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Reply #30 posted 08/07/08 10:42pm

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superspaceboy said:

Won't make you gay, but it will decrease your IQ.

Maybe I am being too harsh but I found a few of the themes a bit much.

1)the WIll and Grace friendship and the dabbling that they were to be together.

2)The Will character was a bit too straight acting for me and totally unbelievable.


3) The Jack character was a bit too over the top gay acting for me and reminded me of a mammy character - sexless comic relief whose identity is a source of ridicule (but it's okay because, like, it's a GAY sitcom, right?).

i find it really weird that several television shows have well-rounded, very real and human characters who are lesbian, but whenever a gay male character is introduced, he always has to be some played-out stereotype. there are plenty of guys in the world with all kinds of personality characteristics who just so happen to be gay - but you wouldn't know that from watching television.


i agree with you 100%!
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Reply #31 posted 08/08/08 12:33am

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MIGUELGOMEZ said:

Yes.


Let's just say that I know people that are very similar to Jack, Grace and Will. I haven't run into a Karen yet. I WANT TO THOUGH.

I loved the show.
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I agree MIGUELGOMEZ. Will and Grace is my ULTIMATE FAVORITE
Television show of all time! I especially love Karen. AWESOME! lol
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Reply #32 posted 08/08/08 12:51am

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Will & Grace is horrid IMO. It's nothing but bland, stereotypical characters and weak storylines. Not to mention in the universe of W&G, being gay means really, really, really enjoying musical theatre. Anything to do with sex or relationships or homophobia or culture is neatly wiped aside or ignored.
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Reply #33 posted 08/08/08 5:16am

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Will & Grace is horrid IMO. It's nothing but bland, stereotypical characters and weak storylines. Not to mention in the universe of W&G, being gay means really, really, really enjoying musical theatre. Anything to do with sex or relationships or homophobia or culture is neatly wiped aside or ignored.

Hmmmmm, maybe cuz it's a situation comedy??? hmmm
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Reply #34 posted 08/08/08 6:16am

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Anxiety said:

superspaceboy said:

Won't make you gay, but it will decrease your IQ.

Maybe I am being too harsh but I found a few of the themes a bit much.

1)the WIll and Grace friendship and the dabbling that they were to be together.

2)The Will character was a bit too straight acting for me and totally unbelievable.


3) The Jack character was a bit too over the top gay acting for me and reminded me of a mammy character - sexless comic relief whose identity is a source of ridicule (but it's okay because, like, it's a GAY sitcom, right?).

i find it really weird that several television shows have well-rounded, very real and human characters who are lesbian, but whenever a gay male character is introduced, he always has to be some played-out stereotype. there are plenty of guys in the world with all kinds of personality characteristics who just so happen to be gay - but you wouldn't know that from watching television.



And here we have the dichotomy. We have one person thinking Will is too straight and another thinking Jack was too gay. (Which, I don't think Will was straight-acting at ALL. lol )

Let me say - I don't think this was a ground-breaking show furthering gay rights. But it was a fun little sitcom. And it always made me laugh. And having ANY gay characters, let alone title characters, on prime time at that time was a pretty big deal.

And as for having gay male characters that aren't a sterotype, I thought Six Feet Under did that beautifully. And I'm currently re-watching My So-Called Life and the watching the character of Ricky struggle with coming out and not fitting in, while maybe somewhat stereotypical, is handled with warmth and is incredibly poignant. I KNEW that guy in high school. Didn't we all?
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Reply #35 posted 08/08/08 8:13am

SirPsycho

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NO Will & Grace is not accute.

Will and Grace are mom and dad

jack and karen are the kids

it's a traditional family sitcom change the roles alterated a bti.

the sexuality of both will and jack is so one deminsonal and an afterthought.


hmmm interesting...
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Reply #36 posted 08/08/08 8:17am

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SirPsycho said:

ehuffnsd said:

NO Will & Grace is not accute.

