chocolate1 said:

yes ...

Why are women so obsessed with shoes? Anyone?

thesexofit said:

my disinterest in the "right" shoes makes me feel inadequate as a woman

ZombieKitten said:

I mean, is it just to make you (as women) feel better about yourselves, because in my experience, men don't really care what shoes women wear. Heels for work is understandable I guess. But outside of work?

thesexofit said:

if a woman feels good about herself, that will transpire in how she interacts with you ... Hence, a woman wearing the right shoes is HAWT.

Because they're sexy.

I gave my explanation toward the beginning of this thread. ^^^

BlueZebra said:

Can't really say I take much notice with what shoes a woman is wearing LOL. Thats all Iam saying

thesexofit said:

I'd hazard a guess and say they aren't really wearing them for the men

ZombieKitten said:

? Obviously I have seen my sister, Mum and previous girlfriends etc... without makeup on, but I currently only know one girl, at work, who does not bother with any makeup at all. Whats that about? Every girl insists not only on shoes, but makeup to all the time? Looking nice makes people more confident. Thats fine, but honestly LOL. Makeup and shoes. The obsession never ends with most women

ZombieKitten said:

Nope.
Like I said- I don't feel "dressed" unless my shoes are right. It's not just a shallow "all women love shoes, therefore I do, too". It's a compulsion. I'm not gonna lie. I won't wear an outfit if my shoes aren't right.
My supervisor wears business suits with flips-flops. It looks like she stopped getting dressed or forgot her shoes!

thesexofit said:

I won't wear make-up neither every man I've been with has really enjoyed pashing with me without ending up with a face/mouth full of lipstick and foundation
[Edited 3/11/09 17:34pm]

ZombieKitten said:

Thats cool to know. Sometimes I wonder why women spend so much time on such things. I understand if they like to do it, but sometimes I think it might be something deeper then that. Every woman is different of course.

chocolate1 said:

I guess theys some things I'll never understand about some women LOL.

Now, see, I don't wear makeup. I don't feel like I need it. Not that I think I'm that gorgeous, but I just don't think that it's necessary to boost up my self-confidence. I feel fine about my face.

My clothes & shoes are what make me feel good.

chocolate1 said:

Thats cool. Iam the total opposite. I couldn't care less how I look, and like the complete opposite of some people insisting on makeup and generally looking immaculate 24/7, both might be low self esteem related. I dont feel like I have low self esteem, but it seems to give off that impression as people always tell me "dont you care how you look" LOL. My stupid acne doesn't help, but Iam not fussed about that either anymore. Not really. That in itself was tough to get over, as I still have shitty acne LOL.

I looked at a mates bebo and she was posing, wearing copious amounts of makeup (not just average amounts). Iam like "so you want people you already know, and total strangers, to think your gorgeous? Why?".

Sorry to go off topic LOL.

thesexofit said:

Because no matter what size or shape you are, or whether you gain or lose weight, you can almost always find cute shoes that fit.

ZombieKitten said:

He moved - and hasn't had an internet connection since last week. It's supposed to be hooked up sometime tomorrow.

BlueZebra said:

But it's so sexy, it's got to be worth every penny.
How much is it?

amorbella said:

Hot . . . with a great pair of legs . . . .

REDFEATHERS said:

But that purple could give a guy a hard on . . ., ,

Genesia said:

Lets go to his new house then!

thesexofit said:

I care and I'm a gay man.
The women I work with have some fantastic shoes and I let them know when I like them.
Men who like women to look good definitely care.

SUPRMAN said:

I think a sexy shoe can definitely have an effect on a man, & it most often does on the woman wearing it too. Put it this way - I have 2 pair that have only been worn (so far) while fucking because when I see them on my feet I feel like a seriously baaaaad bitch! Very sexy It's just cute (or I should say it can be if you're into it)...

thesexofit said:

You really need to say SOME women -- I for one am not obsessed with shoes

I would rather NOT wear them and I only own around 8 pair total

and that includes my hiking and ridding boots and Mud boots for the barn


[Edited 3/12/09 5:36am]

Mach said:

I was thinking the same thing. I cannot stand to buy new shoes. I see them as a necessity.

shanti0608 said:

For me - the idea of having thousands of dollars worth of different shoes sitting around is just ODD :lol - but that's just me

I can really see how some could be totally into that though

Mach said:

I guess so, I have never wanted to spend money on things like clothes and shoes.
As long as I have something to put on my back and my feet everyday, I am fine.
I am constantly walking through mud, I could not imagine wearing nice shoes living here.
When I lived in Florida, I much preferred going barefoot when possible.
I love feeling sand between my toes.
[Edited 3/12/09 5:55am]

thesexofit said:

Here's a newsflash: We don't dress for men (other than on specific occasions). If we did, we'd all be dressed like strippers all the time, every day.

We dress for ourselves and other women.

CarrieMpls said:

Tell um like it IS !