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Men and women, what don't you understand about people of your own gender? Well, it's really not an unfair question to ask. Not just for those of us who toil in the world of same-sex relationships, but for those of us who look at other people of our gender and think "WTF?!?"
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Women: Why do some of them stay in unhappy situations instead of getting off their asses and becoming self sufficient? | |
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Men: Skinny jeans. Why? | |
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Ex-Moderator | I don't understand women who say "I don't get along with other women".
Or women who think they are in competition with all other women, or that assume all other women think they are. Or women who wear the label "bitch" with pride. |
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TRON said: Men: Skinny jeans. Why?
i can answer this one! because i have no ass and i have skinny legs, to to me, skinny leg jeans are what normal proportion jeans look like on men blessed with ample ass and leg flesh. results may vary for other mens. | |
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CarrieMpls said: I don't understand women who say "I don't get along with other women".
I suuuuure understand I used to when I always hear that sentence growing up,,,,,but now, I came to terms with the realization that women are in fact MORE territorial than men, at least against their own. Even if they don't mean to,,,,or esp if they say they're NOT oooooh, the WORST kind are the ones in denial about that shit. | |
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Anxiety said: i can answer this one!
because i have no ass and i have skinny legs, to to me, skinny leg jeans are what normal proportion jeans look like on men blessed with ample ass and leg flesh. results may vary for other mens. Yes, but your jeans don't really have the look of skinny jeans. They look good on you. | |
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Ex-Moderator | Harlepolis said: CarrieMpls said: I don't understand women who say "I don't get along with other women".
I suuuuure understand I used to when I always hear that sentence growing up,,,,,but now, I came to terms with the realization that women are in fact MORE territorial than men, at least against their own. Even if they don't mean to,,,,or esp if they say they're NOT oooooh, the WORST kind are the ones in denial about that shit. I must be the worst kind, then, cause I don't even think I know what you're talking about. |
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Why is being emotional, thoughtful and sensitive considered less than masculine? I don't like that. | |
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I don't understand why some women are catty.
I don't understand the makeup thing. I don't understand why so many women like to shop or care about that type of stuff. I don't understand women who ditch their friends because they get into a relationship. I don't understand why women feel threatened by other women and why they believe men and women can't be "just friends". I don't understand the whole gossiping thing some women do. I don't understand the whole instant judging thing some women do. | |
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CarrieMpls said: I don't understand women who say "I don't get along with other women".
But I don't get along with most women.
Or women who think they are in competition with all other women, or that assume all other women think they are. Or women who wear the label "bitch" with pride. It ma not even be tied to their gender but the stuff I care about is not what I view most women caring about. | |
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CarrieMpls said: Harlepolis said: I suuuuure understand I used to when I always hear that sentence growing up,,,,,but now, I came to terms with the realization that women are in fact MORE territorial than men, at least against their own. Even if they don't mean to,,,,or esp if they say they're NOT oooooh, the WORST kind are the ones in denial about that shit. I must be the worst kind, then, cause I don't even think I know what you're talking about. You'll,,,,in time | |
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Vendetta1 said: It ma not even be tied to their gender but the stuff I care about is not what I view most women caring about.
My BIGGEST issue with women is "cunning". I could tolerate every low down rotton thing,,,,except when it comes to manipulation. Women are MASTERS in the art of manipulation & mind games,,,,and I take a serious offence to that because I pride myself in being straightforward. Sadly, its not always the case with other women | |
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CarrieMpls said: I don't understand women who say "I don't get along with other women".
Or women who think they are in competition with all other women, or that assume all other women think they are. Or women who wear the label "bitch" with pride. | |
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Harlepolis said: Vendetta1 said: It ma not even be tied to their gender but the stuff I care about is not what I view most women caring about.
My BIGGEST issue with women is "cunning". I could tolerate every low down rotton thing,,,,except when it comes to manipulation. Women are MASTERS in the art of manipulation & mind games,,,,and I take a serious offence to that because I pride myself in being straightforward. Sadly, its not always the case with other women | |
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Oook, I'll take another stab at it...
I don't understand when some women say "Sex is OVERRATED" Yeah,,,,when you ain't getting nada | |
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TRON said: Why is being emotional, thoughtful and sensitive considered less than masculine? I don't like that.
