bboy87 said:

That means nothing. Shit, Halle Berry & Liz Hurley got cheated on too. Maybe Lisa Raye's a high-maintenance pain-in-the-ass. I

uPtoWnNY said:

Which is what a lot of females (and some dudes) can't fathom. Thing is, most men cheat because THEY CAN. It's never really about finding someone finer than what you have at home, it's about the natural urge to fuck. Monogamy isn't "natural". That's a created concept and nowadays, monogamy is also a survival decision with all the diseases out there.

The thing is, if you ask every man if was accepted behavior to have many women with zero consequence would you partake in that, 99% of all men would say yes. That 1% thast says "No" is either pussy-whipped or trying to get brownie points with their broads LOL!

"Men are only as faithful as their options" - Tough pill to swallow, but for the most part it's true.

MuthaFunka said:

Tellin' it like it is.

uPtoWnNY said:

Most def.

MuthaFunka said:

My bad!

KatSkrizzle said:

It's cool.

"Ho-liciousness MUST be televised. Point em out, point em out." Oh damn Bank, I luv you, that sh*t was on point That may have to be my new sig

bboy87 said:

Lisa is nice looking but i always felt her ass was flawed.
I would say just too much damn attitude.
Maybe i'm in the minority but i would take rocsi(the young hot latina)
over a lady with tude on the downside of fine assedness.
Man i would flip and smack rocsi all night long dawg.

phunkdaddy said:

Consider this: It is the amount of "work" one has to do for the poon poon. I would imagine he didn't have to work hard for Rocsi. I mean, she is most likely a respectful woman, but the status is no Lisa Ray. She's just a TV host on a step child station to MTV (let's be real). No where near the work I would imagine he had to put in for Lisa. That's my theory. When men cheat, they don't work for it. They work for the wife.
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Stymie said:

No I ain't. I'm just sayng I know what it's like to be burned by a mothafucka, want to kick him in his throat wearing a stilletto boot, but have to fall on my knees and pray INSTEAD for ALL our sakes.

KatSkrizzle said:

Lisa Raye's status? What damn status? Her 15 minutes of fame in players club
and on all of us where it was clear that UPN cut out the more talented actress in Elise Neal. I mean damn she was an emcee in my hometown columbia, sc a few years back at a christmas party thrown by ex football player duce staley that generated little buzz. I mean lisa raye is straight don't get me wrong but i ain't given the bitch no damn island and i ain't going all out for no high class ghetto chick with a tude. I am not a fan of 106 & park or BET's programming but Rocsi has done quite well as host of the show. MTV may be a giant but they have some shitty ass programming just like BET. See Next and parental control, not to mention their monthly P.Diddy programming.

phunkdaddy said:

I don't think you understood me. An unknown VJ or an actress. I'm not even a Lisa Ray fan, but OK.

MuthaFunka said:

I saw her at the movies once. She's even prettier in person, thin, and kinda tall. Who knows how she is at home, but in the ladies room she seemed very pleasant and offer to hand me a paper towel when there weren't any near my sink. We were both touching up lip gloss .

....ah anyway, to hell with it. I'm biased about these kinda things. I'm rooting for the wife

Ottensen said:

Yeah, she is fine. I met her a film festival back in 2000 and she's fine up close.

phunkdaddy said:

phunkdaddy, you're disappointing me

her golddigging ass married him for money anyway. I remember when she first married him and she was featured in the JET and she was touching on the fact that it was so convenient marrying him and blah blah blah, but she never said nothing about love. so she just getting what's come to her.

missfee said:

I miss reading JET ....now how long have these two been married anyway? I wonder if I could find the article online....?

Ottensen said:

I think its only been about 2 years. Honestly, the whole thing was a sham in my opinion. He gained a trophy wife who could publicize Turks & Caicos (you know the tourism was boosted since she became "the first lady of Turks & Caicos" and has been featured on the tourist posters and websites) and she gained a man with status and money...who just so happened to continue his playboy status. Honestly, what did she expect?

missfee said:

I just came from reading a thread with one of your posts, and all I can say is, thank goodness they didn't have a reality show. Can you imagine what kinda spectacle this would have turned out to be? Umm, um,um, um

I wish I could find the thread where I predicted how long this marraige would last.

Ottensen said:

Well everybody thought that Russell Simmons and Kimora Lee would stay together forever, and it seemed as though as it could happen, but as soon as they were in a reality show.....boom there goes the divorce papers. I have to say though, she is one woman who has capitalized on her being married to such a mogul. If she hadn't married Russell, nobody would give a shit about who Kimora Lee is...just another former model.

missfee said:

Not me:

- Fine ass model chick = Married for money & fame.

- Super-paid media mogul = Married for fineness & pretty babies.

Recipe for divorce once everyone has gotten what they wanted out of the other person.

MuthaFunka said:

True!!!!! lol

MuthaFunka said:

But you forgot: He's "queer as a box of catfarts" + She was 16 and relatively inexperienced when he started dating her = The beard of all beards but that nucca STILL ain't foolin' nobody

SCNDLS said:

I don't know if he's gay, but maybe bi, though 8after a few kamikazes at an industry party, who isn't?) But yeah, that brotha ran up into ALOT of girls on the New York catwalk scene before he settled with Kimora. You know there's a lot of "sexytime" talk in motorhomes on photoshoots for ads and catalogs. Folks talk about friends,lovers, ect...it's all very matter of fact, very casual. things are diffrent now, you can't say much these days without being guarded because of cel phones and online tabloids...boys I don't know about, but with girls he definitely fucked every female from NEXT to WOMAN, even on down south to Irene Marie and Michelle Pommier.

Ottensen said:

You're right, Russy definitely made the rounds but I always saw that as a cover. The promiscuity always seemed very transparent and considering the stories my "boys" in the industry have told me I've always viewed him as being on the low-low. The lisp alone is a dead giveaway. . . j/k.

SCNDLS said:

Wasn't there a book about the powerful black men in hip hop and Hollywood being on the DL? I can't remember the dude who wrote it right now but I think he was on Wendy Williams.....and can somebody, for the LIFE of me, PLEASE explain what EXACTLY is the SWAGGER CLUB? That shit is spoken of in hushed tones in so many circles:-o

Ottensen said:

SCNDLS said:

oh, well, awwwww shit! You know trying to crack the details on that damn Swagger Club is harder than getting into the tomb of Skull & Bones

Ottensen said:

I think this is the book you're talking about http://www.hidinginhiphop.com/