Personality is MORE important, but beauty/handsomeness is important too - it's a combination of both.

You can be fine as HELL, but if I can't talk to you???...

I have to be attracted to you in order for anything to jump off. Being funny & keeping my interest is imperative, but if I can't look @ you there's no way I'm fucking you...






[This message was edited Fri Nov 15 22:18:53 PST 2002 by CalhounSq]

That's so true Calhoun cause sometimes like I've said so Called Alphas or 10s think they don't need a personality cause they are just Beautiful. But does anybody really want an empty Shell with no Opinions and just a Puppet? I couldn't be bothered with such a stupid Person with nothing on the Ball.

Personality definetly.I believe television and movies have
clouded our perception of attraction.There are many shallow
people in this world and some don't know it.You know why people complain about their partners is because
they judged a book by its cover.

Just because it looks good doesn't mean it's good for you.I rather take the nerdy girl than the popular cheerleader any day.
[This message was edited Sat Nov 16 0:31:50 PST 2002 by Biscuit]

Paisley said:

Oooo... catfight!!!

00769BAD said:

You've got to be kidding :LOL:

my baby has a beautiful personality and a wonderful ass.

Define beauty. Each person has different attributes that one finds attractive, physical or not. So "beauty" really is in the eye of the beholder, is it not. However, personality lights the way, and darkness goes astray. In a word or two, personality far outweighs beauty. Unless you are looking for a one-night stand, then the one with the best body wins. lol

TongueBox said:

I think they mean what is physically appealing to your eyes.

Well, :I:'ve learned that with a nice piece of ass, comes promiscuity 4 awhile... then they get lonely, by that time, they can't find any1 because they have developed a rep. that says they can't B trusted.

With a good personality, U don't have that problem at all.

With a mix of both, it's heaven, but U don't really expect promiscuity 2 the extent of that of a woman/girl who is drop-dead gorgeous but drop-dead dumb.

Dre's the show will start via the website in Jan 2003

'dre

Personality is important to me see because men with beauty or to much for my kind like my daddy to much beauty can go to a persons head.

You know I LOVE YOU DADDY.

Someone with a bootyful personality.

one definatly determines the other


in most cases . . .


not all now

First of all, I'd like to mention that there are people out there who possess both qualities. They are beautiful AND have wonderful personalities. In other words, beauty and personality are not mutually exclusive.

That being said, if I have to choose, there's no contest.

The most important thing to me is what's in the of a person. Personality rules.

4LOVE said:

Who's got to be kidding about what?

R-r-r-r-r-r-reaooowr-r-r-r-r

I never believed my Grandmother when she said "beauty is as
beauty does" UNTIL I started teaching school children.

On the first day of school, some teens stood out because
they were strikingly beautiful! But in time, as their
personalities became manifest, everything changed. I mean
for real! Some of the ones I thought were really pretty
were not. I couldn't believe the transformations. It was
almost as if they became ugly...all their flaws (we all
have them) became exaggerated. At the same time, those
who first appeared regular or less, based on their
actions became, beautiful or handsome.
I used to remember my grandmother's words and smile.
She knew...she knew.

Of course, those who were beautiful inside and out remained
so and those who were unattractive inside and out became
hideous

SensualMelody said:

So true, sensualmelody! I have had that exact thing happen as well...

Without money they're both pretty much useless.

I'm not gonna beat around the bush or or try and give a sweet sentimental answer.

I'm in my mid 20s with a major sex drive.

I pursue sex more than I pursue new friends with stunning personalities.

I'm assuming that will change as I get older. But I have a major craving for beauty at this point in my life, till my hormones calm down.

I'd much rather be having sex with someone than an in depth conversation.
[This message was edited Sat Nov 16 13:20:18 PST 2002 by Tom]

00769BAD said:

Watch it now dont make me have 2 hurt u.

Tom said:

Do you think gay men are less "sweet" and "sentimental" than heterosexual men?

00769BAD said:

sometimes a good personality can make someone 'beautiful...' or extremely attractive at least...

rio said:

That's what I'm saying!

00769BAD said:

2the9s said:

So basically you're useless, then!

Natsume said:

I meant the other one
[This message was edited Sat Nov 16 20:28:44 PST 2002 by 2the9s]

2the9s said:

Mine is bigger

Natsume said:

But I have two!



Okay I'm not sure what that's supposed to mean...