ThreadBare said:

I don't go for looks first off, so I'd be happy with either if that person was a good person.

ZombieKitten said:

Yeah, I'm a dude.

ThreadBare said:

typical

ThreadBare said:

I think you speak for all men lol...

Looks, definitely. You don't have to be gorgeous cuz Lawd KNOWS I can't stand a pretty muthafucka with a high voice, but he must be attractive in my eyes to pique my interest. As for money, you'd have to define that further cuz he gotta have his own shit for me to be in a relationship with him. BUT if it's just a casual thang I could care less if he lives with his momma as long as he ain't trynta move in with me.

ZombieKitten said:

ZombieKitten said:

lol .. all men say this lol ... I've never heard of a dude going for a chick for her money only... us women are different LOL!

Flowers2 said:

In as much as men are visual, yes. But, I'm pretty individualistic in my standards, most of the time.

ZombieKitten said:

though if you rephrase that to average looking and nice, or ugly and nice with money

Flowers2 said:

This happens more and more frequently tho. Especially considering the dearth of available black guys and surplus of single, financially independent sistas of a certain age. I've had guys ask me to take them out to eat cuz if I don't some other chick will. It's crazy out here.

ThreadBare said:

I'm not saying men stay with women cause of their looks (a huge percent do though), there's the character factor..... but looks plays a huge role for men...

Neither...looks fade, and money can't buy happiness!

Flowers2 said:

Sure. But I'd put it on par with a few other traits.

SCNDLS said:

guys are that brazen? the nerve!

Consider me piggish, then.

as they say....

"Romance without finance is a nuisance!!!"

I'm a southern gentleman, and in my single days I never expected my date to pay for anything...but I did expect a bit of restraint....meaning don't go ordering the highest shit on the menu just cuz I'm payin' for it.....

reneGade20 said:

why not? lol .. I'm joking lol

Flowers2 said:

Flowers2 said:

cuz that is some cheeky shit!!! You can get just as much out of a decently priced seafood platter than an overpriced filet mignon...

reneGade20 said:

Shit, I'm in the South and muthafuckas don't even buy drinks no more.
Back in the day, if I was with my girls and one dude tried to holla it was automatic that he would buy a round for the table. Now, a bitch can barely get a Shirley Temple.

Oh, and I've had a dude pull the okey doke on me with the check. Talking 'bout he don't eat beef but when I'm paying got the damn nerve to order filet mignon with crab.
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SCNDLS said:

Its a trip because no one ever told me I was supposed to do that...I just did it since it was the "gentlemanly" thing to do...I stopped, though, because I got accused of trying to be a playa...

....and on that check thing....I took this one girl to one of those swanky New Orleans spots and her shit came out to over $100 alone....better believe I was eyeballin' her like Morris Day when she was acting like she was leaving something on her plate...

reneGade20 said:

I'm kidding, I'm kidding lol.. I wouldn't do that to a decent guy

reneGade20 said:

It's called manners. This hardly happens anymore when we go out unless we're in Vegas.

Of the two, I'd have to say looks because I don't need anyone else's money.

SCNDLS said:

yeah, those types of dudes exist no manners

Good looks and/or money doesn't mean a thing
unless a guy also has a good sense of humor,
is sensitive, and intelligent.

Besides money can be gone in a blink of an eye
and looks eventually fade.

Looks. On the financial front/status, the guy could be sweeping the streets.

Looks

Intelligence.

Graycap23 said:

That wasn't one of the options.