I don't either and that's why I'm glad I'm gay because I'm "allowed" those things because of that. 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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I don't get why when I go into a womens' bathroom and the toilet seat is disgusting! Or the toilet in general. If you make a mess on the seat wipe it UP! If you do something in the bowl flush for goodness sake. Gross. | |
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crying. I know men are conditioned by society not to but do men feel like they want to and they just don't or do they not feel anything that brings that emotion?? I cry almost everyday so I think I'm probably an exception 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: crying. I know men are conditioned by society not to but do men feel like they want to and they just don't or do they not feel anything that brings that emotion?? I cry almost everyday so I think I'm probably an exception
i don't cry very often. i mean, i get the feeling like i want to cry, but the physical act of squishy stuff coming out of my eyes rarely happens. i always figured it was just some kind of physical defect on my part. | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: crying. I know men are conditioned by society not to but do men feel like they want to and they just don't or do they not feel anything that brings that emotion?? I cry almost everyday so I think I'm probably an exception
UGH! Thats just a misconception carried by a bunch of ingnant ass fools My father is the MOST self-confident man I ever known in my life YET he never felt ashamed to hide his tears. Of course it fucked me up when I 1st saw him crying,,,,,but then again, a child doesn't want to see either of his/her parents in an emotional moment. Its one of the things I admired him for,,,,,he doesn't give a shit. | |
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hokie said: I don't get why when I go into a womens' bathroom and the toilet seat is disgusting! Or the toilet in general. If you make a mess on the seat wipe it UP! If you do something in the bowl flush for goodness sake. Gross.
If you think women's washrooms are dirty... try the men's washroom, it is absolutely pukey. | |
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Anxiety said: SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: crying. I know men are conditioned by society not to but do men feel like they want to and they just don't or do they not feel anything that brings that emotion?? I cry almost everyday so I think I'm probably an exception
i don't cry very often. i mean, i get the feeling like i want to cry, but the physical act of squishy stuff coming out of my eyes rarely happens. i always figured it was just some kind of physical defect on my part. No. I think that's most men. I can cry just by looking at a commercial I get tears over almost everything. But I can be a coldhearted bitch when I need to so.... 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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TRON said: Why is being emotional, thoughtful and sensitive considered less than masculine? I don't like that. I don't like that either and I've seen more women than men ride guys for crying. | |
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Harlepolis said: SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: crying. I know men are conditioned by society not to but do men feel like they want to and they just don't or do they not feel anything that brings that emotion?? I cry almost everyday so I think I'm probably an exception
UGH! Thats just a misconception carried by a bunch of ingnant ass fools My father is the MOST self-confident man I ever known in my life YET he never felt ashamed to hide his tears. Of course it fucked me up when I 1st saw him crying,,,,,but then again, a child doesn't want to see either of his/her parents in an emotional moment. Its one of the things I admired him for,,,,,he doesn't give a shit. You know, it's really incredible the depth of the conditioning because the first time I ever saw my dad cry I had a feeling of alarm and it was totally appropriate that he was crying as there was a death in our family. I had to pull back from that initial reaction and remind that I was falling for the conditional trap with another man 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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Harlepolis said: Oook, I'll take another stab at it...
I've never had good sex with a man so yeah it is overrated. I am so afraid of lousy sex that I rather not even be bothered. It's been years and I don't miss it.I don't understand when some women say "Sex is OVERRATED" Yeah,,,,when you ain't getting nada | |
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i went to target the other day and noticed that all the foot care products were marketed for women. pumice stones, foot files, smoothing lotion, etc. - they were all in purple packaging with the words FOR HER in big letters.
so, like, is it not considered acceptable for men to care for their feet? if i buy a pumice stone, will that give me a case of girlyfoot? | |
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hokie said: I don't get why when I go into a womens' bathroom and the toilet seat is disgusting! Or the toilet in general. If you make a mess on the seat wipe it UP! If you do something in the bowl flush for goodness sake. Gross. Yeah! WTF is up with that? Some women can be really gross. | |
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Vendetta1 said: Harlepolis said: Oook, I'll take another stab at it...
I've never had good sex with a man so yeah it is overrated. I am so afraid of lousy sex that I rather not even be bothered. It's been years and I don't miss it.I don't understand when some women say "Sex is OVERRATED" Yeah,,,,when you ain't getting nada I'm talking about sex in GENERAL, whether its with a man or a woman. | |
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Anxiety said: i went to target the other day and noticed that all the foot care products were marketed for women. pumice stones, foot files, smoothing lotion, etc. - they were all in purple packaging with the words FOR HER in big letters.
so, like, is it not considered acceptable for men to care for their feet? if i buy a pumice stone, will that give me a case of girlyfoot? Uh, there needs to be a mass campaign because so many men have fucking eagle claws for feet! 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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