Will and Grace are mom and dad

jack and karen are the kids

it's a traditional family sitcom change the roles alterated a bti.

the sexuality of both will and jack is so one deminsonal and an afterthought.


hmmm interesting...

it was great for bringing gay people on to tv i guess, but it created a phenomenon where all straight women feel they need a pet gay, and only focused on the affairs of grace.

the 3rd and 4th seasons of Queer as Folk or Bothers and Sisters is light years better.
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Reply #37 posted 08/08/08 8:24am

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hmmm interesting...

it was great for bringing gay people on to tv i guess, but it created a phenomenon where all straight women feel they need a pet gay, and only focused on the affairs of grace.

the 3rd and 4th seasons of Queer as Folk or Bothers and Sisters is light years better.


yeah...he did come off as Grace's sidekick/fallback guy alot
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Reply #38 posted 08/08/08 10:00am

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Anxiety said:

superspaceboy said:

Won't make you gay, but it will decrease your IQ.

Maybe I am being too harsh but I found a few of the themes a bit much.

1)the WIll and Grace friendship and the dabbling that they were to be together.

2)The Will character was a bit too straight acting for me and totally unbelievable.


3) The Jack character was a bit too over the top gay acting for me and reminded me of a mammy character - sexless comic relief whose identity is a source of ridicule (but it's okay because, like, it's a GAY sitcom, right?).

i find it really weird that several television shows have well-rounded, very real and human characters who are lesbian, but whenever a gay male character is introduced, he always has to be some played-out stereotype. there are plenty of guys in the world with all kinds of personality characteristics who just so happen to be gay - but you wouldn't know that from watching television.


Two TV shows I applaud how the gay characters were handled..

Desperate Housewives had two new characters that were a gay couple. The strike messed up the storyline and they became an afterthought. Not even sure they will be on the show for next season. For the time they were there, they seemed more like people I knew then being super stereo typical.

Also Reaper had a gay couple that turned out to be demons, but they were handled with respect. Part of the plot was that one of the main characters Sock (think Jack Black) LOVED all of the cooking they could do and didn't care that they were demons. The way they were depicted was very cool and like I said with respect. When one of them dies, it is also very touching.

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Reply #39 posted 08/08/08 10:49am

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Will & Grace is horrid IMO. It's nothing but bland, stereotypical characters and weak storylines. Not to mention in the universe of W&G, being gay means really, really, really enjoying musical theatre. Anything to do with sex or relationships or homophobia or culture is neatly wiped aside or ignored.


It's a situation comedy and I personally don't agree.
I didn't find it horrid in any way whatsoever. It was
ACE! Such talented portrayals of the characters-especially
Karen-lol. lol










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Reply #40 posted 08/08/08 12:27pm

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SCNDLS said:

meow85 said:

Will & Grace is horrid IMO. It's nothing but bland, stereotypical characters and weak storylines. Not to mention in the universe of W&G, being gay means really, really, really enjoying musical theatre. Anything to do with sex or relationships or homophobia or culture is neatly wiped aside or ignored.

Hmmmmm, maybe cuz it's a situation comedy??? hmmm

Can you think of any other sitcoms with characters basically performing a modern day minstrel show? Because that's what this is IMO.

Instead of shucking and jiving they're screeching and twinkling. confused
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Reply #41 posted 08/08/08 12:36pm

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meow85 said:

SCNDLS said:


Hmmmmm, maybe cuz it's a situation comedy??? hmmm

Can you think of any other sitcoms with characters basically performing a modern day minstrel show? Because that's what this is IMO.

Instead of shucking and jiving they're screeching and twinkling. confused
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Yeah, actually lots, just about anything on the WB with black folks on it. I loved Will & Grace and I don't see all the negativity in it that others do. But that's why there's programming for everybody. If you don't like it, don't watch. shrug
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Reply #42 posted 08/08/08 12:39pm

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SCNDLS said:

meow85 said:


Can you think of any other sitcoms with characters basically performing a modern day minstrel show? Because that's what this is IMO.

