I do know of one guy who used to say no to his wife all the time ..and they would argue about it ..(she was a friend of mine from high school) ..he told her he just had a lower sex drive .....
Then he had an affair with their neighbour

Ocean said:

I was once in a relationship like that and it destroyed me inside

mdiver said:

How big a part was that in the relationships demise hun?

Ocean said:

you're going soft
[Edited 8/6/08 4:01am]

Byron said:

they are both actually Kylie

All that Amaxx said

and yes ... it breaks you down but as long as there's little holes in the black plastic bag that's taped over my head I can breathe, right ?

ZombieKitten said:

U weren't suppose to notice that

ZombieKitten said:

I'm a hard woman .."I just washed the god damn sheets and don't think of looking at me sideways"

BlueZebra said:

JustErin said:

Damn.

Seriously.

Ocean said:

clean sheets is best excuse to in my opinion!

SirPsycho said:

Just fuck a goat, cowboy.

However i appear to have now hit he jackpot
[Edited 8/9/08 3:35am]

Ocean said:

I tend to approach it different ways depending on my mood. Some times it can be conveyed by a look, some times I will leave a post it note that says "I am upstairs in the bedroom, if you care to join me", some times I just take control of the situations...some times I take the subtle approach some times I just take what I want/need at that moment.

It helps when you are with someone that understands your signals when you are being subtle and someone you can just turn to and say, "I want you NOW!".

If we're at home i'll just sit in his lap and whisper nasty stuff in his ear.
Or if we're out in public or in the car, i'll grab his crotch. That means we gotta hurry home.


He either tells me he wants it or he'll start singing 'when the saints go marchin' in"

DanceWme said:

or you chase his ass around the house with a lit candle.
I can still see you doing that and it cracks me up.

shanti0608 said:

omg

Byron said:

no wait..this is moreso like...if the morning after and a couple of people are in the house, and we're on our sides (as if cuddled one behind the other) only a blanket is covering us from our armpits down..


i mean, i've guessed other people have known too, but if they have they never said nothin

FunkMistress said:

is it really that much fun?

How much fiber are they consuming? It's important to forming my response.

ZombieKitten said:

I think I speak for most of the straight men here....we fucking hate your husband....

Amaxx is right on... (I can't believe I am saying that... )

I spent a lot of my twenties and "early" thirties basically begging and being rejected... it made for some serious problems...lots of resentment on both parts...me for being turned away by my spouse..and her for me getting pissed off for not getting any... I'm over it now...

pardonme4livin said:

Hate to say it but both you and your wife deserve more than that. It is no way to live.

shanti0608 said:

I want you NOW

mdiver said:

You are on the phone with someone...Ass!




You know I am right though.

shanti0608 said:

You said that would work!

mdiver said:

Typical man...not paying attention to details...

I was talking about me saying it, not you.
Nice try though.

shanti0608 said:

You want me to beg dont you?

mdiver said:

Later, when I am feeling better.


No one wants to hear about us org couples sex lives....they only want to hear when we are unhappy and pissed, remember???

shanti0608 said: