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SERIOUSLY WTF!! "Lady Has Miscarrage and Keeps It" WARNING POSSIBLY DISTURBING PICTURES BELOW:
FINAL WARNING! HERE YOU GO: http://www.documentingrea...adbaby.jpg http://www.documentingrea...aby_02.jpg http://www.documentingrea...aby_03.jpg http://www.documentingrea...aby_04.jpg http://www.documentingrea...aby_07.jpg http://www.documentingrea...aby_09.jpg http://www.documentingrea...aby_10.jpg Seriously i hope this isnt messing up those kids 4 life... few more pics here: http://www.documentingrea...eeps-9496/ [even with the warning, I think links are in order - CarrieMpls] RIP 1958-2016 Prince RIP 1947-2016 David Bowie | |
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Sometimes when a person loses a child they need to see it and hold it for closure. That part I can sort of understand, but I do think the kids are too young to be a part of that. They aren't old/mature enough to understand what is going on. They don't need to see it. | |
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Thanx carrie for linking those pix | |
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hokie said: I do think the kids are too young to be a part of that. They aren't old/mature enough to understand what is going on. They don't need to see it.
I agree. [Edited 9/25/08 9:10am] I will love you forever and you will never be forgotten - L.A.F. | |
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to bad they didnt get a professional photographer to make some art out of the images | |
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maybe i dont understand, but to me that would be like taking photographs with a bowel movement. | |
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I had a friend who did this too. She even took it to a concert or so rumer has it. Yeah she was pretty fucked up. Christian Zombie Vampires | |
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I understand her need to mourn, but the kids should not be exposed to this.... Say it's just a dream...
U open up ur eyes and come 2 realize u simply imagined this So u lean over and give her a kiss Here on earth, here on earth, with u it's not so bad Here on earth, here on earth eye don't feel so sad Stay right here | |
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AWWWW C'mon seriously?????
I'm sorry but THAT is wrong, so very, very wrong. I can respect the whole grieving process but that is what a memorial service is for. You don't pass 'round the miscarried fetus and take pictures!!!! I'm sorry that had to happen to her but let's leave the children out of this... my day is gonna SUCK now... A working class Hero is something to be ~ Lennon | |
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Since this was based on religious beliefs, I really don't feel I have the right to judge this woman.
Everyone handles grief in their own way, and I have known many people who have lost a baby and took pics. Even tho the child is still a 'fetus' it's still someone's baby. I would have to agree the kids were to young to see that, but once again, I am not here to tell another how to raise their children. Some could look at our own lives and say...that was pretty messed up. So I am sorry this woman lost her child!! Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian | |
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Wow! I wonder what she told the kids. I see no problem in her keeping what was in her. Is she going to put in on display? That would be quite bizarre considering we don't do this with grown humans who die. We bury/cremate them. Is she going to start a new trend. And the little hat, don't know. Kind of spooked me a little. 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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RenHoek said: AWWWW C'mon seriously?????
I'm sorry but THAT is wrong, so very, very wrong. I can respect the whole grieving process but that is what a memorial service is for. You don't pass 'round the miscarried fetus and take pictures!!!! I'm sorry that had to happen to her but let's leave the children out of this... my day is gonna SUCK now... it reminds me of early photos where everyone obsessed with taking pictures of the macabre, funerals and such. | |
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The poor little mite
Poor family, to lose a child is terrible even at this early stage of life It looks almost big enough that there might have been hope that it would survive. I can fully understand her holding the little one and grieving but I agree that I wouldn't have included the children at this point though I would let them see pictures of their sibling when they're older. Oh and I don't understand letting pictures of such a private moment go on the internet. [Edited 9/25/08 11:56am] "Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"-Dr Seuss
Pain is something to carry, like a radio...You should stand up for your right to feel your pain- Jim Morrison | |
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and the one with the little pink knitted hat on the fetus, what in the hell!?
poor kids who were asked to pose with a fetus. | |
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i wonder what she could get for it on ebay | |
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I'm sorry but I am going to judge here and that is FUCKED UP.
It happens...don't pass it around to your children, see a shrink instead. Wait is this shit even real? Ugh. | |
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CarrieLee said: I'm sorry but I am going to judge here and that is FUCKED UP.
