how do you graciously exit a bad sexual encounter? fake an orgasm? remember somethingthat you gotta go do right now?
what have you done?

i just call it off

Just get dressed, say "Well, this doesn't work for me" and leave.

Which is hard when you are living with someone, of course.

I'd end this before we'd ever get to the "living together" part. Just say i'm sorry, you deserve somebody better, "its me, not you". And hope you find that person who was created for you, I hope we can be friends.

I've been lucky not to have it happen but this should do it:

The Wrap It Up Box.

Then take a break have some wine or other stuff and go at it again.

Practice makes perfect.

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[Edited 1/1/09 16:15pm]

i used to have bad sex in the horny morning
bad sex in the afternoon

missfee said:

I hate that shit Jus tell me wats the real deal already! sheesh!

tell the person what he/she is doing wrong

If I was bad, I'd want to know it so I could get better!!

PricelessHo said:

To me, bad sex is a misnomer...I've had a couple encounters in my life where it just wasn't happening, but instead of saying "fuck this!", we talked to each other and told the other what was going on...adjusted accordingly...and ended up having a whale of a time...the key is being able to take criticism of your vast sexual prowess constructively....

...as long as there isn't any or going on, anyone can improve bad sex....

reneGade20 said:

thats what I like to hear!

thekidsgirl said:

I thank ya!!

reneGade20 said:

I think I love you.
[Edited 1/1/09 12:59pm]

KidaDynamite said:

thekidsgirl said:

Same here; I mean unless the person could give two shits about you, I would want soemone who I'm deeply involved with tell me whats not good

take a dump with the bathroom door open, that should do it

horatio said:

yes....yes it would....

reneGade20 said:

but dude, .. you know that is exactly what some folks will do... go back and gossip about it to friends, laughing of how bad it was... you know that '1st impression' thing... you mess it up the 1st time, that's it..

reneGade20 said:

the addition of a squatty would only add to its over all effectiveness

reneGade20 said:

HamsterHuey said:

yeah you have to do something more subtle, like start reading your novel

Flowers2 said:

Unfortunately, you're right...but that is more about the maturity level of the person who does that kind of thing....maybe it's just me, but that seems more likely to be a chick thing...unless it was absolutely a terrible experience (i.e., bad smell or some other bodily-function related snafu), I've never heard any of my guy friends rag on a girl for bad sex...at worst, they'll soldier through it and never call her again...but I've heard lots of women discuss and slam dudes for bad sex....

reneGade20 said:

communication can work wonders. but, BOTH partners have to be into improving the situation, and into each other enough for that to happen

reneGade20 said:

yeah, I think the women talk more about the bad..

Like this:

"Ya, this isn't working. You should go home now".

XxAxX said:

No doubt!! If one or the other is like "meh!" then its time to scoop up one's underwear, throw up the deuces and hit the road....

reneGade20 said:

dont know if i approve of this exchange

take charge & guide subtly or very directly, depending on what's necessary. that goes for even kissing too, not just sex.

sweet said: