I mean fired up to go out cause you haven't had a chance to go out cause of work an personal obligations and you make plans to go out with your friends and the plan slowly fades to black. This happened to me this evening. I was in the mood to go party like a rockstar and mentioned this to a couple friends and coworkers last week. Everyone seemed to be aboard when suddenly Friday people started dropping like flies, oh i don't have any money, my wife don't want me to go out, I gotta finish my Christmas shopping, any and every excuse, I thought I could count on my boy ray, mr. party, and he even said about an hour ago, man I gotta slow down, I;ve been wildin out this week. I would go out by myself but thats no fun cause you look like the loner at the bar, club, party. So I'm stuck. Dang.

karmatornado said:

You know I've never had a problem going out by myself, I actually enjoy it more than going with a bunch of friends. It reduces the drama factor and you do what you want when you want to. It's easy to meet people at a bar, even by yourself, just be open to it.

I never mind going out alone...except for not having someone to watch my bag while I'm dancing!!

go out and have fun anyways! i used to do that, and i had a good time!

Going out alone is no big deal.
Going back home alone is a bit of a drag.

karmatornado said:

!!!
http://prince.org/msg/8/290409

I have more fun when I go to bars and clubs by myself. Less drama.

Mara said:

Awww, I'm in lust now.

HamsterHuey said:

My favorite youtube comment for this video: "lol why are all the gyals lickin this guys ass??? Have some diginity he aint all that I have seen better!"

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[Edited 11/30/08 2:12am]

Mara said:

That wasn't MY comment!

HamsterHuey said:

True. One mo clip for ya.

Heheh. I can stand only two movies; he cute and all, but not much brains seem to be involved.

HamsterHuey said:

deep inside we are all the same

karmatornado said:

Where I'm from, we call this condition "Old man in the club" -itis!!

I used to have this problem, but since I live in the southern most area of Arizona, I have no friends to go out with.....

rushing07 said:

no brains

I hate it when unfortunate things happens like that, I think that is called life:nod:

karmatornado said:

Same thing happened to me on Friday and it was my bday

HamsterHuey said:

LOL. He was high out of his mind in the last clip.

I rarely have the opportunity to go out, so I feel immense pressure and expectation when the night comes, and often feel like staying home instead

Gawd, I prefer going out alone. I don't care if people think I'm a loner. I don't have any trouble meeting/talking to people if I feel like it, but sometimes it's also just nice to go out and dance and do what you want when you want without having to see what everyone else is up for. . .

I prefer to go out with friends. If we're talking out to dinner or a movie or somerthing, I'll happily do that by myself, but going out for a drink or dancing, I need company. If only because I don't like talking to people I don't know and that's more apt to happen if you're by yourself.

It's a wonder I ever make friends.

CarrieMpls said:

I think one of the primary differences between you and I is shyness. And we're both kinda weird social mixes, too, but in different ways. I think I'm more introverted, but not at all shy. And you're more extroverted (maybe not compared to most people, but compared to me), but pretty shy. This ends up having huge effects on the type of people we are.

tackam said:

I'm introverted AND shy

tackam said:

I think on the extro/intro scale, I'm on in the intro side, but you're right, less so than you.
But yeah, I think you're on to something here.

tackam said:

I agree.

I like going out alone and just vibe by myself and meet people if I feel like it. It's not a big deal to go up to someone and start talking or dancing. But then again, I go out so much I end up seeing someone I know anyway.

When I'm with a friend or a crew, it's like I have to follow them around and then we gotta socialize together and if you float around it's like "where were you?"

tackam said:

I do too....but for me, its the venue that dictates if I go alone....for instance, I'm more likely to hit a joint with live music alone instead of a club....unless its a club that is frequented by my peer/age group.....which for my comfort level would be in the 35 and up range....

It does indeed suck when you wanna go out and seems everybody else doesn't...I've been trying to work up the nerve to go out solo more often since alot of my friends aren't really into some of the music that I'm a fan of.

thekidsgirl said:

Yeah, that's another thing.

I have friends that are all about some damn R&B and rap. I mean, yeah, it's cool, whatever, whatever, BUT, I like indie dance music, I like techno, electro, chipmunktunes, I like dancing to other types of music.

CarrieMpls said:

Not too many people are more introverted than me. I might akshully overestimate your extroversion just cuz I've spent very little time with you where you weren't surrounded by your closest friends. We all seem more extroverted in that context.

HotPaisleyGirl said:

aww...
and a for your b-day