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PrintableJasmineFire said: SCNDLS said: A prenup only protects his assets before the marriage not anything amassed during the marriage. It looks like they were married for 15 years so she's entitled to get half of his shit while they were married.  that depends on the state your in. I believe that's how it works in NY and I also think it's a no-fault state where infidelity is concerned. | |
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SCNDLS said: JasmineFire said: that depends on the state your in. I believe that's how it works in NY and I also think it's a no-fault state where infidelity is concerned. people can also put clauses in their prenup that cover things such as cheating. you can have your spouse "sacrifice" his or her claim to your earnings in the case of infidelity. | |
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SCNDLS said: A prenup only protects his assets before the marriage not anything amassed during the marriage. It looks like they were married for 15 years so she's entitled to get half of his shit while they were married.
Dude had his heart broken, gave up his kidney, and will lose half his loot. Talk about getting f-cked up the ass - marriage...  | |
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uPtoWnNY said: SCNDLS said: A prenup only protects his assets before the marriage not anything amassed during the marriage. It looks like they were married for 15 years so she's entitled to get half of his shit while they were married.
Dude had his heart broken, gave up his kidney, and will lose half his loot. Talk about getting f-cked up the ass - marriage... Dude seriously needs to get over the broken heart and the fact that he donated his kidney to someone who broke his heart. A boo hoo. Tying up the courts under these pretenses is pathetic and ridiculous....and as shitty as this sounds...very American. | |
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JustErin said: uPtoWnNY said: Dude had his heart broken, gave up his kidney, and will lose half his loot. Talk about getting f-cked up the ass - marriage... Dude seriously needs to get over the broken heart and the fact that he donated his kidney to someone who broke his heart. A boo hoo. Tying up the courts under these pretenses is pathetic and ridiculous....and as shitty as this sounds...very American. I agree 100%. |
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CarrieMpls said: JustErin said: Dude seriously needs to get over the broken heart and the fact that he donated his kidney to someone who broke his heart. A boo hoo. Tying up the courts under these pretenses is pathetic and ridiculous....and as shitty as this sounds...very American. I agree 100%. me, too. this guy's a brat. | |
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JasmineFire said: CarrieMpls said: I agree 100%. me, too. this guy's a brat. let's say he's honest and it's about cheating. would you give it to him? i've seen people label men who cheat all kinds of nasty things on this board but seem to give a woman a pass when she does. You CANNOT use the name of God, or religion, to justify acts of violence, to hurt, to hate, to discriminate- Madonna
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ehuffnsd said: JasmineFire said: me, too. this guy's a brat. let's say he's honest and it's about cheating. would you give it to him? i've seen people label men who cheat all kinds of nasty things on this board but seem to give a woman a pass when she does. I don't believe in suing for emotional distress. It sucks that she cheated but that's life, that doesn't mean someone owes you money. |
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CarrieMpls said: ehuffnsd said: let's say he's honest and it's about cheating. would you give it to him? i've seen people label men who cheat all kinds of nasty things on this board but seem to give a woman a pass when she does. I don't believe in suing for emotional distress. It sucks that she cheated but that's life, that doesn't mean someone owes you money. ALL PROPERTY IS THEFT! | |
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Number23 said: CarrieMpls said: I don't believe in suing for emotional distress. It sucks that she cheated but that's life, that doesn't mean someone owes you money. ALL PROPERTY IS THEFT! Ok.  |
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Number23 said: CarrieMpls said: I don't believe in suing for emotional distress. It sucks that she cheated but that's life, that doesn't mean someone owes you money. ALL PROPERTY IS THEFT! what? You CANNOT use the name of God, or religion, to justify acts of violence, to hurt, to hate, to discriminate- Madonna
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JasmineFire said: paintedlady said: No the Today show was just reporting the story, the husband was specific, he didn't cheat. He said his heart was broken and all whining. I think she dissed him. I don't think he beat her, I just think she left him for another man and his pride couldn't take it. BUT.... If I give MY kidney to a spouse and they want to divorce me after I give my ^&#@@&@^ kidney to him, then a fucker needs to pay me for that quality of life that he is now enjoying with someone else. 
[Edited 1/8/09 6:15am] she shouldn't have to pay him anything. especially if he's going on TV, crying like a wuss, and spilling their business for everyone to see. that man is a damn fool. just because you're a fool doesn't mean you should get paid for it. Enjoying your new Kidney I see. "Always blessings, never losses......"
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CarrieMpls said: ehuffnsd said: let's say he's honest and it's about cheating. would you give it to him? i've seen people label men who cheat all kinds of nasty things on this board but seem to give a woman a pass when she does. I don't believe in suing for emotional distress. It sucks that she cheated but that's life, that doesn't mean someone owes you money. I agree. | |
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JasmineFire said: SCNDLS said: I believe that's how it works in NY and I also think it's a no-fault state where infidelity is concerned. people can also put clauses in their prenup that cover things such as cheating. you can have your spouse "sacrifice" his or her claim to your earnings in the case of infidelity. I've been wondering how binding fidelity clauses are cuz it seems at odds with no-fault divorces. | |
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uPtoWnNY said: SCNDLS said: A prenup only protects his assets before the marriage not anything amassed during the marriage. It looks like they were married for 15 years so she's entitled to get half of his shit while they were married.
Dude had his heart broken, gave up his kidney, and will lose half his loot. Talk about getting f-cked up the ass - marriage... If they've been married that long and she was taking care of his kids, the shit is hers too. Regardless of who the breadwinner is it's community property depending on where you live.  | |
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SCNDLS said: uPtoWnNY said: Dude had his heart broken, gave up his kidney, and will lose half his loot. Talk about getting f-cked up the ass - marriage... If they've been married that long and she was taking care of his kids, the shit is hers too. Regardless of who the breadwinner is it's community property depending on where you live. Yup. | |
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Sowhat said: JasmineFire said: she shouldn't have to pay him anything. especially if he's going on TV, crying like a wuss, and spilling their business for everyone to see. that man is a damn fool. just because you're a fool doesn't mean you should get paid for it. Enjoying your new Kidney I see. it's ten times better than the old one! 
seriously though, this man's a fool. He's right to be angry but he's wrong to sue. | |
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ehuffnsd said: JasmineFire said: me, too. this guy's a brat. let's say he's honest and it's about cheating. would you give it to him? i've seen people label men who cheat all kinds of nasty things on this board but seem to give a woman a pass when she does. No. and it has nothing to do with giving his wife a pass on the cheating. Cheating is wrong no matter who does it. But just because someone gives you their kidney, doesn't mean that you should stay in an unhappy relationship with them. She wanted out and she left. This dude needs to talk about his emotions with a therapist or a good friend rather than a TV crew. | |
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That's crazy. He still won't be happy. | |
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i think this situation would make a great Ally McBeal episode. | |
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JustErin said: Americans are weird!!
You are American too. | |
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This reminds me of a teacher in Durham, NC that gave one of her kidneys to a student. Then three years later the little ungrateful fucker is a 17 year old criminal robbing gas stations. | |
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or sue her to give it back...  THE B EST BE YOURSELF AS LONG AS YOUR SELF ISNT A DYCK[/r]
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