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HERE YOU GO:


http://www.documentingrea...adbaby.jpg

http://www.documentingrea...aby_02.jpg

http://www.documentingrea...aby_03.jpg

http://www.documentingrea...aby_04.jpg

http://www.documentingrea...aby_07.jpg

http://www.documentingrea...aby_09.jpg

http://www.documentingrea...aby_10.jpg

Seriously i hope this isnt messing up those kids 4 life...

few more pics here:
http://www.documentingrea...eeps-9496/



[even with the warning, I think links are in order - CarrieMpls]

Sometimes when a person loses a child they need to see it and hold it for closure. That part I can sort of understand, but I do think the kids are too young to be a part of that. They aren't old/mature enough to understand what is going on. They don't need to see it.

Thanx carrie for linking those pix

hokie said:

I agree.
[Edited 9/25/08 9:10am]

to bad they didnt get a professional photographer to make some art out of the images

maybe i dont understand, but to me that would be like taking photographs with a bowel movement.

I had a friend who did this too. She even took it to a concert or so rumer has it. Yeah she was pretty fucked up.

I understand her need to mourn, but the kids should not be exposed to this....

AWWWW C'mon seriously?????

I'm sorry but THAT is wrong, so very, very wrong. I can respect the whole grieving process but that is what a memorial service is for. You don't pass 'round the miscarried fetus and take pictures!!!!

I'm sorry that had to happen to her but let's leave the children out of this...

my day is gonna SUCK now...

Since this was based on religious beliefs, I really don't feel I have the right to judge this woman.

Everyone handles grief in their own way, and I have known many people who have lost a baby and took pics. Even tho the child is still a 'fetus' it's still someone's baby.

I would have to agree the kids were to young to see that, but once again, I am not here to tell another how to raise their children. Some could look at our own lives and say...that was pretty messed up.

So I am sorry this woman lost her child!!

Wow! I wonder what she told the kids. I see no problem in her keeping what was in her. Is she going to put in on display? That would be quite bizarre considering we don't do this with grown humans who die. We bury/cremate them. Is she going to start a new trend. And the little hat, don't know. Kind of spooked me a little.

RenHoek said:

it reminds me of early photos where everyone obsessed with taking pictures of the macabre, funerals and such.

The poor little mite

Poor family, to lose a child is terrible even at this early stage of life It looks almost big enough that there might have been hope that it would survive.

I can fully understand her holding the little one and grieving but I agree that I wouldn't have included the children at this point though I would let them see pictures of their sibling when they're older.

Oh and I don't understand letting pictures of such a private moment go on the internet.
[Edited 9/25/08 11:56am]

and the one with the little pink knitted hat on the fetus, what in the hell!?

poor kids who were asked to pose with a fetus.

i wonder what she could get for it on ebay

I'm sorry but I am going to judge here and that is FUCKED UP.

It happens...don't pass it around to your children, see a shrink instead.

Wait is this shit even real?

Ugh.

CarrieLee said:

Yeah, totally.. and why make a story about it?

REDFEATHERS said:

It's disturbing, gross and wrong. I didn't keep my brother at home when he died and pass him around to my family. Why was she even allowed to do this?

CarrieLee said:

Fuck knows.. and I dunno how the pics got published..
There are millions of people who have miscarriages in the world, but dont go parading it like that.. those kids are gonna be seriously fucked up.. some things just should be kept from children IMO

REDFEATHERS said:

Exactly!!!! co-sign x a million shit like that gives kids nightmares, its not a freaking goldfish or hamster!

paintedlady said:

I felt soo sorry for my friend who was house hunting at the time.. while viewing a house, she felt bad but had to ask to use tha bathroom, as something wasnt right, and she miscarried in the toilet..

I wonder how long this woman is keeping it for, and is she gonna dress it up?

Dayum..

Why did she put a knit cap on that fetus?

Shawnt25 said:

REDFEATHERS said:

That fetus looks at around the 5.5 month mark. I had a friend that miscarried a baby at age 40. It was her first pregnancy and she was told that she couldn't get pregnant. She ignored her body's warning signs (contractions, and spotting) and lost her baby in a bathroom of a shopping mall, she called me, going all ballistic screaming and crying trying to grab her baby out of a toilet. I got there as soon as I could, she was drenched in her own tears and crouching on a bathroom floor. We had to clean her (her mom was with her) and we made her flush the toilet. Lord she was an absolute mess. She never recovered from that.
I have children, and I had to pull away for my own sanity. I still keep her in my thoughts and prayers. Some women that lose children like this just don't handle it well. They blame themselves in a harsh way.

She may want to say goodbye but her children don't really need to and WHY take photos?

OK.....

I'm an ass. But all I can think of is.... Can someone get her some Proactiv?

I'm an asshole I know.

It's very sad,as any miscarriage is,but for her to have her children hold,and take pictures with the fetus is just wrong. Someone should have stepped in,and made sure this didn't occur. She should have had some sort of service,but not subjected her children to that.

They look so cute together

GaryTheNoTrashCougar said:

You're sick.

hokie said:

Actually, she's the sick one. Pink beany? COME ON! It wasn't even from GAP Foetus.