Vendetta1 said:

Because we have a magical body appendage called a penis. And because we have a penis, we can magically attract women with its phallic glow like a moth to a bug zapper, and women cannot resist its charms. It secretly send out pheremones that attach to your skin and is breathed into your body, causing your skin to tingle and flush, your nipples to harden, your vagina to get very moist, and your breathing to get very heavy. Our magical penises cause your hormones to rage out of control, and you are so overcome with desire that you will do anything to have our penises around you, on you, and inside you, because only then will you feel what it means to be a woman!






Just kidding.

Seriously though, I think it's mainly because our minds work differently when it comes to attracting and being attracted to the opposite sex. We may have advanced technologically in massive spades over the last 100 years, but physically and emotionally we still seek partners sexually the same way our caveman ancestors did. Men are very visual, and they still seek out the hottest women with the most perfect breasts and/or the most well-proportioned hips and ass in order to pass on their genes to the next generation for survival. Women, on the other hand, not only have the inenviable task of producing said offspring but raising them to adulthood as well, so they have to be more selective about the qualities a man has in order to make sure that not only well she bear the man's offspring but that the man will protect and nurture her and her offspring through time. So that's the major reason why women consider more than a man's physical attractiveness when choosing a mate.

That's not to say that women (and really hot women) aren't attracted to pretty boys, but they also know that a pretty boy himself who has those quality traits that she desires will also be desired by others, and the pretty boy has more options to mate with others (i.e., become a player). While the pretty boy may have all of the qualities that make her want to mate with him, she may soon discover that he lacks the qualities of a nurturing husband and/or father to her children.

As for why she may hook up with what many people consider a physically unattractive male, he may lack some of the physical qualities of the pretty boy, but he compensate for it by having the qualities of a potentially great husband and father (financially supportive, good in bed with foreplay as well as his penis, good with children, stays masculine, has self-confidence, etc.). And knowing that her no-so-attractive mate doesn't have as many options to hook up with other partners, she knows that he will be very attentive to her needs and desires, and she may even grow to love him passionately over time.

Vendetta1 said:

Because we have a magical body appendage called a penis. And because we have a penis, we can magically attract women with its phallic glow like a moth to a bug zapper, and women cannot resist its charms. It secretly send out pheremones that attach to your skin and is breathed into your body, causing your skin to tingle and flush, your nipples to harden, your vagina to get very moist, and your breathing to get very heavy. Our magical penises cause your hormones to rage out of control, and you are so overcome with desire that you will do anything to have our penises around you, on you, and inside you, because only then will you feel what it means to be a woman!






Just kidding.

Seriously though, I think it's mainly because our minds work differently when it comes to attracting and being attracted to the opposite sex. We may have advanced technologically in massive spades over the last 100 years, but physically and emotionally we still seek partners sexually the same way our caveman ancestors did. Men are very visual, and they still seek out the hottest women with the most perfect breasts and/or the most well-proportioned hips and ass in order to pass on their genes to the next generation for survival. Women, on the other hand, not only have the inenviable task of producing said offspring but raising them to adulthood as well, so they have to be more selective about the qualities a man has in order to make sure that not only well she bear the man's offspring but that the man will protect and nurture her and her offspring through time. So that's the major reason why women consider more than a man's physical attractiveness when choosing a mate.

That's not to say that women (and really hot women) aren't attracted to pretty boys, but they also know that a pretty boy himself who has those quality traits that she desires will also be desired by others, and the pretty boy has more options to mate with others (i.e., become a player). While the pretty boy may have all of the qualities that make her want to mate with him, she may soon discover that he lacks the qualities of a nurturing husband and/or father to her children.

As for why she may hook up with what many people consider a physically unattractive male, he may lack some of the physical qualities of the pretty boy, but he compensate for it by having the qualities of a potentially great husband and father (financially supportive, good in bed with foreplay as well as his penis, good with children, stays masculine, has self-confidence, etc.). And knowing that her no-so-attractive mate doesn't have as many options to hook up with other partners, she knows that he will be very attentive to her needs and desires, and she may even grow to love him passionately over time.

728huey said:

I think I'm going to be sick. You type long posts, people agree. I type long posts, people piss and moan. You're just spewing a bunch of nonsense, anyway. Fuck the world till it spins on a broken axis! I'M OUT! Fucking blind motherfucking fools!

Never underestimate the power of the tongue.

JuliePurplehead said:

Never underestimate the power of money!

Some women will date any guy if he has money. Look at the likes of Jay Z,
Snoop, Lil Wayne, Keith Richards. These men wouldn't get a second glance let alone a date if they didn't have loads of money.

JuliePurplehead said:

Never underestimate the power of money!

Some women will date any guy if he has money. Look at the likes of Jay Z,
Snoop, Lil Wayne, Keith Richards. These men wouldn't get a second glance let alone a date if they didn't have loads of money.

Vendetta1 said:

men really do think the world revolves around their dicks

Why you askin the menz?
I'd think you'd do best by asking the hot chicks who are with the bag of nickel menz.
[Edited 4/6/09 19:28pm]

Empress said:

Same with Donald Trump, Russell Simmons & Mick Jagger.

uPtoWnNY said:

I guess I am not typical female then, because I am very visual myself.

Empress said:

Same with Donald Trump, Russell Simmons & Mick Jagger.

728huey said:

I think I'm going to be sick. You type long posts, people agree. I type long posts, people piss and moan. You're just spewing a bunch of nonsense, anyway. Fuck the world till it spins on a broken axis! I'M OUT! Fucking blind motherfucking fools!

Serious said:

Ditto.


I wouldn't consider myself shallow by any stretch, but I do love me some eye candy.

And I love to watch.

I do not know if this couple was already covered but, last night I was flipping channels and passed on the George Lopez show. What a match up: George Lopez and his tv wife Constance Marie

meow85 said:

And there's nothing wrong that, more power to you. But I don't get why men have to be PC and be ashamed for admiring hot women. That's ridiculous.

because that's how they do it on TV and in the movies. you have crap like king of queens and that jim belushi nonsense, where these nasty looking men with mullets are married to big boobded hotties with good fashion sense, and we're supposed to believe that's just how life is. they should have a show where jim belushi is married to grace jones and she cracks a chair over his head every week. it's not realistic, but it would be a hell of a lot more fun to watch.

This thread is inspired by all the Org men who talk shit about how a woman looks when they are nothing to write home about. You know the ones: say some chick isn't attractive and then don't show pictures of themselves and when you finally get to see what they look like, you're like "eh"?

728huey said:

very well said

Vendetta1 said:

because that's how they do it on TV and in the movies. you have crap like king of queens and that jim belushi nonsense, where these nasty looking men with mullets are married to big boobded hotties with good fashion sense, and we're supposed to believe that's just how life is. they should have a show where jim belushi is married to grace jones and she cracks a chair over his head every week. it's not realistic, but it would be a hell of a lot more fun to watch.

Anxiety said:

Jesus, that's an excellent idea.
[Edited 4/7/09 14:21pm]