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Printablehonestly? i've never really stopped to think of it. lol. i think we all want to be desired to some degree. but i don't necessarily go out of my way to get attention. i focus on feeling and looking good for myself. if that attracts someone, then great. but we all have some degree of vanity, so.
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JustErin said: Ace said: Do you mean no interest in a specific person, or interest in the opposite sex? I meant in a specific person. 0.0%. | |
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JustErin said: Ace said: Do you mean no interest in a specific person, or interest in the opposite sex? I meant in a specific person. Ohhhh! If you want to know how important it is that specific women find me attractive, I'd have to say not very at all. Ὅσον ζῇς φαίνου
μηδὲν ὅλως σὺ λυποῦ πρὸς ὀλίγον ἐστὶ τὸ ζῆν τὸ τέλος ὁ χρόνος ἀπαιτεῖ.” | |
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JustErin said: Serious said: When I love somebody it is the most important thing to me that this person finds me attractive. But it's still nice if others find me attractive too. For me it has nothing to do with looking to be or being in a relationship at all. Being attractive in general is not important to me. I'd want the person I am attracted to, to find me attractive too. I'm not a people's person and I really hate attention directed at me, because I'm very shy. Even someone mentioning my name out loud makes me blush. | |
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Lammastide said: JustErin said: I meant in a specific person. Ohhhh! If you want to know how important it is that specific women find me attractive, I'd have to say not very at all. No, no. I meant all women - even ones that you specifically have no interest in at all. | |
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JustErin said: Lammastide said: Ohhhh! If you want to know how important it is that specific women find me attractive, I'd have to say not very at all. No, no. I meant all women - even ones that you specifically have no interest in at all.  That's a completely different answer than you gave me.  | |
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JustErin said: Lammastide said: Ohhhh! If you want to know how important it is that specific women find me attractive, I'd have to say not very at all. No, no. I meant all women - even ones that you specifically have no interest in at all. OK. Then I still go by my first answer. Ὅσον ζῇς φαίνου
μηδὲν ὅλως σὺ λυποῦ πρὸς ὀλίγον ἐστὶ τὸ ζῆν τὸ τέλος ὁ χρόνος ἀπαιτεῖ.” | |
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CarrieMpls said: I’m a woman in a man’s world. It is advantageous to be considered attractive, no doubt about it. You’re simply treated better in all aspects of life from little things like a door being held open to big things by being considered for jobs, etc.
All this said, I don't know how "important" I find it for myself, personally. When I think of the things that are most important to me in the world, it probably wouldn't rank high on the list at ALL. And yet I can be terribly self-conscious about my looks and that colors nearly every aspect of my life. And still yet, very often, I KNOW men are attracted to me/find parts of me attractive... Interesting...  |
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Ace said: JustErin said: No, no. I meant all women - even ones that you specifically have no interest in at all. That's a completely different answer than you gave me. I interpreted what you meant wrong then. | |
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JustErin said: Ace said: That's a completely different answer than you gave me. I interpreted what you meant wrong then. So, let me get this straight: You're asking, 'How important is it for you to be considered attractive (even by people you're not attracted to sexually)?'? | |
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Ace said: JustErin said: I interpreted what you meant wrong then. So, let me get this straight: You're asking, 'How important is it for you to be considered attractive (even by people you're not attracted to sexually)?'? Yes. | |
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shanti0608 said: IrresistibleB1tch said: zero, really. i'm getting old.
I am with you IB. I tend to be more concerned if ppl like my personality. Don't know why, not much I can do if they don't. I do want my hubby to find me attractive, that is about it these days. FYI...I do...big time | |
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I guess it's all intertwined, wanting to be seen as desirable by the opposite sex and your own standards for your appearance. So, it's pretty important. | |
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JustErin said: Ace said: So, let me get this straight: You're asking, 'How important is it for you to be considered attractive (even by people you're not attracted to sexually)?'? Yes. Not very. | |
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ScarletScandal said: not important..
i'm gay!  | |
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I give less and less a shit about some stuff the older I get (going on 37).
That said, I won't even front that it's a very nice feeling when someone thinks you're hot. | |
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...mutherfucker!  sorry for the double post. I give up, I'm just gonna quit editing. [Edited 2/20/09 11:36am] | |
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shanti0608 said: IrresistibleB1tch said: zero, really. i'm getting old.
I am with you IB. I tend to be more concerned if ppl like my personality. Don't know why, not much I can do if they don't. I do want my hubby to find me attractive, that is about it these days. Ditto for me. RIP, mom. I will forever miss and love you. | |
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Well, I'm getting older and I still really care about it. I really don't care what people think about my personality but I can honestly say that I want every single dude on the planet to want me and I actually feel a real sense of rejection when reality slaps me across the face. | |
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JustErin said: Well, I'm getting older and I still really care about it. I really don't care what people think about my personality but I can honestly say that I want every single dude on the planet to want me and I actually feel a real sense of rejection when reality slaps me across the face.
There is nothing wrong with that. We are all different. I have changed a lot over the years.  | |
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shanti0608 said: JustErin said: Well, I'm getting older and I still really care about it. I really don't care what people think about my personality but I can honestly say that I want every single dude on the planet to want me and I actually feel a real sense of rejection when reality slaps me across the face.
There is nothing wrong with that. We are all different. I have changed a lot over the years. I've changed a hell of a lot too - just not in that way. | |
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JustErin said: Well, I'm getting older and I still really care about it. I really don't care what people think about my personality but I can honestly say that I want every single dude on the planet to want me and I actually feel a real sense of rejection when reality slaps me across the face.
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johnart said: JustErin said: Well, I'm getting older and I still really care about it. I really don't care what people think about my personality but I can honestly say that I want every single dude on the planet to want me and I actually feel a real sense of rejection when reality slaps me across the face.
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JustErin said: johnart said:
[Edited 2/20/09 13:28pm] Don't be mad. I'm admiring your confidence. | |
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I honestly don't care. | |
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INSATIABLE said: I enjoy being as invisible as possible to the opposite sex. Being attractive is extremely low on my list of day-to-day priorities. Your signature.  | |
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i care to a certain degree
but the more i think about it thats due to the fact most of my friends have girlfriends and i dont want them 2 think i'm gay or something (lol yeah lame) You're so glam, every time I see you I wanna slam! | |
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It's not so important. Making AMESSING photoshops like this one, however, is.
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Not too important. | |
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Ace said: JustErin said: Yes. Not very. Co-sign | |
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