It happens...don't pass it around to your children, see a shrink instead. Wait is this shit even real? Ugh. Yeah, totally.. and why make a story about it? I will love you forever and you will never be forgotten - L.A.F. | |
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REDFEATHERS said: CarrieLee said: I'm sorry but I am going to judge here and that is FUCKED UP.
It happens...don't pass it around to your children, see a shrink instead. Wait is this shit even real? Ugh. Yeah, totally.. and why make a story about it? It's disturbing, gross and wrong. I didn't keep my brother at home when he died and pass him around to my family. Why was she even allowed to do this? | |
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CarrieLee said: REDFEATHERS said: Yeah, totally.. and why make a story about it? It's disturbing, gross and wrong. I didn't keep my brother at home when he died and pass him around to my family. Why was she even allowed to do this? Fuck knows.. and I dunno how the pics got published.. There are millions of people who have miscarriages in the world, but dont go parading it like that.. those kids are gonna be seriously fucked up.. some things just should be kept from children IMO I will love you forever and you will never be forgotten - L.A.F. | |
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REDFEATHERS said: CarrieLee said: It's disturbing, gross and wrong. I didn't keep my brother at home when he died and pass him around to my family. Why was she even allowed to do this? Fuck knows.. and I dunno how the pics got published.. There are millions of people who have miscarriages in the world, but dont go parading it like that.. those kids are gonna be seriously fucked up.. some things just should be kept from children IMO Exactly!!!! co-sign x a million shit like that gives kids nightmares, its not a freaking goldfish or hamster! | |
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paintedlady said: REDFEATHERS said: Fuck knows.. and I dunno how the pics got published.. There are millions of people who have miscarriages in the world, but dont go parading it like that.. those kids are gonna be seriously fucked up.. some things just should be kept from children IMO Exactly!!!! co-sign x a million shit like that gives kids nightmares, its not a freaking goldfish or hamster! I felt soo sorry for my friend who was house hunting at the time.. while viewing a house, she felt bad but had to ask to use tha bathroom, as something wasnt right, and she miscarried in the toilet.. I wonder how long this woman is keeping it for, and is she gonna dress it up? Dayum.. I will love you forever and you will never be forgotten - L.A.F. | |
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Why did she put a knit cap on that fetus? | |
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Shawnt25 said: Why did she put a knit cap on that fetus?
I will love you forever and you will never be forgotten - L.A.F. | |
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REDFEATHERS said: paintedlady said: Exactly!!!! co-sign x a million shit like that gives kids nightmares, its not a freaking goldfish or hamster! I felt soo sorry for my friend who was house hunting at the time.. while viewing a house, she felt bad but had to ask to use tha bathroom, as something wasnt right, and she miscarried in the toilet.. I wonder how long this woman is keeping it for, and is she gonna dress it up? Dayum.. That fetus looks at around the 5.5 month mark. I had a friend that miscarried a baby at age 40. It was her first pregnancy and she was told that she couldn't get pregnant. She ignored her body's warning signs (contractions, and spotting) and lost her baby in a bathroom of a shopping mall, she called me, going all ballistic screaming and crying trying to grab her baby out of a toilet. I got there as soon as I could, she was drenched in her own tears and crouching on a bathroom floor. We had to clean her (her mom was with her) and we made her flush the toilet. Lord she was an absolute mess. She never recovered from that. I have children, and I had to pull away for my own sanity. I still keep her in my thoughts and prayers. Some women that lose children like this just don't handle it well. They blame themselves in a harsh way. | |
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She may want to say goodbye but her children don't really need to and WHY take photos? oh mama I wish I could resist ... | |
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OK.....
I'm an ass. But all I can think of is.... Can someone get her some Proactiv? I'm an asshole I know. | |
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It's very sad,as any miscarriage is,but for her to have her children hold,and take pictures with the fetus is just wrong. Someone should have stepped in,and made sure this didn't occur. She should have had some sort of service,but not subjected her children to that. Music washes away from the soul the dust of everyday life. ~Berthold Auerbach | |
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They look so cute together Wer ist dort? Unterbrechende Kuh. Unterbrech... Muh!!! | |
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GaryTheNoTrashCougar said: They look so cute together
You're sick. | |
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hokie said: GaryTheNoTrashCougar said: They look so cute together
You're sick. Actually, she's the sick one. Pink beany? COME ON! It wasn't even from GAP Foetus. Wer ist dort? Unterbrechende Kuh. Unterbrech... Muh!!! | |
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