Amaxx said: Ocean said: ok u asked for it ....do u think it would cause a bigger enough problem that the two of u would seperate .....or is it only a very small part of the relationship that u can deal with Regardless of how big a part it is, I try 2 look at the big picture. We're fairly compatible in all areas except that! For the moment I'm sucking it up, so by the time it becomes 2 much of an issue, I'll probably B impotent! So problem solved! Such the optomist psst u know theres pills for that | |
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He says "how about a root"
I just pull my top off or bend over with a short skirt on or leave him a note in the kitchen that says meet me in the bedroom or something (has to be in code now the kids can read ) etc etc simple! | |
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ZombieKitten said: He says "how about a root"
I just pull my top off or bend over with a short skirt on or leave him a note in the kitchen that says meet me in the bedroom or something (has to be in code now the kids can read ) etc etc simple! lol ..... Now u know what to do tonight then Ms | |
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Ocean said: Amaxx said: Regardless of how big a part it is, I try 2 look at the big picture. We're fairly compatible in all areas except that! For the moment I'm sucking it up, so by the time it becomes 2 much of an issue, I'll probably B impotent! So problem solved! Such the optomist psst u know theres pills for that Why prolong the agony????? | |
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ZombieKitten said: He says "how about a root"
I just pull my top off or bend over with a short skirt on or leave him a note in the kitchen that says meet me in the bedroom or something (has to be in code now the kids can read ) etc etc simple! Nice work if U can get it! | |
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Byron said: I usually let her make the first move lol ...My ex-wife used to tell me that she wished I initiated things more often ...
But when I have, it usually started a looong time before the actual act itself. Just lots of hugs, spontaneous kisses, back and shoulder rubs, surprise phone calls, shtuff like that there. Usually if a woman is already feeling loved, appreciated and valued, when the touches start to slowly become more intimate she's far more receptive to letting it go further. It also helps to gracefully accept when she doesn't want it to go further, and not withdraw or anything...show her that it's more than fine with you if there's no sex at that moment, but that you still love holding her and cuddling, that it wasn't all just to get sex but because you do love her. nothing turns me on more than HIS desire for me, so it is actually rare that I initiate | |
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Ocean said: ZombieKitten said: He says "how about a root"
I just pull my top off or bend over with a short skirt on or leave him a note in the kitchen that says meet me in the bedroom or something (has to be in code now the kids can read ) etc etc simple! lol ..... Now u know what to do tonight then Ms I'm washing my hair tonight | |
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He goes all or I go all
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ZombieKitten said: Byron said: I usually let her make the first move lol ...My ex-wife used to tell me that she wished I initiated things more often ...
But when I have, it usually started a looong time before the actual act itself. Just lots of hugs, spontaneous kisses, back and shoulder rubs, surprise phone calls, shtuff like that there. Usually if a woman is already feeling loved, appreciated and valued, when the touches start to slowly become more intimate she's far more receptive to letting it go further. It also helps to gracefully accept when she doesn't want it to go further, and not withdraw or anything...show her that it's more than fine with you if there's no sex at that moment, but that you still love holding her and cuddling, that it wasn't all just to get sex but because you do love her. nothing turns me on more than HIS desire for me, so it is actually rare that I initiate Hmm..we'd never have sex, then, would we lol ... I actually do initiate when I'm in a relationship that has love, connection and passion...my marriage, unfortunately, didn't really have any of that. | |
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ZombieKitten said: Ocean said: lol ..... Now u know what to do tonight then Ms I'm washing my hair tonight | |
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Another friend of mine tells her husband no sex on clean sheet night ...I was like wtf ....and she quite seriously said ...if I have just changed the sheets ..we are not having sex..... then again looking at him and knowing him ...I would be changing the sheets everyday | |
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ZombieKitten said: Ocean said: lol ..... Now u know what to do tonight then Ms I'm washing my hair tonight Oh that is Harsh! | |
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Ocean said: Another friend of mine tells her husband no sex on clean sheet night ...I was like wtf ....and she quite seriously said ...if I have just changed the sheets ..we are not having sex..... then again looking at him and knowing him ...I would be changing the sheets everyday
Next she'll be saying "It's just too windy out for sex" lol ... | |
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Ocean said: Another friend of mine tells her husband no sex on clean sheet night ...I was like wtf ....and she quite seriously said ...if I have just changed the sheets ..we are not having sex..... then again looking at him and knowing him ...I would be changing the sheets everyday
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By the way, who ARE these friends, Kylie? lol ...Orgnote me their names, I'm sure I've heard of at least a few of them | |
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Byron said: Ocean said: Another friend of mine tells her husband no sex on clean sheet night ...I was like wtf ....and she quite seriously said ...if I have just changed the sheets ..we are not having sex..... then again looking at him and knowing him ...I would be changing the sheets everyday
Next she'll be saying "It's just too windy out for sex" lol ... | |
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Byron said: By the way, who ARE these friends, Kylie? lol ...Orgnote me their names, I'm sure I've heard of at least a few of them
u would have heard of both of them...org note coming | |
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Ocean said: Byron said: By the way, who ARE these friends, Kylie? lol ...Orgnote me their names, I'm sure I've heard of at least a few of them
u would have heard of both of them...org note coming Heh...yeah, I thought as much lol | |
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she tells me to pull me dick out and put it inside her (given i haven't done so already) | |
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SirPsycho said: she tells me to pull me dick out and put it inside her (given i haven't done so already)
Straight to the point | |
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Ocean said: SirPsycho said: she tells me to pull me dick out and put it inside her (given i haven't done so already)
Straight to the point yep we're kinda bad...we've had sex under a blanket while other people are in the room multiple times | |
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SirPsycho said: Ocean said: Straight to the point yep we're kinda bad...we've had sex under a blanket while other people are in the room multiple times | |
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Ocean said: SirPsycho said: yep we're kinda bad...we've had sex under a blanket while other people are in the room multiple times it's fun! we'll be like layin under the cover, and every time the person turns their head we go at it...and when they turn back we freeze! kinda like a much more dirty and adult version of red light green light | |
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SirPsycho said: Ocean said: it's fun! we'll be like layin under the cover, and every time the person turns their head we go at it...and when they turn back we freeze! kinda like a much more dirty and adult version of red light green light Now thats a whole new thread!! lol | |
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Ocean said: SirPsycho said: it's fun! we'll be like layin under the cover, and every time the person turns their head we go at it...and when they turn back we freeze! kinda like a much more dirty and adult version of red light green light Now thats a whole new thread!! lol yeah... (on second thought tho, i'm gonna be really sad when there's no more sexual taboos left to explore and i'm only 34 ) | |
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SirPsycho said: Ocean said: Now thats a whole new thread!! lol yeah... (on second thought tho, i'm gonna be really sad when there's no more sexual taboos left to explore and i'm only 34 ) Im sure u could invent a few more | |
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SirPsycho said: Ocean said: it's fun! we'll be like layin under the cover, and every time the person turns their head we go at it...and when they turn back we freeze! kinda like a much more dirty and adult version of red light green light and they never realize whats going on under the covers??? Rhythm floods my heart♥The melody it feeds my soul | |
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veronikka said: SirPsycho said: it's fun! we'll be like layin under the cover, and every time the person turns their head we go at it...and when they turn back we freeze! kinda like a much more dirty and adult version of red light green light and they never realize whats going on under the covers??? I'm not sure what kind of sex they're having, but I think I'd notice if one person was laying on top of another person, covers or not lol ... | |
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