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Reply #90 posted 07/11/08 2:23pm

JessieJ

pardonme4livin said:

JessieJ said:


You shut it! mad I'll do whatever I want biggrin I agree with Kylie mr.green


lol falloff I have a great visual of you saying this to me... too funny....

Is my hand on my hip and is my neck moving all over the place? 'Cause that's what I'd be doing lol And my eyes would be all "hmm" .... biggrin
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Reply #91 posted 07/11/08 4:36pm

applekisses

Ocean said:

applekisses said:

And, Kylie, you've never looked slutty - you always look very stylish and beautiful. smile

Thank u love hug


hug You're welcome, honey. smile
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Reply #92 posted 07/11/08 4:52pm

Byron

pardonme4livin said:

Why don't you ask the REAL question Kylie...? lol

What she really wants to know is, why do guys who find-->date-->marry a woman who dresses sexy...then "politely" ask that they no longer dress as provacatively as they once did....?

The answer is this....(WARNING!!!! Broad statement alert!)...women dress sexy,get their hair and nails did and generally throw their mack down (referred to hereafter as "fluff" ) to attract a mate....as do WE men....once this is accomplished, what is the point in continuing with ALL of the fluff...?

It appears as though you are still looking for the same feedback and are STILL searching for a mate....

Now we still like you to stay in shape, hair and nails still done...but why dress so provacatively still? I believe the reason us men get touchy about this is because we know you are no longer doing it JUST for us and we don't like it... lol

Doesn't that say more about how men view women, though? As well as how men view themselves?...Men either think all women WANT us to look at them ("they want to be objectified!"), or men are so self-centered that we think all decisions that women make revolve around our approval and pleasure, and not their own lol..."She dresses that way because she wants ME to like how she looks"...instead of "She dresses that way because SHE likes how she looks".

Women DO want us men to like how they look, but I sincerely doubt it's the end-all and be-all behind their decision making and choices. I think it centers more around how they view themselves and what best fits their personality, what makes them feel comfortable and confident, etc. They form their own independent style without having to consult anyone about it, at least the women I've gotten to know.
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Reply #93 posted 07/11/08 5:27pm

Ocean

pardonme4livin said:

JessieJ said:


Word.


mad Shut it..... no helping the kiwis dammit.....

No, the kiwi's don't need help ..unlike some whistling
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Reply #94 posted 07/11/08 5:28pm

Ocean

pardonme4livin said:

Ocean said:

See I think that is crap! While yes we do these things and it does attract a mate or we want to look good for one .....how can u decide for the females of the world that that is the only reason we do it...
I mean bascially ur saying every grooming habit is for attracting someone...which is utter rubbish.....


lol I'd have it no other way.... I love it that we agree to disagree on this one... mushy

lol

chair aww ur cute when ur wrong and stupid mushy




lol
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Reply #95 posted 07/11/08 5:31pm

Ocean

JessieJ said:

pardonme4livin said:



mad Shut it..... no helping the kiwis dammit.....

You shut it! mad I'll do whatever I want biggrin I agree with Kylie mr.green

U tell him love lol ...he's a little on the S L O W side neutral
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Reply #96 posted 07/11/08 5:31pm

Ocean

Byron said:

pardonme4livin said:

Why don't you ask the REAL question Kylie...? lol

What she really wants to know is, why do guys who find-->date-->marry a woman who dresses sexy...then "politely" ask that they no longer dress as provacatively as they once did....?

The answer is this....(WARNING!!!! Broad statement alert!)...women dress sexy,get their hair and nails did and generally throw their mack down (referred to hereafter as "fluff" ) to attract a mate....as do WE men....once this is accomplished, what is the point in continuing with ALL of the fluff...?

It appears as though you are still looking for the same feedback and are STILL searching for a mate....

Now we still like you to stay in shape, hair and nails still done...but why dress so provacatively still? I believe the reason us men get touchy about this is because we know you are no longer doing it JUST for us and we don't like it... lol

Doesn't that say more about how men view women, though? As well as how men view themselves?...Men either think all women WANT us to look at them ("they want to be objectified!"), or men are so self-centered that we think all decisions that women make revolve around our approval and pleasure, and not their own lol..."She dresses that way because she wants ME to like how she looks"...instead of "She dresses that way because SHE likes how she looks".

Women DO want us men to like how they look, but I sincerely doubt it's the end-all and be-all behind their decision making and choices. I think it centers more around how they view themselves and what best fits their personality, what makes them feel comfortable and confident, etc. They form their own independent style without having to consult anyone about it, at least the women I've gotten to know.
Yeah what he said lol
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Reply #97 posted 07/11/08 6:44pm

ZombieKitten

I don't dress slutty enough
sad
the master likes it when other guys look, but it rarely happens since I don't get out much.
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Reply #98 posted 07/11/08 6:49pm

Ocean

ZombieKitten said:

I don't dress slutty enough
sad
the master likes it when other guys look, but it rarely happens since I don't get out much.

falloff Get out more girl ...preferably with me batting eyes
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Reply #99 posted 07/11/08 6:50pm

ZombieKitten

Ocean said:

ZombieKitten said:

I don't dress slutty enough
sad
the master likes it when other guys look, but it rarely happens since I don't get out much.

falloff Get out more girl ...preferably with me batting eyes

I'm trying rolleyes
although we can't stand next to each other in public neutral
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Reply #100 posted 07/11/08 6:52pm

Ocean

ZombieKitten said:

Ocean said:


falloff Get out more girl ...preferably with me batting eyes

I'm trying rolleyes
although we can't stand next to each other in public neutral

I agree..u would make my chest look like a couple of pancakes neutral
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Reply #101 posted 07/11/08 6:54pm

ZombieKitten

Ocean said:

ZombieKitten said:


I'm trying rolleyes
although we can't stand next to each other in public neutral

I agree..u would make my chest look like a couple of pancakes neutral

I'm like twice as wide as you bawl
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Reply #102 posted 07/11/08 6:59pm

Ocean

ZombieKitten said:

Ocean said:


I agree..u would make my chest look like a couple of pancakes neutral

I'm like twice as wide as you bawl

eek holy crap I never knew u were friggin insane....ur tiny woman brick
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Reply #103 posted 07/11/08 7:00pm

ZombieKitten

Ocean said:

ZombieKitten said:


I'm like twice as wide as you bawl

eek holy crap I never knew u were friggin insane....ur tiny woman brick

confused
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