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Printableoh hell dusty... feel free to keep venting here! or telling sordid tales of what a skank she is 
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dustysgirl said: Thanks guys. That's what I needed to hear. My husband is not one for many words, and basically told me today that he's sick of hearing anymore about it. I guess, I needed someone to understand how wrong she was, and that I did the right thing by being mature and not beating her ass or cussing her out in front of her kids.
Sometimes airing things out on here is like talking to a trusted girlfriend. We all need someone to agree with us and encourage us, right? I have two trusted friends like that, and they both work during the day, so I couldn't bother them too much. great... now I can't get "If I was your Girlfriend" outta my head... thanks! A working class Hero is something to be ~ Lennon |
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dustysgirl said: Thanks guys. That's what I needed to hear. My husband is not one for many words, and basically told me today that he's sick of hearing anymore about it. I guess, I needed someone to understand how wrong she was, and that I did the right thing by being mature and not beating her ass or cussing her out in front of her kids.
Sometimes airing things out on here is like talking to a trusted girlfriend. We all need someone to agree with us and encourage us, right? I have two trusted friends like that, and they both work during the day, so I couldn't bother them too much.  We all need affirmation and you did take the right course of action in my opinion. Hold your head up high girl and be proud of yourself for who you are.  | |
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dustysgirl said: So he calls her and she basically asked him if he would like to "hook up" with her!!!!! He said that he hung up on her, and then came in and told me about it.
I'd say you have a good husband there and that you should simply ingnore the stupid whore. In fact you should give her this sign for Christmas...  Christian Zombie Vampires | |
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dustysgirl said: I hate to go and on. Actually that's why I'm posting this because my husband doesn't want to hear it anymore.
But I feel like, "how dare that bitch!!!!!" She's known me for years. She knew of the cancer battle I've went through. She's a shitty mother who doesn't take care of her kids. I've fed them, given them rides, had talks with them, fixed their hair, given them clothes, let them spend the night endlessly. I've let her use my computer for things. I mean, the list of things I've done for her goes on and on. She doesn't have any friends in our tiny neighborhood, and I'm the only one who talks to her (at least used to). I don't generally cuss too much, but she has got some fucking nerve!!!!! Just let it go. Let those who need to know, know...but I would let it go...for your sake and your husbands. Christian Zombie Vampires | |
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dustysgirl said: I hate to go and on. Actually that's why I'm posting this because my husband doesn't want to hear it anymore.
But I feel like, "how dare that bitch!!!!!" She's known me for years. She knew of the cancer battle I've went through. She's a shitty mother who doesn't take care of her kids. I've fed them, given them rides, had talks with them, fixed their hair, given them clothes, let them spend the night endlessly. I've let her use my computer for things. I mean, the list of things I've done for her goes on and on. She doesn't have any friends in our tiny neighborhood, and I'm the only one who talks to her (at least used to). I don't generally cuss too much, but she has got some fucking nerve!!!!! See if she were the V.P. candidate she'd be out traveling the country and away from your husband. Then she'd be Cindy's issue. I don't want you to think like me. I just want you to think. |
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dustysgirl said: I hate to go and on. Actually that's why I'm posting this because my husband doesn't want to hear it anymore.
But I feel like, "how dare that bitch!!!!!" She's known me for years. She knew of the cancer battle I've went through. She's a shitty mother who doesn't take care of her kids. I've fed them, given them rides, had talks with them, fixed their hair, given them clothes, let them spend the night endlessly. I've let her use my computer for things. I mean, the list of things I've done for her goes on and on. She doesn't have any friends in our tiny neighborhood, and I'm the only one who talks to her (at least used to). I don't generally cuss too much, but she has got some fucking nerve!!!!! What he's really thinking is he knew you were gonna act like she's Bill Ayres he never would have mentioned it. (She's worse than McCain with the Vietnam stories . . . . LOL.) But he didn't tell you to set you off or make you feel bad. Be glad you're special to him. I wouldn't have her over but the kids . . . sorry to see them suffer . . . I don't want you to think like me. I just want you to think. |
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I agree with Miguel. Your husband seems totally uninterested and he told you about it immediately. Seems like it isn't an issue. It sucks that she did that, but not all women are that way. You should just ignore her and take comfort in the fact that you have a good man and just let her be jealous.
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be cool... sounds like your husband has integrity.... you've told her you're onto her... that's enough
i understand you're pissed but i wouldn't be ringing her kid's phone.... i'm sure her kids have enough to deal with | |
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Dusty I dont blame u for being pissed at her at all!!! CAB may have issues like some people in this thread have said, thats true, but Im afraid that does not exuse her from trying to steal anyones husband at all.
ANd I dont blame u for calling until u got through either, even if it was one of her kids phone. U obviously didnt tell them why u wanted to speak to her. I would probably have been calm and said pretty much the same as u, but at the end of it I would have told her if she ever steps within five feet of me again I'll rip her tits off
There is nothing worse than someone u have helped and been friends with trying to betray u like that. Even if it didnt work its still a really shitty thing for her to do. SHe's a jerk Im wondering though...for all who said just to let it go....given the same situation happening to u...would u "really" let it go? Be honest now  PRINCE IS WATCHING U  " When an Artist Creates, whatever they create belongs to society"
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chillichocaholic said: Dusty I dont blame u for being pissed at her at all!!! CAB may have issues like some people in this thread have said, thats true, but Im afraid that does not exuse her from trying to steal anyones husband at all.