Instead of shucking and jiving they're screeching and twinkling. confused
[Edited 8/8/08 12:28pm]

Yeah, actually lots, just about anything on the WB with black folks on it. I loved Will & Grace and I don't see all the negativity in it that others do. But that's why there's programming for everybody. If you don't like it, don't watch. shrug

And I didn't. I tried out a few episodes to give it a fair shot. Originally, I was very excited about a show with a title gay character. It'd been a few years since Ellen, and as I recall her show didn't last long after she came out.

I have no idea what's on the WB. I've never had a cable package that includes it. Surely though if the programme you're referring to was big enough I'd ahve heard of it anyways though. I never saw The Sopranos since I don't get HBO, but I know the whole damn story arc, it was so ubiquitous.
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Reply #43 posted 08/08/08 12:43pm

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SCNDLS said:


Yeah, actually lots, just about anything on the WB with black folks on it. I loved Will & Grace and I don't see all the negativity in it that others do. But that's why there's programming for everybody. If you don't like it, don't watch. shrug

And I didn't. I tried out a few episodes to give it a fair shot. Originally, I was very excited about a show with a title gay character. It'd been a few years since Ellen, and as I recall her show didn't last long after she came out.

I have no idea what's on the WB. I've never had a cable package that includes it. Surely though if the programme you're referring to was big enough I'd ahve heard of it anyways though. I never saw The Sopranos since I don't get HBO, but I know the whole damn story arc, it was so ubiquitous.

WB isn't a cable channel, but just about every show featuring black characters on network tv is definitely a bit of a minstrel show. shrug
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Reply #44 posted 08/08/08 12:54pm

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SCNDLS said:

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And I didn't. I tried out a few episodes to give it a fair shot. Originally, I was very excited about a show with a title gay character. It'd been a few years since Ellen, and as I recall her show didn't last long after she came out.

I have no idea what's on the WB. I've never had a cable package that includes it. Surely though if the programme you're referring to was big enough I'd ahve heard of it anyways though. I never saw The Sopranos since I don't get HBO, but I know the whole damn story arc, it was so ubiquitous.

WB isn't a cable channel, but just about every show featuring black characters on network tv is definitely a bit of a minstrel show. shrug

Certain cable packages up here offer channels like that, but I'm not willing to pay the extra.

Something like WB or HBO only reaches a limited audience because it's not cable, but a network show like Will & Grace can reach just about everyone who owns a TV. The bigger the audience, the more potential for damage.
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Reply #45 posted 08/08/08 1:03pm

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SCNDLS said:

meow85 said:


Can you think of any other sitcoms with characters basically performing a modern day minstrel show? Because that's what this is IMO.

Instead of shucking and jiving they're screeching and twinkling. confused
[Edited 8/8/08 12:28pm]

Yeah, actually lots, just about anything on the WB with black folks on it. I loved Will & Grace and I don't see all the negativity in it that others do. But that's why there's programming for everybody. If you don't like it, don't watch. shrug

i have to agree with meow... at the time the Queer community was just happy to have something postive on tv, but looking back the characters are total one dimensional sterotypes. the straightlaces and totally lacking any love life overworked Will and the flamboyant, sexless and loveless relationships and totally witty jack.

there is no depth to their sexuality and only comes up to be part of some joke.
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Reply #46 posted 08/08/08 1:22pm

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CarrieMpls said:

Anxiety said:



3) The Jack character was a bit too over the top gay acting for me and reminded me of a mammy character - sexless comic relief whose identity is a source of ridicule (but it's okay because, like, it's a GAY sitcom, right?).

i find it really weird that several television shows have well-rounded, very real and human characters who are lesbian, but whenever a gay male character is introduced, he always has to be some played-out stereotype. there are plenty of guys in the world with all kinds of personality characteristics who just so happen to be gay - but you wouldn't know that from watching television.



