mdiver said:

Most people in this thread are making a judgment.

Vendetta1 said:

I can only speak for me and say that my answer is entirely based on the possible physical and mental health issues that she is exposing herself to.

Lammastide said:

Any more than 1 in 12 months is excessive. Any more than 1 in 3 years is excessive to me.

mdiver said:

Okay, but somehow I don't think a lot of the people answering the question are going to concerned about the woman's health.

mdiver said:

Source?

Vendetta1 said:

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CalhounSq said:

Can I put you on the spot and ask how you've decided on those numbers? No loaded question here. I'm just interested to know.

I don't really care if a woman wants to have an abortion a month. That is on her and her decision alone.

mdiver said:

What did you erase?

Lammastide said:

The only way to answer why I feel the way I feel on it is this: I've had one abortion in my lifetime. I was 19 years old, used a condom (!), was in my sophmore year of college & knew what I had to do. Since then I've been safer than I was that time, would still be on the pill today if I hadn't been taken off it by a doctor. I just feel like I learned my lesson & I don't take being up on that table lightly. There's too much we can do to prevent pregnancy, & folks who just don't care enough to think about it confuse me. I've never been SO hot for some dick that I'd risk having that done again. A mistake is one thing, but using that procedure as a method of birth control just ain't right...



& back to the question, having ONE in 18 years is enough for me


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Vendetta1 said:

agreed.

condoms are a lot cheaper though.

cborgman said:

Very true but there are tons of guys who won't use them and women more than willing to fuck without them.

Lammastide said:

The only way to answer why I feel the way I feel on it is this: I've had one abortion in my lifetime. I was 19 years old, used a condom (!), was in my sophmore year of college & knew what I had to do. Since then I've been safer than I was that time, would still be on the pill today if I hadn't been taken off it by a doctor. I just feel like I learned my lesson & I don't take being up on that table lightly. There's too much we can do to prevent pregnancy, & folks who just don't care enough to think about it confuse me. I've never been SO hot for some dick that I'd risk having that done again. A mistake is one thing, but using that procedure as a method of birth control just ain't right...



& back to the question, having ONE in 18 years is enough for me


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I don't really care if a woman wants to have an abortion a month. That is on her and her decision alone.

Vendetta1 said:

kinda dumb on both their parts

Vendetta1 said:

agreed.

condoms are a lot cheaper though.

Lammastide said:

The only way to answer why I feel the way I feel on it is this: I've had one abortion in my lifetime. I was 19 years old, used a condom (!), was in my sophmore year of college & knew what I had to do. Since then I've been safer than I was that time, would still be on the pill today if I hadn't been taken off it by a doctor. I just feel like I learned my lesson & I don't take being up on that table lightly. There's too much we can do to prevent pregnancy, & folks who just don't care enough to think about it confuse me. I've never been SO hot for some dick that I'd risk having that done again. A mistake is one thing, but using that procedure as a method of birth control just ain't right...



& back to the question, having ONE in 18 years is enough for me


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[Edited 3/18/09 12:47pm]

mdiver said:

Okay, but somehow I don't think a lot of the people answering the question are going to concerned about the woman's health.

cborgman said:

I wonder if health insurance pays for abortions?

veronikka said:

i doubt it

cborgman said:

Abortions are free if you have medicaid. And anyone can get their tubes tied for free.

Vendetta1 said:

The cost shouldn't be the issue compared to the possibility of a destroyed person raising another destroyed person and putting them on society. 4 abortions is way cheaper than the alternative, even for taxpayers or insurance companies.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Who says they are destroyed?

Vendetta1 said:

Maybe, maybe not. The people I know who have acted in this kind of manner were destroyed.

Lammastide said:

Any more than 1 in 12 months is excessive. Any more than 1 in 3 years is excessive to me.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Go to the mother thread, many wonderful people have come from fucked up parents mate.

I'm pro-choice, so I think she has the right to do what she wants.

I just think the choice to use abortion as birth control over and over again is gross.