ANd I dont blame u for calling until u got through either, even if it was one of her kids phone. U obviously didnt tell them why u wanted to speak to her. I would probably have been calm and said pretty much the same as u, but at the end of it I would have told her if she ever steps within five feet of me again I'll rip her tits off
There is nothing worse than someone u have helped and been friends with trying to betray u like that. Even if it didnt work its still a really shitty thing for her to do. SHe's a jerk Im wondering though...for all who said just to let it go....given the same situation happening to u...would u "really" let it go? Be honest now I really would let it go.
If I trust my partner and I am secure in knowing he wants me and only me why would I have to go ballistic? I am 100% sure my partner wants me and if something like this happened I'd be upset about my "friend" doing that and I'd probably tell her so, but I wouldn't go all ape shit. No reason at ALL to put kids in the middle of adult bullshit IMO. | |
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chillichocaholic said: Im wondering though...for all who said just to let it go....given the same situation happening to u...would u "really" let it go? Be honest now once i'd stated my case... yes then if the muthafucka tried again... i'd crush him like a bug | |
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momentsofbliss said: chillichocaholic said: Im wondering though...for all who said just to let it go....given the same situation happening to u...would u "really" let it go? Be honest now once i'd stated my case... yes then if the muthafucka tried again... i'd crush him like a bug PRINCE IS WATCHING U " When an Artist Creates, whatever they create belongs to society"
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hokie said: chillichocaholic said: Dusty I dont blame u for being pissed at her at all!!! CAB may have issues like some people in this thread have said, thats true, but Im afraid that does not exuse her from trying to steal anyones husband at all.
ANd I dont blame u for calling until u got through either, even if it was one of her kids phone. U obviously didnt tell them why u wanted to speak to her. I would probably have been calm and said pretty much the same as u, but at the end of it I would have told her if she ever steps within five feet of me again I'll rip her tits off
There is nothing worse than someone u have helped and been friends with trying to betray u like that. Even if it didnt work its still a really shitty thing for her to do. SHe's a jerk Im wondering though...for all who said just to let it go....given the same situation happening to u...would u "really" let it go? Be honest now I really would let it go.
If I trust my partner and I am secure in knowing he wants me and only me why would I have to go ballistic? I am 100% sure my partner wants me and if something like this happened I'd be upset about my "friend" doing that and I'd probably tell her so, but I wouldn't go all ape shit. No reason at ALL to put kids in the middle of adult bullshit IMO. U know what, I trust my partner for sure and Im am not a jealous person at all, not in the least..but the betrayal of a firend is probably what would really peeve me. And Im not talking about going ballistic...I dont think dusty went ballistic at all...but I would sure pop her one if she ever tried to pull that shite again, and I would tell her as much. PRINCE IS WATCHING U " When an Artist Creates, whatever they create belongs to society"
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pardonme4livin said: Jerry Jerry Jerry !
Punch her in the mouth....that's usually works for me....    | |
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This whole scenario sounds like something I would hear on Dr. Laura's radio show. To Sir, with Love | |
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PEJ said: This whole scenario sounds like something I would hear on Dr. Laura's radio show.
Except that Dr. Laura would tell dustysgirl that this was somehow her own fault for not being a proper wife or friend. Ὅσον ζῇς φαίνου
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Just thank God you have a devoted and loyal husband. I hope you gave him some good lovin' after he told you this. Because I can name 100 men who would've accepted that bitch's invitation and not felt a twinge of guilt about it.
For real. Cut her out of your life and enjoy your good man. And if revenge is what you want, you already got it. That ho knows she ruined the only friendship she had and it is hurting her. Trust me. [Edited 10/29/08 18:25pm] | |
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why not cut her some slack?
she may be a dumb-ass she may have fallen in love  small circles, big wheels!
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chillichocaholic said: hokie said: I really would let it go.
If I trust my partner and I am secure in knowing he wants me and only me why would I have to go ballistic? I am 100% sure my partner wants me and if something like this happened I'd be upset about my "friend" doing that and I'd probably tell her so, but I wouldn't go all ape shit. No reason at ALL to put kids in the middle of adult bullshit IMO. U know what, I trust my partner for sure and Im am not a jealous person at all, not in the least..but the betrayal of a firend is probably what would really peeve me. And Im not talking about going ballistic...I dont think dusty went ballistic at all...but I would sure pop her one if she ever tried to pull that shite again, and I would tell her as much. Yes. The betrayal by the friend is the worst part. I don't think I'd hit the woman (if I was in this position). I would definitely tell her the friendship is over and that I think she's low class for pulling such a move. But, that's where it would end for me. | |
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dustysgirl said: Thanks guys. That's what I needed to hear. My husband is not one for many words, and basically told me today that he's sick of hearing anymore about it. I guess, I needed someone to understand how wrong she was, and that I did the right thing by being mature and not beating her ass or cussing her out in front of her kids.
Sometimes airing things out on here is like talking to a trusted girlfriend. We all need someone to agree with us and encourage us, right? I have two trusted friends like that, and they both work during the day, so I couldn't bother them too much. So does this mean you're gonna let me borrow your car? We are sisters, afterall.  Ὅσον ζῇς φαίνου
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Lammastide said: PEJ said: This whole scenario sounds like something I would hear on Dr. Laura's radio show.
Except that Dr. Laura would tell dustysgirl that this was somehow her own fault for not being a proper wife or friend. yes she wouldTo Sir, with Love | |
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