro34 said:

I’m speaking totally as a laymen, and not an especially knowledgeable one at that, but my understanding is that it’s predictable and probably desirable for there to be variations in selection of sexual characteristics. Out-lying strategies (reproductive or otherwise) can confer an advantage as long as they don’t become the dominant strategy. Populations will eventually achieve a ‘steady-state’ where a fairly consistent percentage will maintain certain behaviors, say 85% of females selecting traditional male characteristics like height & strength, with the balance adopting various other preferences.
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damosuzuki said:

I am proud to be the exception !

Cinnie said:

Er, no.

The "look" with gay men seems to be swimmer's build, but bald like a 10 year old boy. True girliness is not encouraged as desirable.

Serious said:

Given me druthers, and pending availability, I'd love to have a little guy. Not smaller than me, because then we're entering actual Little Person territory but little. Not saying I'm aiming for Prince because that's creepy and stalkerish (not to mention, Lil Lady is just one big bundle full of issues I really wouldn't want to have to deal with) but a Prince-sized guy would be perfect for me.

Cinnie said:

First thing I thought of when reading the thread title, like this song a lot.


Meow, I don't have an answer either. It's in their glance, like Prince, makes me weak. With make-up, eyes look much prettier. I like feminine men but, like you, I like women too so maybe that's just a bigger reason than we think ourselves.
I like the idea I made myself that they are frail and sensitive which they maybe aren't at all. But I like those aspects in manly men too.
I feel attracted to real machos also so I don't know. Although a man looks feminine, I want him to have sex with me like a real man.
So maybe I just shouldn't have answered because it doesn't make any sense

And evolutionary theories, seems tricky, man invented those, man doesn't know everything.

CJanssen said:

How does a "real man" have sex?


WHAT is a "real man"?

meow85 said:

I knew this was coming I was typing it and thinking "what is a real man" oh well just type it, maybe no-one asks..... damn.

Ok, errr, just normal manly love making, ehm... I don't know, I'm not saying doing me hard but pretty hard

.....I'm slowly sneaking away....

CJanssen said:

Really, you lost me.


Manly lovemaking?

meow85 said:

Yes, what I mean is although he looks feminine, I want him to act macho in bed.
Don't ask me what is macho.

meow85 said:

As I am quite small, but not as small as you Prince would be a little too small for my liking as without shoes he would be smaller than me. But I very much prefer not tall men to tall men . Small men are hot !

CJanssen said:

I am so lost.

Serious said:

Little guys!



I used to go out with a guy who was 6'4''. I liked him and all, but the size difference made me uncomfortable. I know a lot of women LOVE a big guy, but to me it felt like being a small child again and standing next to a grown person, Not exactly a sexy feeling.

meow85 said:

I agree with every word you say.

meow85 said:

Come, give me your hand. Forget about the manly thing in bed, I can't make any bread out of it. Point for me is that I also like feminine men but I don't know if that is because I like women too but I think that it plays a role.

Serious said:

It's a good thing we had different colouring, else I'd be afraid someone would've mistaken me for his baby sister.

CJanssen said:

Me too. Since I swing both ways too I don't know whether it's just my fondness for girls that's bleeding over into my guy-liking or not.

What really interests me are women who identify as straight and dig the pretty in a man.

I'm a really big fan of MessyGirly in guys rather than immaculate, perfect prettiness. That eyeliner better be smeared a bit, and that dress should perhaps be worn with combat boots.

Not that perfect pretty isn't nice too.

cborgman said:

i have a crush on the stock-boy i mean girl at my grocery.

Cuddles said:

Cuddles said:

baby dykes can be HOT.

when i was in texas, there was one i was madly in love with, who felt the same way about me in reverse. i wished she had a penis, she wished i had a vagina

I'm attracted to guys that are femy for some reason...I guess because I trust them more than macho guys....

CJanssen said:

I get you...