pardonme4livin said: JessieJ said: You shut it! I'll do whatever I want I agree with Kylie I have a great visual of you saying this to me... too funny.... Is my hand on my hip and is my neck moving all over the place? 'Cause that's what I'd be doing And my eyes would be all "" .... | |
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Ocean said: applekisses said: And, Kylie, you've never looked slutty - you always look very stylish and beautiful.
Thank u love You're welcome, honey. | |
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pardonme4livin said: Why don't you ask the REAL question Kylie...?
What she really wants to know is, why do guys who find-->date-->marry a woman who dresses sexy...then "politely" ask that they no longer dress as provacatively as they once did....? The answer is this....(WARNING!!!! Broad statement alert!)...women dress sexy,get their hair and nails did and generally throw their mack down (referred to hereafter as "fluff" ) to attract a mate....as do WE men....once this is accomplished, what is the point in continuing with ALL of the fluff...? It appears as though you are still looking for the same feedback and are STILL searching for a mate.... Now we still like you to stay in shape, hair and nails still done...but why dress so provacatively still? I believe the reason us men get touchy about this is because we know you are no longer doing it JUST for us and we don't like it... Doesn't that say more about how men view women, though? As well as how men view themselves?...Men either think all women WANT us to look at them ("they want to be objectified!"), or men are so self-centered that we think all decisions that women make revolve around our approval and pleasure, and not their own lol..."She dresses that way because she wants ME to like how she looks"...instead of "She dresses that way because SHE likes how she looks". Women DO want us men to like how they look, but I sincerely doubt it's the end-all and be-all behind their decision making and choices. I think it centers more around how they view themselves and what best fits their personality, what makes them feel comfortable and confident, etc. They form their own independent style without having to consult anyone about it, at least the women I've gotten to know. | |
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pardonme4livin said: JessieJ said: Word. Shut it..... no helping the kiwis dammit..... No, the kiwi's don't need help ..unlike some | |
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pardonme4livin said: Ocean said: See I think that is crap! While yes we do these things and it does attract a mate or we want to look good for one .....how can u decide for the females of the world that that is the only reason we do it...
I mean bascially ur saying every grooming habit is for attracting someone...which is utter rubbish..... I'd have it no other way.... I love it that we agree to disagree on this one... aww ur cute when ur wrong and stupid | |
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JessieJ said: pardonme4livin said: Shut it..... no helping the kiwis dammit..... You shut it! I'll do whatever I want I agree with Kylie U tell him love ...he's a little on the S L O W side | |
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Byron said: pardonme4livin said: Why don't you ask the REAL question Kylie...?
What she really wants to know is, why do guys who find-->date-->marry a woman who dresses sexy...then "politely" ask that they no longer dress as provacatively as they once did....? The answer is this....(WARNING!!!! Broad statement alert!)...women dress sexy,get their hair and nails did and generally throw their mack down (referred to hereafter as "fluff" ) to attract a mate....as do WE men....once this is accomplished, what is the point in continuing with ALL of the fluff...? It appears as though you are still looking for the same feedback and are STILL searching for a mate.... Now we still like you to stay in shape, hair and nails still done...but why dress so provacatively still? I believe the reason us men get touchy about this is because we know you are no longer doing it JUST for us and we don't like it... Doesn't that say more about how men view women, though? As well as how men view themselves?...Men either think all women WANT us to look at them ("they want to be objectified!"), or men are so self-centered that we think all decisions that women make revolve around our approval and pleasure, and not their own lol..."She dresses that way because she wants ME to like how she looks"...instead of "She dresses that way because SHE likes how she looks". Women DO want us men to like how they look, but I sincerely doubt it's the end-all and be-all behind their decision making and choices. I think it centers more around how they view themselves and what best fits their personality, what makes them feel comfortable and confident, etc. They form their own independent style without having to consult anyone about it, at least the women I've gotten to know. | |
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I don't dress slutty enough
the master likes it when other guys look, but it rarely happens since I don't get out much. | |
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ZombieKitten said: I don't dress slutty enough
the master likes it when other guys look, but it rarely happens since I don't get out much. Get out more girl ...preferably with me | |
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Ocean said: ZombieKitten said: I don't dress slutty enough
the master likes it when other guys look, but it rarely happens since I don't get out much. Get out more girl ...preferably with me I'm trying although we can't stand next to each other in public | |
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ZombieKitten said: Ocean said: Get out more girl ...preferably with me I'm trying although we can't stand next to each other in public I agree..u would make my chest look like a couple of pancakes | |
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Ocean said: ZombieKitten said: I'm trying although we can't stand next to each other in public I agree..u would make my chest look like a couple of pancakes I'm like twice as wide as you | |
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ZombieKitten said: Ocean said: I agree..u would make my chest look like a couple of pancakes I'm like twice as wide as you holy crap I never knew u were friggin insane....ur tiny woman | |
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Ocean said: ZombieKitten said: I'm like twice as wide as you holy crap I never knew u were friggin insane....ur tiny woman | |
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