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By Dr. Laura Berman Provided by: The Berman Center

The Art of Intimacy

3 Signs That Your Man is Cheating Posted Mon, Jul 28, 2008, 11:30 am PDT

How do you know if you are dating a cheater? You don't need to be a private eye to suss out these warning signs:

1. Revived Interest in Appearance: If your partner suddenly undergoes a makeover of sorts, in which he spends much more time on his appearance, it could mean that he is trying to impress someone new. If he all of the sudden ditches his old khakis and sweats for something more stylish, it might be because he is trying to look his best for a new woman.

2. Missing in Action: If there are large periods in which your partner is absent and unaccounted for, it could be because there are mischievous motives behind his AWOL behavior. Whether it is a run to the corner store that takes over an hour, or whether he is constantly "working late," a missing husband could mean something sinister.

3. Mysterious Texts or Phone Calls: If you notice mysterious texts or phone calls on your phone bill, or if your husband tries to hide the phone bill or his cell phone from you, it might mean that there is a new love interest in the rafters. Additionally, if he spends more time on the computer, or tries to hide the screen he was looking at when you walk in the room, this is a good indicator that he might be philandering via the worldwide web.

Of course, the best way to discover what your partner is up to behind your back is to communicate openly and honestly with him. Share your fears regarding his fidelity and try to discuss the matter before you go crazy with worry. Remember, things are not always as they seem!

If you discover that your partner has been unfaithful, find out how to Repair After an Affair.

Janfriend said:

damn, he's definitely not

or what they try to say is : we compiled this list of utter BS because it's been a while since our center has been in the news. We know communication is the only thing to eliminate misunderstandings before they grow, but hey ... a little speculation and food for speculation with our friends is so much more worth it. It won't hurt anyone ... I'm sure ... right ? riiggght !!

1. the title (it might as well be the lady that's cheating ...)
2. misuse of authority (her title as Dr. insinuates that she knows what she's talking about.
3. all reasons might as well have totally different reasons for occuring.

All in all, here's the remedies:

1. hide shaving gear and toothbrushes, only provide soap once every three days.
2. buy a GPS locator and let your hubby submit a travel plan BEFORE leaving the house.
3. Under no circumstances let your hubby get hold of a cellphone or any other communications device. It is bad for your relationship. You are the spokesperson for the family, all communication goes through you.

Yeah, for some reason I think this shit is as fucked up as it can get.

Who wrote this piece, Captain Obvious?

BlueZebra said:

why so defensive you hiding something?!

ZombieKitten said:

no seriously ... I think you should never ever use your authority to tell people bullshit just for the sake of it. It's just ethical behaviour

tell me you didn't know these things ?? tell me you don't check the inbox of his cellphone every night

BlueZebra said:

I couldn't care less
he better not be checking my orgnotes though