My high school sweetheart has found me on face book as is constantly sending me messages and wants to talk to me. Granted this has been a been many years ago and I am happily married and our relationship had an ugly ending. I don't know what the fuck her deal is, but I have no interest in so much as being friends with her. But how do I go about this without coming off as a total jackass. I have ignored her friend request 8 times, but she doesn't seem to be iunterested in taking no for an answer. By the way my wife despises this woman.

Uh, what's the question?

You just gotta ignore it. Or maybe block them, they'll get over it.

Invite her over for dinner

next time, ignore AND REPORT.

or see if you can block them, that could work too.

Anxiety said:

That's what I was going to say.

Vendetta1 said:

Thanks

weused2luvhim said:

I agree...oh and ur avie

weused2luvhim said:

that may be the problem. you ignored it. just come out with it. tell her thanks but no thanks. and that there is no interest in reconnecting with her. maybe she needs to hear it straight out. if she continues then report it or tell her your wife is gonna beat dat ass! good luck.

ocean said:

that's what I was gonna say too

ZombieKitten said:

weused2luvhim said:

you're happily married? why would you feel like your coming off as a jackass. block her! just my advice

I would level with her, and tell her that you're happily married, and have no interest in reconnecting with her. If she still bugs you after that, then block and/or report her. She seems to be a bit obsessed with you.

PANDURITO said:

SCNDLS said:

Drama. Loves it, pretends not to, wants to feed it, doesn't know how.

weused2luvhim said:

can't you just block her? You'll stop getting messages.

weused2luvhim said:

Ignore the messages and friend requests. She'll get the picture eventually.

weused2luvhim said:

I guess letting your wife handle it might not be good advice huh?