Amaxx said:

if that is your pick up line

FAIL

ZombieKitten said:

Come 2 think of it! I've never had one! All it's ever been is ! Hi! How R U? & the smile did the rest! OMG I just made myself sick!

Amaxx said:

artpal said:

Go up and talk, show an interest in THEM, ask what they do, what they like, don't say anything too corny, and make them laugh.... quite simple really... Oh, and tell them they're beautiful!! However, if they don't fancy you straight off, you're probably stuffed no matter what!

JustErin said:

You're my hero.

ZombieKitten said:

I'm only impressed if he's hot. If he's not, he's harassing me!

PricelessHo said:

Let's make out.

JustErin said:

I'll watch.

JustErin said:

even a hot guy doing an obvious "move" suddenly becomes unattractive to me

once, long ago, this amazingly beautiful guy just started dancing with me and said "I bet I could have a really interesting conversation with you" and it didn't really seem like a pick-up line, but I lost him in the crowd shortly after so I never found out. Obviously "interesting" is code for mind-blowing and "conversation" means

JustErin said:

Get hammered. For two.

ZombieKitten said:

Hey ZombieKitten, are you telling me that you weren't swept off your feet by the dashing young hunk who asked you if you were from Tennessee? When you asked him why, he responded, "because you're the only ten I see."

BTW, are your legs tired? Because you've been runnin' around in my mind all day long!

Okay, seriously before I get fish-slapped, most guys don't know how to approach a really gorgeous woman because they get to starstruck by her beauty and tend to overthink their approach to her, which is why they come up looking really awkward in conversation. (Heck, this happens with reasonably attractive women as well.) What a lot of guys don't realize is that really beautiful women are hit on all the time, even when the people hitting on them aren't even aware of it, simply because they lavish more attention on the woman. While it may stroke the woman's ego by reminding her how attractive she is, she starts to get self-conscious and think that they only want her sexual purposes and that they think she has nothing else to offer other than her looks.

PricelessHo said:

Take me. Now.

JustErin said:

Get your kit off.

Mysterioso said:

Wow - the advice for men about approaching "beautiful" women is quite interesting. I am thinking of copying these posts to my website for a blog. I don't need to identify the authors or anything. So it will be anonymous. Does anyone mind if I copy it to my website? If you object just let me know and I'll leave it off.

I hope more people post advice! Thanks alot!

728huey said:

The best line I had was "want to come and see my cats"
they were really cute by the way - 2 black fluffy ones curled up together on an armchair.

ZombieKitten said:

Maybe he was a cunning linguist!

Anxiety said:

Thank you for that, Anx.

To be physically beautiful is powerful and when used to make people feel special and smile is the highest reward. It throws everyone off guard because a
beautiful person is perceived as snobbish, stuck up, etc. When you flash that smile, wave and say Good Morning,have a good day people relax and are blown away!

To be physically beautiful grant it has it's privileges, rewards and perks but like anything it gets old because at some point you want to be appreciated for your beautiful mind and not just the outer shell.You want to be respected.

It may take awhile for the same sex to let their guards down around you but once they see where you're coming from and see that you're not after their man then it's cool. It's too bad that the world only see's the physical beauty which we all know in time will fade. You can be fine as wine but if your personality and demeanor is wack people will notice that real fast.

Let's use our physical beauty to let our beautiful personality shine and when you do that you are a true stunna'. You become the total package, mind body and soul beautiful.

Can you feel me?

Thanks to the new responders!

Well, there doesn't seem to be any objections to copying posts to my website blogs. I will proceed to do so. Thanks!

artpal said:

I watched some of your documentary artpal, VERY interesting!!

PricelessHo said:

I say this...you gotta' work what you've got! I know that everybody has at least one thing they can show off. If you got some pretty legs...hey...nice eyes..then great! To each its own.

* Charm is deceitful and beauty is passing, But a woman who fear the Lord, she shall be praised. Proverbs 31:30

The Lord doesn't scare me.
[Edited 8/15/08 14:23pm]

an old man said to me today outside the supermarket
"good morning, you're looking mighty pretty today"

I was not frowning for a change

ZombieKitten said:

I don't know why you're so surprised.

Fritzy said:

I agree with your post 100%. A woman who fears The Lord shall be praised! It's not a literal fear, but one out of great respect and reverance for The Lord. He is our Creator, the maker of Heaven and Earth and the fullness thereof! He is Love and Beauty more beautiful then anything we have ever seen. He is Great, worthy and mighty! He is the Keeper Of Our Days! Praise The Lord!

Mysterioso said:

because in this country, people really keep to themselves

I've had the fortune and or perhaps ( as I see it) the great misfortune of being a 10 at times and a 2 at others. Quite frankly its a crock of crap. Perhaps no greater then any other crock we as humans uphold and pitch against others. Whichever a given individual feels they possess greatly they wield against the opposite. ( I.E. intellects wield against beauty's etc..)

To any end its such a colossal waste of time. People spend so much time competing because they feel a lack and need to justify it. What will it all matter when ones 60?

Sans teeth, sans eyes, sans taste, sans everything

ZombieKitten said:

Oh.