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PrintableSupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: Stymie said: I can't help you. I am the queen of crushes.
You could always find a reason to hate them. It's easy if you try.  SO. EASY! You know, this is probably the best strategy.  "What's 'non-sequitur' mean? Do I look it up in a Fag-to-English dictionary?" | |
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XxAxX said: tackam said: And you know, they usually liiiike me, and they sure wanna fuuuuck me, but none of them really knows me or loves me or will be there at the end of the gawddamned day.
So, seriously. What am I supposed to DO with these people? I honestly haven't got a clue.  learn to love yourself. those guys will still be there in twenty years, and probably after that as well. unfortunately, there is no way to know which guy is sincere and which one just wants to get his nuts off in your body.
love yourself and look for guys who live honorably. really, that's all i gots  Good advice. And I do love myself, and I don't need them. But I do WANT them, and it's annoying.  "What's 'non-sequitur' mean? Do I look it up in a Fag-to-English dictionary?" | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: RenHoek said: get a sailboat... that'll help... 
Or a cruiseship  Yes please. "What's 'non-sequitur' mean? Do I look it up in a Fag-to-English dictionary?" | |
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tackam said: XxAxX said: learn to love yourself. those guys will still be there in twenty years, and probably after that as well. unfortunately, there is no way to know which guy is sincere and which one just wants to get his nuts off in your body.
love yourself and look for guys who live honorably. really, that's all i gots Good advice. And I do love myself, and I don't need them. But I do WANT them, and it's annoying. i know. and, it hurts when you find out that the only thing someone liked about you was sex. but those guys? they're losers anyway so... not your loss. | |
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thekidsgirl said: I HATE crushes with an intense passion, because I always get them for unavailable or uninterested men
PREACH!!! surviving on the thought of loving you, it's just like the water
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tackam said: I'm about to turn 29.
My god you're just a babe yet!!! I know it sucks but on the other hand I wouldn't want that feeling to go away!! I'd rather know someone can get me all hot and bothered rather than never getting excited about anyone ever. 
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thekidsgirl said: I HATE crushes with an intense passion, because I always get them for unavailable or uninterested men
my pattern is similar to Erin's but more like... You meet person You become friends with them You develop crush on person You also are so hot for them....but he jus wants be friends You surpress feelings for man in question You watch him date loser chicks You start back at the beginning of cycle with a new guy Pretty much my scenario too. In fact going through that right now. 
It's like a friggin' addiction...Love/Crushes...They need to come up with a support group for it or some medication to cure us. Damn crushes. OFF WITH THEIR HEADS!
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XxAxX said: tackam said: Good advice. And I do love myself, and I don't need them. But I do WANT them, and it's annoying. i know. and, it hurts when you find out that the only thing someone liked about you was sex. but those guys? they're losers anyway so... not your loss. Yeah. . . it does, and I know girls who have that happen to them over and over. I have only once ever felt like I was really used in that way, thankfully. I guess I should say that being only liked for sex isn't really my issue. These people want to know me and be in my life and stuff (as well as have sex with me, which I want too). Sometimes TOO much. I don't have any shortage of affection and love and some kind of friendship. It's just. . . they take a ton of energy. Crushes. Lovers. Even when I feel fluttery and happy about them, they are distracting me from the rest of my life (I'm a pre-med student; I need to focus). And if I felt like there was a huuuge reward, maybe it would be ok. If the crushes were so fun that they were worth the energy. If my lovers provided so much warmth and support and genuine friendship that they balanced out the time I spend focused on them. And sometimes it's close. At times I think that they are, in fact, worth it. But, on balance, romantic attraction is dragging me down, not lifting me up. And I wish I had more control over it. As I'm sure everybody does. "What's 'non-sequitur' mean? Do I look it up in a Fag-to-English dictionary?" | |
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Vysyons said: thekidsgirl said: I HATE crushes with an intense passion, because I always get them for unavailable or uninterested men
my pattern is similar to Erin's but more like... You meet person You become friends with them You develop crush on person You also are so hot for them....but he jus wants be friends You surpress feelings for man in question You watch him date loser chicks You start back at the beginning of cycle with a new guy Pretty much my scenario too. In fact going through that right now.
It's like a friggin' addiction...Love/Crushes...They need to come up with a support group for it or some medication to cure us. Damn crushes. If there's ever a cure, please share it with me  If you will, so will I | |
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Right? Yeah, I think it's the addictive factor that really bugs me. "What's 'non-sequitur' mean? Do I look it up in a Fag-to-English dictionary?" | |
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XxAxX said: tackam said: Good advice. And I do love myself, and I don't need them. But I do WANT them, and it's annoying. i know. and, it hurts when you find out that the only thing someone liked about you was sex. but those guys? they're losers anyway so... not your loss.  | |
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I like crushes. It's cute. And I always have my wife.  | |
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CarrieMpls said: I need a good crush. They're few and far between for me these days.
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Fauxie said: I like crushes. It's cute. And I always have my wife.
Yeah. You know, I think the reality is that I miss having a partner in my life. The crushes would be (and were) fun and cute in that context. But that deeper bond is missing for me.
Ah, well. Maybe someday. If not, c'est la vie. "What's 'non-sequitur' mean? Do I look it up in a Fag-to-English dictionary?" | |
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tackam said:[quote] Fauxie said: I like crushes. It's cute. And I always have my wife.
Yeah. You know, I think the reality is that I miss having a partner in my life. The crushes would be (and were) fun and cute in that context. But that deeper bond is missing for me.
I havent had one this year at all. | |
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IAintTheOne said: CarrieMpls said: I need a good crush. They're few and far between for me these days.
Hi schneeb 
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IAintTheOne said: CarrieMpls said: I need a good crush. They're few and far between for me these days.
Hi schneeb | |
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tackam said: I guess I should say that being only liked for sex isn't really my issue. These people want to know me and be in my life and stuff (as well as have sex with me, which I want too). Sometimes TOO much. I don't have any shortage of affection and love and some kind of friendship.
the highlighted - you're fortunate if they want more than sex from you .. that's a rare thing But, on balance, romantic attraction is dragging me down, not lifting me up. And I wish I had more control over it. As I'm sure everybody does.
you'll be ok .. it's a cute phase, but eventually it will pass .. | |
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I'm in the middle of one right now and it's TORTURE! I'm already in a relationship!  
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XxAxX said: tackam said: And you know, they usually liiiike me, and they sure wanna fuuuuck me, but none of them really knows me or loves me or will be there at the end of the gawddamned day.
So, seriously. What am I supposed to DO with these people? I honestly haven't got a clue. learn to love yourself. those guys will still be there in twenty years, and probably after that as well. unfortunately, there is no way to know which guy is sincere and which one just wants to get his nuts off in your body.
love yourself and look for guys who live honorably. really, that's all i gots that's pretty good advice | |
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i hate crushes too. So i keep well away from men i like. that way u can't have ur heart broken | |
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thekidsgirl said: I HATE crushes with an intense passion, because I always get them for unavailable or uninterested men
my pattern is similar to Erin's but more like... You meet person You become friends with them You develop crush on person You also are so hot for them....but he jus wants be friends You surpress feelings for man in question You watch him date loser chicks You start back at the beginning of cycle with a new guy Consider both of yourselves lucky! Mine don't even want to be friends OR sleep with me! | |
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