ur partner, wife, husband approach u when they want sex...is it a look ....touch....asking for it ...
And how do u approach them when u want it.....
I girlfriend of mine told me on the weekend that her husband is getting none right now...as she is not in the mood since she had her baby (hes 7 months now ) but she said she can always tell when he wants it by the way he gives her a goofy look and she knows to be all of a sudden very busy with something else

Poor husband.

JustErin said:

Yeah shes pretty hard on him ....in more ways than that lol .....
U could say she wears the pants in that relationship

She gets an orgnote.

As for your friend, I kinda hope the next signal he gives is calling up some trim on his cell.

considering i have none of the above. they don't.

Mars23 said:

An org note to come over? Or an org note for org sex
He won't do that...hes to lovely and devoted to her

baroque said:

Previous relationship?

Ocean said:

An orgnote to renew my stalking of her. I get no action.

Mars23 said:

Ocean said:

nada.

I get down on my knees with hands clasped tightly & say "Please! Please! Please!" Only 2 get knocked back!

Amaxx said:

awww

baroque said:

Ocean said:

Such is life!

ok another question...for those that keep getting told not now.. ...wouldn't it be really hard on ur ego/the relationship to get rejection all the time

Ocean said:

Absofuckinglutely!

Amaxx said:

Ocean said:

What can U do!

Amaxx said:

Tell her how it makes u feel

Ocean said:

Been there! Done that! I've learnt 2 make do without!

baroque said:

same here

Amaxx said:

Does she just have a lower sex drive hun ....and does she try? ...um if thats to personal then u can tell me to shut up

Actually another guy on here has told me his wife ALWAYS says no ....it really hurts him ...makes him feel unattractive and unloved

I usually let her make the first move lol ...My ex-wife used to tell me that she wished I initiated things more often ...

But when I have, it usually started a looong time before the actual act itself. Just lots of hugs, spontaneous kisses, back and shoulder rubs, surprise phone calls, shtuff like that there. Usually if a woman is already feeling loved, appreciated and valued, when the touches start to slowly become more intimate she's far more receptive to letting it go further. It also helps to gracefully accept when she doesn't want it to go further, and not withdraw or anything...show her that it's more than fine with you if there's no sex at that moment, but that you still love holding her and cuddling, that it wasn't all just to get sex but because you do love her.

Byron said:

exactly ...if the only time u hug or kiss her is when u want sex .....it can feel like its not because u love and value her (or him ..although Im not sure many guys would care if all hugs and kisses lead to sex )

Ocean said:

I suppose!.....Not really!.....Keep on jabbering!

Ocean said:

...No, I doubt too many men would be bothered by that lol ...

Amaxx said:

ok u asked for it ....do u think it would cause a bigger enough problem that the two of u would seperate .....or is it only a very small part of the relationship that u can deal with

Byron said:

Ocean said:

Regardless of how big a part it is, I try 2 look at the big picture. We're fairly compatible in all areas except that! For the moment I'm sucking it up, so by the time it becomes 2 much of an issue, I'll probably B impotent! So problem solved!