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PrintableJustErin said: CalhounSq said: Not even a matinee??  Wtf would I do at a matinee??
But now I take my son to those. Girl, stop posin' like your ass is too fuckin' special to go to a matinee . I went to see the Sex In the City Movie on matinee during an extended lunch break once and I was happy as hell. I took catering from the shoot in a carton thingy, ordered a fuckin cappucinno and tuned everybody the fuck OUT. The only thing that was missing was a good stiff martini , but since I had to go back to the studio and all, that sorta wasn't an option...although they do serve cocktails in the English language theatre here...PRETTY ones,too  | |
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JustErin said: CalhounSq said: Not even a matinee?? Wtf would I do at a matinee??
But now I take my son to those.  See a damn movie!   I never met you, but I LOVE you & I will forever!! Thank you for being YOU - my little Princey, the best to EVER do it | |
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From my experience women tend to travel in packs of 2 or 3. If you talk to one by yourself, it is inevitable that one of the friends will become bitter and then the obligatory cockblocking begins. Its just better to have a wingman. Carpenters bend wood, fletchers bend arrows, wise men fashion themselves.
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karmatornado said: From my experience women tend to travel in packs of 2 or 3. If you talk to one by yourself, it is inevitable that one of the friends will become bitter and then the obligatory cockblocking begins. Its just better to have a wingman.
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JustErin said: rushing07 said: Going out alone is no big deal.
Going back home alone is a bit of a drag. Wtf?? Never go out alone!! It reeks of desperation! I can't even bring myself to meet people at a club if I am heading there alone.
Well. I recon this might be the case in the sad ol straight world. In gayville going out alone is nothing unusual nor shameful. Why? a) Its a small gay world - a lot of ppl know each other. When I go out I usually bump into someone i know and can hang out with if I feel like it b) Its a fun gay world - there is always (well, after midnight) something fun going on at a gay club. And ppl are open to meeting new ppl. If Im alone usually someone comes over and says "Hi." Often a drunk fag hag. c) Its a slutty gay world - well, Im not trying to speak for the entire community, but I would say that going out alone to find a trick is now looked down at in the gay world. Its often treated with a tongue-in-cheek attitude. When I see a guy looking around I don't think "God, so desperate" but rather "I bet 5$ he's gonna end up with the twink in lilac blouse" And even that is meant very light heatedly.  I'm not mad at you, I'm mad at the dirt. | |
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rushing07 said: JustErin said: Wtf?? Never go out alone!! It reeks of desperation! I can't even bring myself to meet people at a club if I am heading there alone.
Well. I recon this might be the case in the sad ol straight world. In gayville going out alone is nothing unusual nor shameful. Why? a) Its a small gay world - a lot of ppl know each other. When I go out I usually bump into someone i know and can hang out with if I feel like it b) Its a fun gay world - there is always (well, after midnight) something fun going on at a gay club. And ppl are open to meeting new ppl. If Im alone usually someone comes over and says "Hi." Often a drunk fag hag. c) Its a slutty gay world - well, Im not trying to speak for the entire community, but I would say that going out alone to find a trick is now looked down at in the gay world. Its often treated with a tongue-in-cheek attitude. When I see a guy looking around I don't think "God, so desperate" but rather "I bet 5$ he's gonna end up with the twink in lilac blouse" And even that is meant very light heatedly. Hey everyone loves my lilac blouse, thank you very much.  The Most Important Thing In Life Is Sincerity....Once You Can Fake That, You Can Fake Anything. |
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lazycrockett said: rushing07 said:
Well. I recon this might be the case in the sad ol straight world. In gayville going out alone is nothing unusual nor shameful. Why? a) Its a small gay world - a lot of ppl know each other. When I go out I usually bump into someone i know and can hang out with if I feel like it b) Its a fun gay world - there is always (well, after midnight) something fun going on at a gay club. And ppl are open to meeting new ppl. If Im alone usually someone comes over and says "Hi." Often a drunk fag hag. c) Its a slutty gay world - well, Im not trying to speak for the entire community, but I would say that going out alone to find a trick is now looked down at in the gay world. Its often treated with a tongue-in-cheek attitude. When I see a guy looking around I don't think "God, so desperate" but rather "I bet 5$ he's gonna end up with the twink in lilac blouse" And even that is meant very light heatedly. Hey everyone loves my lilac blouse, thank you very much. Let me borrow that top.  [Edited 12/1/08 22:27pm] I'm not mad at you, I'm mad at the dirt. | |
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rushing07 said: Going out alone is no big deal.
Going back home alone is a bit of a drag. you know what i dont... | |
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karmatornado said: From my experience women tend to travel in packs of 2 or 3. If you talk to one by yourself, it is inevitable that one of the friends will become bitter and then the obligatory cockblocking begins. Its just better to have a wingman.
