Do you believe in one true love? (Some may call this 'soulmates'. You can talk about that concept, even if we've kind of covered it before.)

I believe in love but not in romantic love or true love.


Can a 'true love' exist one-sidedly? That is, if you broke up with a guy, and he goes on to say and believe that you were his 'true love' (maybe the one that got away), yet you don't reciprocate, you don't feel the same, can that really be true love?

You can love someone that doesn't love you back, sure.

Can you ever be just friends with someone you believe was your true love? Would you be willing to be friends with someone who believes you are his/her true love? (I have to make this one sided, because I don't know why two people who believe they are each other's true love are not together. So school me if you know differently.)

Yes, I am friends with my serious ex - I love him very much. He loves me too.


Let's extrapolate... let's say you know a bunch about your partner's past. How would you feel about him/her being friends with an ex that has stated that he/she was their one true love? (I'm getting mixed up in the prounouns game here. Forgive the 'their', please.)

I can't lie, I'd feel threatened but that would be my deal to work out on my own and I wouldn't put it on him at all.


Please list your favorite song by Foreigner.


I can't.

Do you believe in one true love? (Some may call this 'soulmates'. You can talk about that concept, even if we've kind of covered it before.)

I do. But that probably doesn't mean it will work.


Can a 'true love' exist one-sidedly? That is, if you broke up with a guy, and he goes on to say and believe that you were his 'true love' (maybe the one that got away), yet you don't reciprocate, you don't feel the same, can that really be true love?

Yes, no doubt about that .

Can you ever be just friends with someone you believe was your true love? Would you be willing to be friends with someone who believes you are his/her true love? (I have to make this one sided, because I don't know why two people who believe they are each other's true love are not together. So school me if you know differently.)

Yes.


Let's extrapolate... let's say you know a bunch about your partner's past. How would you feel about him/her being friends with an ex that has stated that he/she was their one true love? (I'm getting mixed up in the prounouns game here. Forgive the 'their', please.)

It would be very hard for me. But as I would want to still be friends with my ex too I would try to trust him and her.


Please list your favorite song by Foreigner.

BTW,

since someone has already asked me this earlier....

am I in love at the moment? Well no, but.....

lets just say I am completely taken by someone at the moment. He is very unaware of it, but just the thought of him makes me weak at the knees.

I've spent very,very little time with him,but the time I have spent with him was awesome

lets see what happens.....





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and

NO!!!!
its not DOOK
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Cuddles said:

You better just CALME. DOWN



Welcome back my sweet lovely kitty

Wow I remember U from 2 - 3 years ago. WB.

starkitty said:

amorbella said:

pej

Please. Say more than yes or no.

Do you believe in one true love? (Some may call this 'soulmates'. You can talk about that concept, even if we've kind of covered it before.)
i do but i also believe u can have many other loves of your live.(that sounds real hoeish i know)



Can a 'true love' exist one-sidedly? That is, if you broke up with a guy, and he goes on to say and believe that you were his 'true love' (maybe the one that got away), yet you don't reciprocate, you don't feel the same, can that really be true love? -until they met someone new n leave u alone lol

Can you ever be just friends with someone you believe was your true love? Would you be willing to be friends with someone who believes you are his/her true love? (I have to make this one sided, because I don't know why two people who believe they are each other's true love are not together. So school me if you know differently.)-what prince and i have will never go away.


Let's extrapolate... let's say you know a bunch about your partner's past. How would you feel about him/her being friends with an ex that has stated that he/she was their one true love? (I'm getting mixed up in the prounouns game here. Forgive the 'their', please.)-hmmm that sounds like some shit id have to be going thru to answer really.

Please list your favorite song by Foreigner.-magic 8 ball says ask me again later
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[Edited 2/18/09 4:17am]

Wait!

Oh.

Ermmm.

No.

We sang "We Built This City (On Rock N Roll)" ??

Look! Ponies!

"I Want To Know What Love Is" is such an utter piece of shite. This, from the same band that gave us "Juke Box Hero"? The 80s pussywhipped great rockin' bands into whiny footservants. Boooo.


Hi everybody.

My answer is FUCK no y'all can't be friends, it's bad for business. Leave that mess back there.

LleeLlee said:

I can no longer hear this answer without thinking of this:

Dont mock

None of knows when we might need adult diapers.

nop, maybe maybe not sure, don't know any

this thread has wheels

LleeLlee said:

I'm wearing them right now.

ocean said:

not an orger.....

but Pej is a very very nice guy...