And here we have the dichotomy. We have one person thinking Will is too straight and another thinking Jack was too gay. (Which, I don't think Will was straight-acting at ALL. lol )

Let me say - I don't think this was a ground-breaking show furthering gay rights. But it was a fun little sitcom. And it always made me laugh. And having ANY gay characters, let alone title characters, on prime time at that time was a pretty big deal.

And as for having gay male characters that aren't a sterotype, I thought Six Feet Under did that beautifully. And I'm currently re-watching My So-Called Life and the watching the character of Ricky struggle with coming out and not fitting in, while maybe somewhat stereotypical, is handled with warmth and is incredibly poignant. I KNEW that guy in high school. Didn't we all?
I agree, these are exceptions. But they do exist.


Does anyone remember Michael Boatman's character on Spin City? What did you think of him?

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Reply #47 posted 08/08/08 1:26pm

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ehuffnsd said:

SCNDLS said:


Yeah, actually lots, just about anything on the WB with black folks on it. I loved Will & Grace and I don't see all the negativity in it that others do. But that's why there's programming for everybody. If you don't like it, don't watch. shrug

i have to agree with meow... at the time the Queer community was just happy to have something postive on tv, but looking back the characters are total one dimensional sterotypes. the straightlaces and totally lacking any love life overworked Will and the flamboyant, sexless and loveless relationships and totally witty jack.

there is no depth to their sexuality and only comes up to be part of some joke.


nod

The general idea seemed to be that TEH GHEYS are okay as long as they're shopping or dancing or shrieking or making out with women, but they better not do anything, ya know, actually gay like have relationships with other men. Someone else called Jack a mammy character, and I'd say that's not far off but I'd include Will too. Sexless and affable and always in deference to the hetero characters? Yup.
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Reply #48 posted 08/08/08 2:15pm

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Some1 once asked me "Does 'Will and Grace' accurately reflect gay lifestyle"?

I answered: "If there was only 1 type of gay lifestyle, I could tell U".

I liked it, but didn't look 2 it 2 give any1 an accurate take on gay folks. My major beef with the show was in the final few seasons, it stopped being funny. The characters bcame over the top impressions of themselves and the storylines were so flimsy (because they'd done every story the could think of around GRACE), rather than possibly un-neuter Will, they could only bring on guest star, after guest star, after guest star,...
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Reply #49 posted 08/08/08 2:58pm

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I actually dreamt about Will & Grace last night. I just remembered after the thread title.

Prince was guesting on the show in my dream. He was trying out for a job at Karen Walker's, as a butler or something, but he arrived in full make-up and hig heels and she was not amused.

She called the agency that sent him and while you could not hear what was being said on the other side; she went "HOW many positions in a one night stand?"

Alas, then I woke up, probably because of the tape with audience laughter.
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Reply #50 posted 08/08/08 4:08pm

Mara

Yes, I do know people who are similar to characters on that show, but then again I also have 8 million other examples of people who are much different.

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Reply #51 posted 08/09/08 11:41am

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Does anyone remember Michael Boatman's character on Spin City? What did you think of him?



Carter Heywood, in my estimation, was a breakthrough black gay male character. He was comfortable with his blackness (an aspect which a lot of gays -- regardless of race, even black gays -- aren't fully exposed to), masculine yet sensitive, wasn't hypereffeminate or hypermasculine (not saying that's bad, however, if that's the only image you see... you get where I'm going), educated, professional, wasn't a fall guy, could stand on his own two feet and wasn't asexual like Jack or Will and had depth. Carter's lovelife was fully displayed on the show and was an important part of the storyline. Plus, his best friend, and roommate, was a white heterosexual man, he wasn't made to feel special or ghettoized like Jack -- and you could see the dynamic of a gay person interacting with "everyday" straight people and not having gayness come into the picture.

Also Spin City wasn't afraid to deal with homophobia as it relates to the combined issues of race and sexual orientation.

Bottomline, Carter came across as an individual.

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Reply #52 posted 08/09/08 11:41am

Mara

sextonseven said:


Does anyone remember Michael Boatman's character on Spin City? What did you think of him?



