Eh. People can be fickle. They swoon over you and seek your attention one day, then they...

Well, people can be fickle.

ThreadBare said:

Vendetta1 said:

If someone wants to fuck you and you want to fuck them. You care.
Don't even tell me you don't.

johnart said:

Maybe I don't care because I don't want to fuck anyone and don't care if anyone wants to fuck me?

I'm being truth and serious.

Vendetta1 said:

Horny you, who's response is so often doesn't care???

I dunno. You come across as very sexual. A sexual person would care, somewhat.

But if you say so, ok.

I'm going on technicalities here.
I don't give a shit what folk think of me generally. But if someone thinks I'm hot I'm flattered by that. That means I care to some degree.

JustErin said:

Ouch.

johnart said:

I haven't had sex in almost 3 years. Of course I'm horny. Yeah, I think of myself as very sexual: I'm facsinated by it but most of the time, I don't want to have it.

If people think I'm cute or hot or anything, yeah I'm flattered by it. It's nice and I will admit, once upon a time I did care. Just not now.

Vendetta1 said:

Fair enough.
Though if you're flattered, I count that as caring to some degree.

But that's just me being thick-headed.

I like it if someone I'm attracted to finds me attractive.

Hell, I'm as insecure as the next guy. Being wanted or desired is a very nice feeling.

bkw said:

most of the time if I think someone thinks I looks nice enough to look twice, I'm grateful

ZombieKitten said:

Hell, yeah!

bkw said:

but most of the time, it's just me hoping and they look straight past me

I find being desired can be a pain in the ass at times.....sometimes you just want to be left alone

I was just talking about this the other day w/ a friend.

I'd like it to be somewhere in the middle - they don't have to want/desire me, but I'd like them to think I'm decent or attractive. I don't ever want a guy w/ fuck potential to see me looking terrible - not that I would even go near them sexually, but if they're in the ballpark of what I'm looking for (age, looks, etc.) I don't wanna be caught in my rusty sweats getting the mail while they're walking down the hall But if it was some old guy or a too-young douchey guy I'd rather them see me skanked out w/ a bun on my head...

CalhounSq said:

why did this suddenly come to mind

Come on, Erin! I HAD to be The Muse for this thread (I don't care if you say everything is about me or not. In this case, it makes sense.). I'm The Paragon of Virtual Insanity and Insecurity. I indirectly inflict my peers with the deflection of my shortcomings and setbacks on others before they even have the chance to do it for me. I'm an agent of self-destruction and eventually consecutive rebuilding.

I've been tinged with this feeling since I was 15. I've always wanted to be desired. It's just one of those things, I guess. Up until I was 15, it'd never dawned on me just how important it was to want to feel wanted. But then again, it didn't seem logical, rational, or even something contingently applicable to someone like me until then.

I was going through the porky adolescent stage during the offsetting of my teen epochs. Chronologically, I progressed and convalesced into this overly hormonal male. When I turned 16, I KNEW I was a very attractive guy. But women were just so discreet and scant/trite with assessing their physical attraction with me as a priority.

Every time I wandered around the vicinities of a socially-booming landscaping or within the trajectory of schooling grounds, these anonymous ingenues would grace with their presence; smiling delightfully and gleefully so, like they were happy to be in my presence. Only to irascibly change facial expression with wrinkled foreheads, asking me, "WHY YOU ALWAYS FROWNIN' LIKE SOMETHIN' UP YOUR ASS?!" I was perturbed by that notion because I just KNEW that I walked my merry way with a disinterested, ineffectual look on my face, "CONSTANTLY!" But never had it dawned on me that this type of facial expression could be perceived as....erm....a look of disdain. Women: They're so perplexing. And WORST; so fucking insatiable! WUDYAWANT?! FUGETABOTIT!

[Edited 2/21/09 23:29pm]

Dude, I'm fairly sure JustErin is the muse for JustErin's threads.

Fauxie said:

Pfft...rice cakes and Styrofoam Materials ain't got shit on me! I'm bland as they cum!

Fauxie said:

But true.

Mysterioso thanks for your honest answer.

No prob, Erin. I know it was a pain to read (Because I looked bad. I have bad habit. Sorry. ). I guess I feel I have something to prove. Besides, there's not much else really interesting about a guy like me. Just a common man. How's your day going, by the way?

I don't think I ever cared much. Have you seen the shape of me somedays? That's proof positive right there.

JustErin said:

oh ok, it just sounded like you needed to have the attention of everyone, I thought I read that somewhere.....

alrighty then, I wouldn't have to kick your ass. haha just kidding.

Vendetta1 said:

Yeah, that got scratched off the priority list a long ass time ago.

JustErin said:

It's not, Erin

johnart said:

Mmm hmm.

It's only important to me when it comes to people that I'm interested in.

JessieJ said:

JustErin said:

Not desired or wanted. I find it awkward.

Alej said:

JessieJ said: