Since I don't know how to change thread titles, here goes.
So last weekend I was supposed to meet up with my friend, to whom I was going to say that cute little phrase to..So a couple of my friends who have the same class with him come to me on Friday and say the date is off, because he has a boyfriend who he's been with since the LAST TIME WE WERE TOGETHER. I'm talking about 2 weeks ago when the 4 of us rented a hotel room and he and I fucked each other's brains out...he had a boyfriend I didn't know about. So we spoke to each other this past Saturday and he told me he has a boyfriend and what not, and I was like "Cool. I'm happy for you. I know it's what you wanted." Then he was STILL all over me and getting mad when I was pushing him away and telling him we can't be all on each other now that he's involved, I don't play that. Then we MUTUALLY tell each other that a relationship between us would work out, and we're better off as friends anyway. We've had that conversation at least 3 times, and we just want to be friends...

My friend's names are William, Dora, and KC btw...

So William tells me on Tuesday that he's gonna break up with his bf because he said he loves him, and he thinks it's too early and creeps him out..or some shit. So I said "I hope you're not breaking up with him just so you and I can mess around again" and he said he wasn't. He walked me to the train station yesterday and we had a nice long talk, and he's asking me "So how do you feel about me being single again?" I said "Well, I don't feel any differently than I did when you weren't." Then I get on the train and go to my dorm. Then at dinner, KC and Dora are asking me "Why don't you just get with William?" and I told them "We already had that conversation and we don't want to mess up our friendship." And they're like "You 2 look so cute together, you guys balance each other out...blah blah blah **more girl shit**" and I tell them "Of course we get along, I'm a Gemini and he's a Leo, we're super compatible, but we're nothing alike, all the stuff he likes I can't stand, he's too reserved and quiet, and I'm a free spirited wild child, trust me, it didn't work. I'm better of dating guys like myself." and they're like "Well, just give him a try." And I tell them I don't have to. End of discussion.
Or so I thought.
I told them that if he did like me, he sure didn't act like it, and they say "Well, he's shy." and I said "A closed mouth don't get fed, and until I hear this from him, I don't believe you guys." Then this morning they tell me that the reason he dumped his boyfriend is so that he could get with me! I asked them "What gave him THAT idea?" and they said "He didn't say anything to you out of fear that you would reject him." and I said "Well if that's the case, he wouldn't have dumped his boyfriend just to be with me."
So now they're completely up my ass about me dating him which I already said no a million times to.
Shit. Why does this always happen??
AAAAAGGHHH!!!
I'm fucking 25 years old. I feel like my life is a never ending episode of Degrassi.

I'm sorry to hear that you've got this drama. One question though; do you like him?

MrsGoodnight said:

As a friend, and that's it. We're fuck buddies.

Follow your gut. It seems like you have more wisdom than your friends. Do what works for you. Your fuck buddy seems to be very manipulative.

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

Only around me

Their hearts are in the right place. It's just that to me, it seems like they're trying to get me to go out with him out of pity, and since we spend time together and have sex then I'm just the automatic choice for his boyfriend. They think that nobody wants him and they're trying to make me feel bad because I don't feel bad enough for him to go out with him.

ScarletScandal said:

Even if you gave in it wouldn't work. Especially if it's out of pity.

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

Did that shit before. In fact, I made a thread about it waaaaay back in 2005 under another username but yeah...I'll keep ya'll updated...I know this shit isn't over...