Carter Heywood, in my estimation, was a breakthrough black gay male character. He was comfortable with his blackness (an aspect which a lot of gays -- regardless of race, even black gays -- aren't fully exposed to), masculine yet sensitive, wasn't hypereffeminate or hypermasculine (not saying that's bad, however, if that's the only image you see... you get where I'm going), educated, professional, wasn't a fall guy, could stand on his own two feet and wasn't asexual like Jack or Will and had depth. Carter's lovelife was fully displayed on the show and was an important part of the storyline. Plus, his best friend, and roommate, was a white heterosexual man, he wasn't made to feel special or ghettoized like Jack -- and you could see the dynamic of a gay person interacting with "everyday" straight people and not having gayness come into the picture.

Also Spin City wasn't afraid to deal with homophobia as it relates to the combined issues of race and sexual orientation.

Bottomline, Carter came across as an individual.

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Reply #53 posted 08/10/08 12:14am

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Mara said:

sextonseven said:


Does anyone remember Michael Boatman's character on Spin City? What did you think of him?



Carter Heywood, in my estimation, was a breakthrough black gay male character. He was comfortable with his blackness (an aspect which a lot of gays -- regardless of race, even black gays -- aren't fully exposed to), masculine yet sensitive, wasn't hypereffeminate or hypermasculine (not saying that's bad, however, if that's the only image you see... you get where I'm going), educated, professional, wasn't a fall guy, could stand on his own two feet and wasn't asexual like Jack or Will and had depth. Carter's lovelife was fully displayed on the show and was an important part of the storyline. Plus, his best friend, and roommate, was a white heterosexual man, he wasn't made to feel special or ghettoized like Jack -- and you could see the dynamic of a gay person interacting with "everyday" straight people and not having gayness come into the picture.

Also Spin City wasn't afraid to deal with homophobia as it relates to the combined issues of race and sexual orientation.

Bottomline, Carter came across as an individual.

...
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I never had much chance to watch Spin City when it was on. Thanks for the reminder of this great character. thumbs up!
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Reply #54 posted 08/11/08 11:02am

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meow85 said:

Mara said:



Carter Heywood, in my estimation, was a breakthrough black gay male character. He was comfortable with his blackness (an aspect which a lot of gays -- regardless of race, even black gays -- aren't fully exposed to), masculine yet sensitive, wasn't hypereffeminate or hypermasculine (not saying that's bad, however, if that's the only image you see... you get where I'm going), educated, professional, wasn't a fall guy, could stand on his own two feet and wasn't asexual like Jack or Will and had depth. Carter's lovelife was fully displayed on the show and was an important part of the storyline. Plus, his best friend, and roommate, was a white heterosexual man, he wasn't made to feel special or ghettoized like Jack -- and you could see the dynamic of a gay person interacting with "everyday" straight people and not having gayness come into the picture.

Also Spin City wasn't afraid to deal with homophobia as it relates to the combined issues of race and sexual orientation.

Bottomline, Carter came across as an individual.

...
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I never had much chance to watch Spin City when it was on. Thanks for the reminder of this great character. thumbs up!


Hey there, glad you responded. Here's some brief clips from the show that sum up my thoughts on Carter's character in relation to the show.

Episode: "Kiss Me, Stupid." The basic plot: Luke Perry guest-stars as Spence, Carter's ex-boyfriend who has subsequently fallen in love with a woman. Carter ropes Mike into a plot to make Spence jealous and remind him of what he's missing out on. Includes the infamous kiss.

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Reply #55 posted 08/11/08 11:40am

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MIGUELGOMEZ said:

Yes.


Let's just say that I know people that are very similar to Jack, Grace and Will. I haven't run into a Karen yet. I WANT TO THOUGH.

I loved the show.


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Reply #56 posted 08/11/08 12:23pm

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MIGUELGOMEZ said:

Yes.


Let's just say that I know people that are very similar to Jack, Grace and Will. I haven't run into a Karen yet. I WANT TO THOUGH.

I loved the show.


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