Good point....the flipside to that is walking up to that same group and going down the line until one of them says "YES" to your dance or drink offer...then the others are likely to spend the rest of the night wondering what's wrong with THEM...  He was like a cock who thought the sun had risen to hear him crow.
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Ottensen said: JustErin said: Wtf would I do at a matinee??
But now I take my son to those. Girl, stop posin' like your ass is too fuckin' special to go to a matinee . I went to see the Sex In the City Movie on matinee during an extended lunch break once and I was happy as hell. I took catering from the shoot in a carton thingy, ordered a fuckin cappucinno and tuned everybody the fuck OUT. The only thing that was missing was a good stiff martini , but since I had to go back to the studio and all, that sorta wasn't an option...although they do serve cocktails in the English language theatre here...PRETTY ones,too Movies are for night time. | |
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JustErin said: Ottensen said: Girl, stop posin' like your ass is too fuckin' special to go to a matinee . I went to see the Sex In the City Movie on matinee during an extended lunch break once and I was happy as hell. I took catering from the shoot in a carton thingy, ordered a fuckin cappucinno and tuned everybody the fuck OUT. The only thing that was missing was a good stiff martini , but since I had to go back to the studio and all, that sorta wasn't an option...although they do serve cocktails in the English language theatre here...PRETTY ones,too Movies are for night time. Well...if you wanna have some kissin' involved, I suppose night time IS the RIGHT TIME  | |
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Ottensen said: JustErin said: Movies are for night time. Well...if you wanna have some kissin' involved, I suppose night time IS the RIGHT TIME
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reneGade20 said: karmatornado said: From my experience women tend to travel in packs of 2 or 3. If you talk to one by yourself, it is inevitable that one of the friends will become bitter and then the obligatory cockblocking begins. Its just better to have a wingman.
Good point....the flipside to that is walking up to that same group and going down the line until one of them says "YES" to your dance or drink offer...then the others are likely to spend the rest of the night wondering what's wrong with THEM... Now, see, I wasn't even aware of all these manuevers:lol: I'm SO out of touch! But also alot of my friends are performers or nightlife entrepeneurs so I just sort of breeze through night places on my own, say hi to who I know in the joint, but otherwise mind my own business. When someone unfamiliar strikes up conversation I'm generally polite and engaging unless they come off the wrong way. I get my dance groove on, have my 2 drinks, salute the manager/owner/performer on my way outof the place, then go home giggly thinking about all the stuff I just witnessed and fall into bed | |
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Ottensen said: reneGade20 said: Now, see, I wasn't even aware of all these manuevers:lol: I'm SO out of touch! But also alot of my friends are performers or nightlife entrepeneurs so I just sort of breeze through night places on my own, say hi to who I know in the joint, but otherwise mind my own business. When someone unfamiliar strikes up conversation I'm generally polite and engaging unless they come off the wrong way. I get my dance groove on, have my 2 drinks, salute the manager/owner/performer on my way outof the place, then go home giggly thinking about all the stuff I just witnessed and fall into bed I know this worked at least once in my life....I was at a club on New Years Eve the first time I was stationed in N.Y. (and single)...I saw a group of 5 ladies (turned out they were all stationed at the Air Force base up the road from the Army base I was on...)  ANYway, I approached the one who stood out the most to me, but she shot me down... so not to be deterred, I literally went down the line until lady #5 said "ok, lets  "...we ended up dating for about 7 months....He was like a cock who thought the sun had risen to hear him crow.
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reneGade20 said: Ottensen said: Now, see, I wasn't even aware of all these manuevers:lol: I'm SO out of touch! But also alot of my friends are performers or nightlife entrepeneurs so I just sort of breeze through night places on my own, say hi to who I know in the joint, but otherwise mind my own business. When someone unfamiliar strikes up conversation I'm generally polite and engaging unless they come off the wrong way. I get my dance groove on, have my 2 drinks, salute the manager/owner/performer on my way outof the place, then go home giggly thinking about all the stuff I just witnessed and fall into bed I know this worked at least once in my life....I was at a club on New Years Eve the first time I was stationed in N.Y. (and single)...I saw a group of 5 ladies (turned out they were all stationed at the Air Force base up the road from the Army base I was on...) ANYway, I approached the one who stood out the most to me, but she shot me down... so not to be deterred, I literally went down the line until lady #5 said "ok, lets "...we ended up dating for about 7 months....For the record, Doll, rest assured that had I ever met you as a single dude, I'm quite sure I would have found you affable enough for converstion and a bit of dancing, indeed | |
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