Cloudbuster said:

my one true love!

I thought you and ZombieKitten were the same person

Welcome back

Do you believe in one true love? (Some may call this 'soulmates'. You can talk about that concept, even if we've kind of covered it before.)

Sure. But only because I've seen it in other people. Not so sure I believe in it for myself.

Can a 'true love' exist one-sidedly? That is, if you broke up with a guy, and he goes on to say and believe that you were his 'true love' (maybe the one that got away), yet you don't reciprocate, you don't feel the same, can that really be true love?

Absolutely. It happens all the time. I think 'true love' is more about how you feel for someone. It may not necessarily be reciprocated.

Can you ever be just friends with someone you believe was your true love? Would you be willing to be friends with someone who believes you are his/her true love? (I have to make this one sided, because I don't know why two people who believe they are each other's true love are not together. So school me if you know differently.)

That's an impossible situation and should be avoided at all costs.

Let's extrapolate... let's say you know a bunch about your partner's past. How would you feel about him/her being friends with an ex that has stated that he/she was their one true love? (I'm getting mixed up in the prounouns game here. Forgive the 'their', please.)

See above answer.

Please list your favorite song by Foreigner.

Jukebox Hero

sag10 said:

Starkitty!!!! Welcome back! Where the devil have you been? I've missed you. I'm not answering your shitty questions.

Do you believe in one true love? (Some may call this 'soulmates'. You can talk about that concept, even if we've kind of covered it before.)
No. Well, I don't 'BELIEVVVE' in anything for all of mankind collectively. I don't believe I personally have a 'soulmate'. I'm a pretty adaptable person, and I have so much love to give to the right person, whomever that may be, but I don't think theres ONE person in the whole universe that I could share that with. It's finding someone I connect with and that they also connect with me. Then you have to factor in personal baggage, kids, location, blah blah. I'm just babbeling, you can stop reading now.

Can a 'true love' exist one-sidedly? That is, if you broke up with a guy, and he goes on to say and believe that you were his 'true love' (maybe the one that got away), yet you don't reciprocate, you don't feel the same, can that really be true love?
Sure.

Can you ever be just friends with someone you believe was your true love? Would you be willing to be friends with someone who believes you are his/her true love? (I have to make this one sided, because I don't know why two people who believe they are each other's true love are not together. So school me if you know differently.)
I personally could not be friends with someone I belive is my true love if they didn't feel the same. That doesn't mean others are the same way. I'm an extremely passionate person and it WOULD.NOT.WORK. I also would not be-friend someone who was inlove with me and I didn't feel the same.
Back to the soul mate thing though. There was one time in my life where I was truely in love with someone and they were truely in love with me. It didn't work out because of timing, age, yanno all that. We both moved and married and had kids with other ppl. But it WAS true love. I wouldn't call us SOUL MATES though, cuz I don't feel the need or want to be with him now, but I don't regret or wouldn't take anything back.

Let's extrapolate... let's say you know a bunch about your partner's past. How would you feel about him/her being friends with an ex that has stated that he/she was their one true love? (I'm getting mixed up in the prounouns game here. Forgive the 'their', please.)
Um. No. Not gonna happen. I'm jealous.

Please list your favorite song by Foreigner.
N/A

Do you believe in one true love? (Some may call this 'soulmates'. You can talk about that concept, even if we've kind of covered it before.)
I like to think anything is possible.

Can a 'true love' exist one-sidedly? That is, if you broke up with a guy, and he goes on to say and believe that you were his 'true love' (maybe the one that got away), yet you don't reciprocate, you don't feel the same, can that really be true love?
Unfortunately yes. There is no law in love.

Can you ever be just friends with someone you believe was your true love? Would you be willing to be friends with someone who believes you are his/her true love? (I have to make this one sided, because I don't know why two people who believe they are each other's true love are not together. So school me if you know differently.)
It happened to me, can't say more.

Let's extrapolate... let's say you know a bunch about your partner's past. How would you feel about him/her being friends with an ex that has stated that he/she was their one true love? (I'm getting mixed up in the prounouns game here. Forgive the 'their', please.)
I respect my partners past as long as they respect mine.

Please list your favorite song by Foreigner.
Say you Will